“ Protect all black women. Not just the ones you’re attracted to”

[HarlemHottie]

New Orleans and Atlanta.

BTW, I prefer a patriarchal society but not in its current form. Media has distorted the image of the black male, life imitates art way too often, and its time for that to change.

Expand on your vision. What are your expectations of men and women?

 

[2phat]

I've been saying this for the longest. This and colorism need to be addressed on mainstream because these bytches will burn down the planet if they don't get chose.

Colorism has nothing to do with attractiveness. Typical gaslighting.

 

[SAINT]

I find all of this to be ridiculous tbh.

I work with a couple of wild, loud mouth, completely unprofessional chics and I'm still able to respect them first as black women, second as human beings.

Folk gone do what they want to in the end so lemme get out of this circle jerk of a thread.

No one in here believes black women shouldn’t be respected. you get what you give irregardless who you are, she said “protect” though, we don’t even know what that means.

 

[SAINT]

Colorism has nothing to do with attractiveness. Typical gaslighting.

did everyone learn the term gaslighting a few weeks ago? Got damn

 

[blase_chic]

Expand on your vision. What are your expectations of men and women?

Maybe some other time. The wind done got knocked out of my sails a bit. Never expected this much traction for using an example of how my dad showed me an example of what a man should look like (to me).

Yall making my nerves bad lol.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

Yep. Her and @Nicole0416

Twitter birds and ugly women always are ugly by the anger they hold in. They never have this energy against CACs.

Never had problems like these discussed in here. Be she’s us felt protected and aligned with black men and support them. Oh this must be yet another 20th thread this week where the bucks and wenches are fighting for their right to white again. The c00ns and c00nettes too busy fighting with each other than to focus on the war outside in front of them. Rinse, repeat. Let me also guess, a few posters threw in the words “colorism, misogynist, Twitter patriarch,nonblack, interracial, intersectional, toxic.. blah blah” Real original and inspiring, thought provoking shyt here *sarcasm


I’m busy researching the lynchings of black men that have been going on these past 2 weeks, doing shyt that actually matters that could impact policy and not contributing to the gender division and dysfunction. I’ll turn out the lights on my way out.

 

[Wild self]

I think theres a very real discussion to be had about toxic masculinity, misogyny, and how in the YOoL 2020, Black Women are still very objectified by a European Standard of Beauty.

After a discussion with my girl, that last point is something that Ive realized as a man, i will never understand.

Lets keep it 100: Men are largely able to create value based off of their wit, intellect, wealth, success with physical attractiveness largely not mattering. Whereas even in modern times, post feminism, post women in the work place, the more attractive a woman (which is largely based on Euro standards), the more shes able to manuever through life.

Ive been a professional worker for about 10 years now, and id be a liar if i dont see it happen. So imagine being a woman where you notice every instance of being judged based on your looks (in addition to race, religion, etc).

WITH THAT SAID

I consider it one of the greatest victories of White Supremacy, that Black Women think this sort of plight is unique to Black Women.

Ive been raised around cacs most of my life (dad was an army vet). So lemme tell you, Cacs hate their women. DESPISE them.

Ive never seen a group of men be so emasculated by the slightest bit of individuality and independence. Especially if its sexual.

For fun insight, go to any barstool sports IG meme featuring a beautiful cac woman and the most liked post will 90% of the time be some white frat boy shytting on the chick in the post. I guarantee it.

It really is a grass aint always greener scenario. Due to the socioeconomic history of Black folks, YES, things like domestic violence probably does skew higher along with familial abandonment.

But on the other side of that? With Cacs and Arabs and Asians? They expect pure submission from their women. They beat their women, their women just dont report it. They dont want their women to work or have a presence in the household. They are FAR more judgmental of sexual history, out of wedlock children, and body types.

Whereas Black Men IMO and from my perspective, are much more open to individuality, independence, curves, women with kids and yes even body counts (despite what the coli perpetuates).

Things are far from perfect, but its *problematic* in my opinion to contextualize misogyny as JUST the moral failings of Black Men and not men in general.

