Essential Quick gems for dealing with men thread :lolbron:

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There's stability (emotional support) and there's security (financial). As long as you're not financially irresponsible, she shouldn't be worried. And honestly there's no such thing as "good enough." The only way you couldn't be "good enough" is if you're living a destructive lifestyle (drugs, gambling, etc.). As long as y'all are on the same page and are honest with each other (kind but honest), y'all should be good. A man is more than his paycheck.

I cant front...I am financially irresponsible :wow: I was in the streets most my life (hustling) so I was basically irresponsible my whole life smh. The money i made wasnt real so I wasnt real with it. Now that im trying to do the right thing....Im playing catch up

I wouldnt say my lifestyle is destructive but I did drink alot...I cut down on that tho.

Ive been a savage most my life :snoop:
 

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Is she being different towards you in a better way?

I wouldn't so better, no. She just likes to say she doesn't care ...basically playing the "unbothered" role.

I guess thats what happens when you cheat on a chick...but why come back if you gonna act shady?
 

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How many of you chicks got back with a man after a breakup and became a whole new person towards him? Kinda what im dealing with right now. Girl is on a whole "New Me" type of thing. Kind of annoying but I cant really blame her.
The one you cheated on and whose sister you want to get with?
 

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How do I reconcile my feelings for this white dude I just met with my #ColiMilitantcy

Honestly, I can separate historical events from INDIVIDUAL people, and I've honestly never had a problem with white people interpersonally BUT as a Black woman should I be more suspicious of a white man. This guy is super dope, he's handsome, manly, kind, hardworking. And he's a grown ass man.

I've been around white people my whole life, but I've never give a white man a chance...

What's happening to me?

As a matter of fact, he's a man to me. Just like any other man. The only reason I'm pointing out that he's white is because I'm posting on the Coli.

He's soooo masculine. Hunting, fishing, horseback riding and all that other shyt. And he has a pickup truck soooo high that I damn near need a ladder to get in.

It was love at first sight though.

Am I getting soft?:wow:
I had to read this shyt for myself after it was quoted.

The trolling is strong in your post.
 

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@Spotlessmind what color is your lipstick :jbhmm:?

What workouts do you do :jbhmm:?

What does your diet look like :jbhmm:?

I have red, mauve, purple, maroon, and nude right now.

My last work was 35 min of the elliptical, and about 40 min on the weight machines.

Umm a mix of healthy and cheats. The meals I planned for this week are really clean I'll probably have 2-3 cheats.

Why :jbhmm:
 

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I have red, mauve, purple, maroon, and nude right now.

My last work was 35 min of the elliptical, and about 40 min on the weight machines.

Umm a mix of healthy and cheats. The meals I planned for this week are really clean I'll probably have 2-3 cheats.

Why :jbhmm:
Is red your favorite :jbhmm:?

Do you like squats :jbhmm:?

So you're still eating veggies :jbhmm:?
 
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