Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

NormanConnors

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I never ask about exes because I honestly dont care

asking about ex's can help you prepare for some troublesome shyt down the line, ...saved my ass a couple times where otherwise i would have been caugth off guard. I'm not saying ask directly, but you can fit it into convo in a slick type of way.
 

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If this isn't ice-cold, I don't know what else is. What's sad is he will probably have to pay alimony and child support as well as giving up the house and half of the other assets... excon boyfriend gets a free come-up off his back. you better be doubly careful about intertwining your assets with a woman, and yes, that includes outside of a marriage as well.
he might as well leave her now.
 

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here goes another little article that tells you how women really detest obedient, cater to them men:

http://www.salon.com/2013/08/12/i_love_and_hate_dating_russian_men/

That article is so form-fitting to the caricatures that it is amazing.
" I’ve heard of guys crawling through windows and appearing naked in bedrooms. I had female friends who had no idea they were apparently someone’s girlfriend. The American teachers at my language school had a phrase to describe dating Russian men. It was “No Means Yes, and Yes Means Anal.”

LMAO
 

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If this isn't ice-cold, I don't know what else is. What's sad is he will probably have to pay alimony and child support as well as giving up the house and half of the other assets... excon boyfriend gets a free come-up off his back. you better be doubly careful about intertwining your assets with a woman, and yes, that includes outside of a marriage as well.

word to the wise: dont :cape:these women,:cape:your money
 

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keep your respect intact no matter what. you dont own p*ssy it will do what it wants, so make sure you keep your manhood and respect right because that you can control. the one thing that you can take with you at the end of a relationship is your respect. and if youre smart, then your money as well.
 
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Brehs this is a long post:manny: ...but it its somrthing that I felt like needed to be said

One of the things that enslavement of africans did in america was it upset the natural gender balance between the black male and female. Its made the black women the controller and power force in the black community emasculated the black men and reduced him almost down to nothing . We have always had this issue since being here it that way because empowerment of the blac women by white society and the emasulation of the black man by the same society . Right now in amercia we are the only ethic group in this country were the black women have more education than the men and earn more than the black man. No other ethnic group has this problem. And it was deliberately engineered that way by the american social order to create choas in the black home. And in it of itself its not a problem that black women has more education and income. What makes it a problem is when she pshycologically draws conclusions about the black man as a result of him not being on her same social, economical, and educational level. So it makes it difficult for a black women to be with a black man who dosent equally her eduaction and income because she feels that because shes the one with more money or education she should have a right to dominat him. And no self-respecting black man is going to let a black women run his life.

She-male personality- Black women who is conditioned eduacated and nurtured by the american social order to conduct, think, behave and feel as a man ...physically she is a women but physiologically she has the personality of a european alpha male.

...We engage relationships as a drug. People get into relationship to find some one to distract them from their personal (BS)...their intrested in someone to help them feel better about the fact that they dont wanna do anything about were they are personally and in their life.

Women of other cultures are not masculinized...there still feminine and they love thier femininity....Only the black women have to think and to function like a man feel she is succesful .

-Dr umar Johnson
 

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If this isn't ice-cold, I don't know what else is. What's sad is he will probably have to pay alimony and child support as well as giving up the house and half of the other assets... excon boyfriend gets a free come-up off his back. you better be doubly careful about intertwining your assets with a woman, and yes, that includes outside of a marriage as well.

Man, that story is crazy. $15,000?
 

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I had another long talk with my mom today, had to send her a email of nearly 1,000 words of all the pain i've been carrying the past ten years, i told her of all the days and nights I battled through sadness and pain all alone. I shed a few tears :ehh:, but I feel so much better.
 

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I've definitely heard stories about how cold russian women can be
 

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One of the best lessons I've learned is to stay within my zone and let those women that don't fit in it go. Conversations I have with some women are so easy going and flow all day. With others, it's like pulling teeth. When I was younger, I'd probably blame the lack of smooth conversation with some particular woman on myself and try harder, therefore setting me up as a 'try hard', but now I'll back up off that woman because I know that there are other women who the conversation is just glorious. I just have to find them and stop wasting time with the ones I don't have a connection with. If the interest or chemistry isn't there, you are wasting your time 8 times out of 10 trying to force the issue. There are exceptions of men who start off cold with women and keep pursuing and something springs forth, but that's not really my style. There's no need for me to work hard for the attention of one woman when there's another whose willing to give her attention to me much more easily. Learn to stay in your zone.
 
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I had another long talk with my mom today, had to send her a email of nearly 1,000 words of all the pain i've been carrying the past ten years, i told her of all the days and nights I battled through sadness and pain all alone. I shed a few tears :ehh:, but I feel so much better.

I plan on writing my mom a letter about some thing's that I have been wanting to say for a long time. I plan on doing this before I go to basic training. My mother was not the best women to my father (they are divorced). She is not the best women for relationships ...and seeing this growing up it had give me trust issues threw the years until I was at least 25. My farther and I bump heads cause I don't like my stepmother ...she psychologically abusive. She takes advantage of the fact that my dad is not very ...knowledgeable when he it come to women so ..yeah she runs the house. I guess I gotta have a convo with my father to... its a lot of things I have been holding onto but to be clear I don't think I will ever like my stepmother thoe.
 
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I have not wanted kids since I was 19 ...does this make me a bad person. I'm just need some opinions cause when I say this in all honesty to people they look at me like I have ...eaten babies or something :snoop:
 

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Now since this last post, I kind of fell back on shorty at the job and we don't talk or text on the phone like we used to(i haven't/she hasn't called/texted in a while) and today at work after not really paying her too much attention she talking to me saying that I've been acting real different lately. After a little chit chat with her I'm just standing at this desk in the back of the office behind the wall of the front office and she came in to get something. Now this back area is pretty tight so whenever it's more than one person there people usually have to squeeze through but it's usually not extreme to where you're physically touching someone. So i'm standing writing something on a desk and my back is to her as she's coming in and she PURPOSELY slide up on me pressing her ass cheeks on me but the thing that made me like :aicmon: was that the manager was right there but his back was facing us so he couldn't see. That's the second time she done some shyt like that where she purposely tried rubbing her body on me at work. No lie that shyt got me aroused as her ass felt soft but :damn: she basically teasing. I didn't say nothing though.

you should have just :yeshrug: and put her on the spot about her behavior when she told you you were acting different. you're acting different is woman speak for "you're not letting me get away with my games anymore".
 
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