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KinksandCoils
African American Queen
yes we are very different. a woman is not gonna be like my man does everything for me already why should I marry him?Wait, so "women are different than men" is plausible in this cirumstance but not in others? Seems disingenuous and indulgent.
If a man should be ok with 50, then I don't see why a woman shouldn't get 50. Equality
Peace
That's a mans logic not a woman's.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
it basically shows how ungrateful some men can be.Exactly, If a man I love is treating me like his wife and he asks me to marry him, then hell yeah I'm going to marry himwhy wouldn't I?
It's MEN that think "why should I marry her if I'm already getting everything".
I want to. But she doesn't. Right now. She hasn't gave me the fatal "I'm done forever there's no chance at all blah blah" she just says "I'm just worrying about today"
She did say she really loves me the other day tho. I don't know.. I think she's just trying to make me suffer
I really can't call it. That's why I said I'm not hitting her up for 30 days to see what comes from it
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
No offense.
but you have to look at from your ex's perspective, they cooked for you, cleaned for you, they were great women but you're still not with them after all of that,you just moved on and found someone else. Women are emotional, giving your all to a man and having it go nowhere is not good for you. It will take a toll on you. You guys shyt on bitter women on here all the time but this is how they're made. We've learned from other women's mistakes. I only give 50% and I'm getting married in October, your ex gave 100% percent and she's your ex.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
sounds like she is talking to another man and trying to see how that goes, and if it doesn't go well she will try to make it work with you.
Basically she is treating you how men treat women all the time.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
I did all I could for a nikka and he cheated, did something else and I basically ended up at the police station over this nikka. Now I will never do more than 50% for a nikka. He ruined it.No offense.
but you have to look at from your ex's perspective, they cooked for you, cleaned for you, they were great women but you're still not with them after all of that,you just moved on and found someone else. Women are emotional, giving your all to a man and having it go nowhere is not good for you. It will take a toll on you. You guys shyt on bitter women on here all the time but this is how they're made. We've learned from other women's mistakes. I only give 50% and I'm getting married in October, your ex gave 100% percent and she's your ex.
Damn yea I feel you on that and it makes sense when u put it that way.
I know of a guy she talks to. Some guy I would never picture her with lol but I can tell he has his shyt together (maybe not but my insecurities say he does) and he probably pays for her fun etc...
She says "it's not that serious" , "fukk him" , "he's just cool"
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
sorry that happened to you, brehette.I've seen the same thing happen to so many women, it's heartbreaking.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Damn, u see how I don't even know u and I figured it out? It's really easy to figure out when a woman is playing you. Basically you will know when she start saying shyt that a man would say.
it's a lesson learned. It happened in 2010 thanks.
I've seen the same thing happen to so many women, it's heartbreaking.
So my best bet is to stick to my little 30 day plan, give her time/space and see what happens?
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
your best bet is to sit there and really think To yourself whether you want her back or not.
I do. 100% not even a doubt about it.
I'm sick without her. I miss her my daughter misses her I miss her family she misses mine.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
if you don't give her an ultimatum then she is going to play you out. Tell her you aren't going to be doing this back in fourth crap where you chill and act like you are cool with me but yet don't want to be with me.