Someone else who he still won't marry.
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mcdivit85
Superstar
Most of that is as a result of being young and immature....not because they were great girlfriends.
Matter of fact, if they weren't so good, they wouldn't have been my girlfriends anyway.
Peace
mcdivit85
Superstar
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
you're exactly the type of men that we're talking about. You want women to give 110% percent so you can use them up then throw them away when you want something different. Yet you're acting like we're sooo wrong for being this way.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Someone else who he still won't marry.
men crack me up
We're literally describing him but he's acting like we're being ridiculous.
mcdivit85
Superstar
I'm just asking questions to gain understanding
And you're playa-shaming
Peace
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I'm just asking questions to gain understanding
And you're playa-shaming
Peace
basically we're attempting to avoid men like you.
Good luck
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Women are different than men. There is a reason why a woman shouldn't treat Her boyfriend as her husband and that's based off of how society is towards men and relationships. Men aren't really taught that marriage is a big deal. That's why the wedding is always viewed as the woman's big day, and that's why she does the big planning. Basically by giving a woman all you have to offer her is not going to make her feel like it's pointless marrying you. Most women want to get married. To answer your question yes a woman can be treated as your wife if that's what u want now of course if you don't want to treat her as such than don't.
If a chick broke up with me (after 7 years) but occasionally still kicks it with me, stays the night, speaks to my daughter, texts with me... Hasn't completely cut me off (it's been 3 months) what do you think that's about? She playing with me? Does this show me I can get her back if I get my shyt together?
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Exactly, If a man I love is treating me like his wife and he asks me to marry him, then hell yeah I'm going to marry him
why wouldn't I?It's MEN that think "why should I marry her if I'm already getting everything".
mcdivit85
Superstar
Wait, so "women are different than men" is plausible in this cirumstance but not in others? Seems disingenuous and indulgent.
If a man should be ok with 50, then I don't see why a woman shouldn't get 50. Equality
Peace
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
She's probably slowly getting over you. 7 years is a long time to be together, it would be kind of hard to just cut someone off completely after that long. You might be able to get her back but she won't be the same.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
in reality people talk tough and act like when they are done with someone they are done and never truly speak with them, and for some cases this is true. But I think in life there is always someone we go back and fourth and keep dealing with, then not dealing with, then deal with them again. Basically she might not want to be with you but she's used to u. Unless u completely cut her off expect to be hearing from her for a while. She might have to ween her self from you slowly. Clearly u still want her so maybe YALL should try again????