Essential Quick gems for dealing with men thread :lolbron:

[Chill]

How do you let someone down easy?
I've been breaking up with the same guy at least 10 times now. He just won't let me go and I've given up.
He doesn't understand that the more time he spends with me the more he'll fall in love but I'll always want out.
I've tried being clear and direct, I've ghosted, I've been mean and awful, I have done everything.Someone please help

Just block him, stay ghosted. Start spending time with someone else and make sure he knows about it. Stop giving him attention. Attention=Hope.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

How do you let someone down easy?
I've been breaking up with the same guy at least 10 times now. He just won't let me go and I've given up.
He doesn't understand that the more time he spends with me the more he'll fall in love but I'll always want out.
I've tried being clear and direct, I've ghosted, I've been mean and awful, I have done everything.Someone please help

By not leading them on

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Wow u have no respect for men

Reason why she single

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Fellas.. Study the enemy..

 

[Abayo]

Just block him, stay ghosted. Start spending time with someone else and make sure he knows about it. Stop giving him attention. Attention=Hope.

I did block him, I even blocked unknown numbers. He started calling me from other people's phones. I blocked him on social media and he makes new ones and start talking to me from there. Idk what to do.

By not leading them on

Didn't lead him on, was 100% from the start

 

[Chill]

I did block him, I even blocked unknown numbers. He started calling me from other people's phones. I blocked him on social media and he makes new ones and start talking to me from there. Idk what to do.


Didn't lead him on, was 100% from the start

Do you have any male friends that can confront him about this?

 

[Crayola Coyote]

can someone drop some gems about dealing w/ men while in college.
and before anybody says it, my mother already said "easy, you don't" lol
a lot of the guys at my school are into that whole friends with benefits/fukk buddy shyt, nobody just wants an exclusive committed relationship and it pisses me off. bleh.

It's a waste of time. Just be a fukk buddy

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I did block him, I even blocked unknown numbers. He started calling me from other people's phones. I blocked him on social media and he makes new ones and start talking to me from there. Idk what to do.


Didn't lead him on, was 100% from the start

Right

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Men are not prizes. They come easily and go easier.

There are more good women than men. There just are. So dont assume every guy you meet is a good man. Have some discernment.

He'll keep disrespecting you if you let him thats just men theyre like kids poking at their parents to see how far they can get.

If he aint spending money on you hes playing you. nikkas are connected to their wallets. Men are obsessed with getting and hoarding money. Women with spending it. If hes not letting you enjoy yourself on his dime hes saving it for the chick he can respect.

If he was bad to his previous women, youre no different.

No man gonna check for you with this attitude

 

[Abayo]

Do you have any male friends that can confront him about this?

I don't have any male friends
I'd talk to his brother but I don't want to take it that far

Right

?

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Because these men don't truly care what comes out of the mouths of these women 99% of the time.
Women have a sense of humor no less than men, men just focus so much on the physical aspect of the woman (which she can sense) that they never truly allow her to let her guard down.

That or there's just no chemistry, move on



Thank you for this advice. I never thought about it this way.

There's this one kid I know who clearly wants to sleep with me, but I still hang with him every so often just to get out of the house.

I told him I'm only intimate with men I'm in a relationship with and now all of a sudden he's talking all
"wow, we have so much in common" "i like you" "what would it take for us to be in a relationship?"

I'm just shyt came off mad suspicious especially since he already let his intentions be known, now I can't take anything he says afterwards seriously which is sad cus he's a cool kid

But I'll make sure never to bring that up to the next potential guy.

So why are you holding him hostage?

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I did block him, I even blocked unknown numbers. He started calling me from other people's phones. I blocked him on social media and he makes new ones and start talking to me from there. Idk what to do.


Didn't lead him on, was 100% from the start

No reason you should be talking to him if you are not going to fuk him or introduce him to your friends for him to fuk. You are wasting his time.

 

[CinnaSlim]

How do you let someone down easy?
I've been breaking up with the same guy at least 10 times now. He just won't let me go and I've given up.
He doesn't understand that the more time he spends with me the more he'll fall in love but I'll always want out.
I've tried being clear and direct, I've ghosted, I've been mean and awful, I have done everything.Someone please help

Then you stop messing with him. DONT GIVE IN. Dont give that nikka hope. You cant help how he feels but just do you, boo. If he never gets the message then thats his problem.

 

[全能の神]

Very interesting thread. One of these posts were about me

 

[Chill]

I don't have any male friends
I'd talk to his brother but I don't want to take it that far



?

It might have to be taken that far.