Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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="Soundbwoy, post: 5186104, member: 549"]do you guys text or call everyday ?

Nope I don't call my mom or text her every day and I love her more than any women
 

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My boy and his babymama just put all they drama on Facebook :damn:

This chick already had 4 kids from previous relationships, and this fool gets her pregnant :snoop:
 

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talking is the best way to catch someone slipping. dont judge her, just listen. make it seem like its sweet for a second. when theyre drunk or laughing, theyll slip. or even when shes mad. or just ask about her day. learn to listen to a woman and youll get a lot more than what shes saying if you can peep her out and read between the lines. let her talk but dont lead her too heavy

Getting someone liquored up is the best way to get to know someone. That's when they start spilling their guts and a lot of answers you'll get isn't as thought out as when they're sober. It's actually quite funny when you think about it.

I remember I was dating this one broad who seemed a little off. We ended up chilling at a bar near her crib and got pretty wasted. Next thing you know, she starts telling me how she was being molested by her pops. :whoa: Later on started hinting that her ex husband did shyt to her as well. :whoa: It was early on in our developing relationship so I was glad that night happened because I cut her off shortly after. The woman had serious issues.
 

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Getting someone liquored up is the best way to get to know someone. That's when they start spilling their guts and a lot of answers you'll get isn't as thought out as when they're sober. It's actually quite funny when you think about it.

I remember I was dating this one broad who seemed a little off. We ended up chilling at a bar near her crib and got pretty wasted. Next thing you know, she starts telling me how she was being molested by her pops. :whoa: Later on started hinting that her ex husband did shyt to her as well. :whoa: It was early on in our developing relationship so I was glad that night happened because I cut her off shortly after. The woman had serious issues.

i agree its the truth serum, especially for women
 

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my ex drank around me before but she never got drunk and she was reluctant too...i always figured she didnt wanna start spilling er guts
 

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Real talk, you can def. tell when a chick is feeling you

Ive met a couple of chicks in the last few weeks, but I never hear from them unless I hit them up, and there answers are usually short. Im talking to 2 chicks (one of which im meeting up with tomorrow night) and both hit me up the same amount if not more than I hit them up. One of the chicks honestly sends me good morning text and if she doesnt hear from me by usually 2pm, she will hit me up, always wanting to see me, etc. When you really pay attention to women, its so obvious which ones are actually into you
 

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one thing that a lot of males today dont get is that you dont have to be mr likeable, or be a gentleman to get a woman to want you. as a matter of fact, doing that could really work against you. being too laid back and being too agreeable can actually hurt you. especially if its an act because women can see some things that you might think they cant.

so you suggest acting like an ass wipe to get more women
 

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one thing that a lot of males today dont get is that you dont have to be mr likeable, or be a gentleman to get a woman to want you. as a matter of fact, doing that could really work against you. being too laid back and being too agreeable can actually hurt you. especially if its an act because women can see some things that you might think they cant.

so you suggest acting like an ass wipe to get more women

no. never said that. I said that women can want a man without liking him. then I broke down three ways its relevant to you. if youre trying to get to know a girl, dont be afraid if she disagrees with you. being yourself is more important than trying to be well liked and well recieved all the time. keep your respect over everything. she can still be on you even if she doesnt like you. you see that with girls who gold dig with men that they dont really like. that attraction is drawn from his money. or a woman who picks a man who fukks her and dogs her out. she might not like him as a person, but she likes the thrill and the sex. so women can want men that they dont like. you can see that all of that other shyt really doesnt matter to be mr nice guy and to play the gentleman role. especially if that shyt is just an act youre putting on just so she can feel you. a woman can still desire a man she doesnt even really like. its one to grow on

then I said its good to know that fact because women who occupy their time thinking about men they dont like, is bad since what theyre doing is spending their energy and emotions on them. from that theyre already putting you in the background by making this guy important. shes feeling this other guy, just off the strength of not liking him. hate and love are actually very close to each other, especially for girls

lastly I said its bad to fall into a rut with women who want that tension. understand it doesnt matter if you and your spouse dont share the same things in common all the times, because attraction most of the times come from our differences - or are based on how much you desire and care about the other person. so you can have a relationship where you dont have to like everything about the other person or their opinions, the attraction can still be there. but both of yall should work to make sure that both sides are satified with what they want. she might want attention or to feel that tension a bit every now and then. and a man more often than not wants peace. so finding that balance I think is important.
 
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If this isn't ice-cold, I don't know what else is. What's sad is he will probably have to pay alimony and child support as well as giving up the house and half of the other assets... excon boyfriend gets a free come-up off his back. you better be doubly careful about intertwining your assets with a woman, and yes, that includes outside of a marriage as well.
https://www.facebook.com/GFC.Convo/posts/562931367107656

GFCAV FRIEND QUESTION:

My wife and I have been married for 2 years. She just recently came to me and ask if I could help her ex boyfriend(whose a nothing ass bum and spends all his time in and out of jail)get himself an apartment and a car. My first question is why in the f*ck are you even talking to his nothing ass. She told me she spoke with him on facebook and he gave her some weak ass sob story and said he was trying to get his life on track. I honestly almost called my wife a bytch(I didn't let it slip out). You did not come to me, your husband, and ask me to give you money for your nothing ass ex. I shot that sh*t down, hell no not happening. So 2 weeks ago when it came time for me to pay the bills I'm noticing that 15,000 is missing out of our joint bank account. As soon as a saw how much was missing I just knew she took money out, so I confronted her about it. She denied it at first, but let her know that 15,000 dollars don't just get up and walk out of a bank account. She finally confessed(3 days later) to taking money out and giving it to her ex. Now I am so beyond pissed, you went behind my back took money out the joint account(mind you the money in the joint account is used to pay bills, the mortgage etc), and gave it to your ex? She said she just wanted to help, but fukk that. He's not our problem. Now I just don't trust her at all, and I honestly lost a little bit of respect for her. This dude was horrible to her. He was mentally and verbally abusive, even beating her while she was pregnant and caused her to have an abortion. The fukk do you want to help him for? I'm at a loss, and I'm honestly thinking that she may be sleeping with him but it could just be my mind going into over drive, I have no proof of it. I just really don't know what to do. I'm thinking about divorcing her, but this is really the only fukked up thing she's done. She's a great wife and mother to our kids, but damn. This sh*t hurts me, why do something like this?
 
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