Not really. Nowadays, the beauty is set in the standards of body shape and body parts of a woman based off of IG. A dkinny white woman with long blonde hair and blue eyes ain't gonna get as far as that mixed race/"exotic" ethnic woman with a natural big ass ans an hourglass figure. Which is why secretaries on many companiies have visually attractive women of those body shapes.

 

[Wild self]

So let me get this right, the same men they call bullet bags, are supposed to protect them?

Crazy, aint it? That qualifies those particular set of confused women to be in mental hospitals.

 

[Wild self]

I enjoy and benefit from patriarchy. I have no problem with it.

At the time, just off the strength of racial pride, i expect our men to defend our women.

However, that becomes difficult when the very same women expecting protection shyt on bm everyday.

Our duty as bp trying to pull our communities back together after ther ravages of the 80s and 90 is to... come back together. We should all be on the humble (toward each other), in an effort to reconnect and rebuild strong families and communities.

Where your ppl from?

Anybody not on code, is an agent for CACs. Notice who never comes to black empowerment threads and never (at least) lurk on The Root.

 

[number21]

You fukkin guys are clowns

This has nothing to do with you. bytch ass cac.

 

[Wild self]

I find all of this to be ridiculous tbh.

I work with a couple of wild, loud mouth, completely unprofessional chics and I'm still able to respect them first as black women, second as human beings.

Folk gone do what they want to in the end so lemme get out of this circle jerk of a thread.

You should have came here back in 2014 to early 2017....that was when your philosophy was rampant.

 

[ba'al]

You fukkin guys are clowns

Means a lot coming from a white man.

 

[Bawon Samedi]

This is surprisingly hard to answer bc the benefits of patriarchy permeate all areas of life.

I rarely touch a door. Men rush to my defense. Cab drivers help with with my stuff. If i walk into a venue alone, I'm guaranteed several drinks and possibly a meal, with no expectation of recompense, because men. If it's a sketchy hood, men i don't know from Adam will protect me. Just the other day, habibi at the store was being friendly and a young breh was like, "you ain't slick, stop tryna flirt on the low. ' I could go on and on...


It's like a superpower. Idky more women don't take advantage.

Spoiler

Just for reference, before anybody comes on here to tell me im downtrodden and unaware, I'm better educated than you and could probably take your job after drinks with your boss, no cap. Ive been offered excellent jobs I'm not even qualified for, again, because patriarchy.

I can tell you were raised around quality men in your life. Now what about financial support? How about you tell these sistas about that too.

I would tell him, but everytime i inform him on the goings on of shea butter Twitter, he says it himself.

Not tryna simp especially since you ALREADY got a man but you the type of Black woman that deserves protection. I know we had our disagreements but you not afraid go against the herd.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

This is surprisingly hard to answer bc the benefits of patriarchy permeate all areas of life.

I rarely touch a door. Men rush to my defense. Cab drivers help with with my stuff. If i walk into a venue alone, I'm guaranteed several drinks and possibly a meal, with no expectation of recompense, because men. If it's a sketchy hood, men i don't know from Adam will protect me. Just the other day, habibi at the store was being friendly and a young breh was like, "you ain't slick, stop tryna flirt on the low. ' I could go on and on...


It's like a superpower. Idky more women don't take advantage.

Spoiler

Just for reference, before anybody comes on here to tell me im downtrodden and unaware, I'm better educated than you and could probably take your job after drinks with your boss, no cap. Ive been offered excellent jobs I'm not even qualified for, again, because patriarchy.

I would tell him, but everytime i inform him on the goings on of shea butter Twitter, he says it himself.

.. you already Know.

There’s a reason why we’re not all through these threads whining and complaining about what men lack or “don’t do” with the negativity. I can’t relate to basic bitter bytch reject problems either. That Red Carpet, Carte Blanche treatment hits kind of different. Real recognizes..

 

[Lucky_Lefty]

I’d love for her to say that to my cousin who’s son got some rowdy ass dudes off this woman he didn’t even know at a house party in Oakland. They followed him back to his spot and killed him for it.

But this entire back and forth amongst BW & BM is tiring