There's stability (emotional support) and there's security (financial). As long as you're not financially irresponsible, she shouldn't be worried. And honestly there's no such thing as "good enough." The only way you couldn't be "good enough" is if you're living a destructive lifestyle (drugs, gambling, etc.). As long as y'all are on the same page and are honest with each other (kind but honest), y'all should be good. A man is more than his paycheck.
I cant front...I am financially irresponsible I was in the streets most my life (hustling) so I was basically irresponsible my whole life smh. The money i made wasnt real so I wasnt real with it. Now that im trying to do the right thing....Im playing catch up
I wouldnt say my lifestyle is destructive but I did drink alot...I cut down on that tho.
Ive been a savage most my life