“ Protect all black women. Not just the ones you’re attracted to”

[blase_chic]

Ehh.
Women overvalue themselves all the time.

Lemme catfish you right quick so you think I'm pretty. Brb

But first, why am I being quoted so much? Struck some nerves or nah?

 

[Deafheaven]

Lemme catfish you right quick so you think I'm pretty. Brb

You bout lame as hell beloved

 

[Sterling Archer]

It mattered to the women who had to go through those situations and survived

It didnt matter because it didnt happen. None of the women that people have been fighting for and marching were attractive. This is just a dumb bytch tweeting shyt and you parroting it. The statement is true because yes, it shouldnt ever matter. But what the statement is implying, has never occurred and that is why it doesnt matter.

 

[Astroslik]

Lemme catfish you right quick so you think I'm pretty. Brb

But first, why am I being quoted so much? Struck some nerves or nah?

I quoted you once.

 

[The Fade]

I think theres a very real discussion to be had about toxic masculinity, misogyny, and how in the YOoL 2020, Black Women are still very objectified by a European Standard of Beauty.

After a discussion with my girl, that last point is something that Ive realized as a man, i will never understand.

Lets keep it 100: Men are largely able to create value based off of their wit, intellect, wealth, success with physical attractiveness largely not mattering. Whereas even in modern times, post feminism, post women in the work place, the more attractive a woman (which is largely based on Euro standards), the more shes able to manuever through life.

Ive been a professional worker for about 10 years now, and id be a liar if i dont see it happen. So imagine being a woman where you notice every instance of being judged based on your looks (in addition to race, religion, etc).

WITH THAT SAID

I consider it one of the greatest victories of White Supremacy, that Black Women think this sort of plight is unique to Black Women.

Ive been raised around cacs most of my life (dad was an army vet). So lemme tell you, Cacs hate their women. DESPISE them.

Ive never seen a group of men be so emasculated by the slightest bit of individuality and independence. Especially if its sexual.

For fun insight, go to any barstool sports IG meme featuring a beautiful cac woman and the most liked post will 90% of the time be some white frat boy shytting on the chick in the post. I guarantee it.

It really is a grass aint always greener scenario. Due to the socioeconomic history of Black folks, YES, things like domestic violence probably does skew higher along with familial abandonment.

But on the other side of that? With Cacs and Arabs and Asians? They expect pure submission from their women. They beat their women, their women just dont report it. They dont want their women to work or have a presence in the household. They are FAR more judgmental of sexual history, out of wedlock children, and body types.

Whereas Black Men IMO and from my perspective, are much more open to individuality, independence, curves, women with kids and yes even body counts (despite what the coli perpetuates).

Things are far from perfect, but its *problematic* in my opinion to contextualize misogyny as JUST the moral failings of Black Men and not men in general.

Word. I follow banger buddy. Every white model and tik tok 100% gets shyt on by white dudes. They say worse stuff than us

And IM not even in favor for a patriarchy. I don’t like submission from women. Most of the time I see it as someone having ulterior motives playing a long game. Just be yourself and if we don’t see eye to eye on something we’ll both deal with whatever consequences.

I just don’t want the women to see men being ok with them doing them as a weakness and an excuse to try and exert power over us. I’m not liking the attack dog designation we’re getting. I don’t like the establishment of some kind of false leverage over us either.

 

[GPBear]

You fukkin guys are clowns

 

[blase_chic]

I quoted you once.

Dude, reading comprehension is a thing. I clearly wasn't talking about just you.

 

[WakandanPride]

I don't agree with this. This mentality is selfish and part of the reason why we're divided. If one of your homies do something horrible to a woman, are you going to sit back and not care since you don't know her?

 

[Wild self]

Credit to @HarlemHottie . She’ll get called a “pick me” by birds because she doesn’t adhere to the twitter status quo of shytting on black men. She’s actually and. She calls out the misogyny on here too she rightfully so.

That other poster is typical of a lot uncouth women of this generation. They want to dictate the direction of patriarchy/masculinity from the passenger’s seat. Unfortunately, that’s not how it works.

One thing I’ve had to accept is that not every black Woman deserves the title of “queen” just as not every black man deserves the title of “king”. There’s too much trash in our community to encompass us all together.

I protect those who are worthy of it, if some bitter bird wants to project her insecurity under the guise of “protection” then so be it but we aren’t falling for it.

We live in a shallow society, for women especially. We’re all judged and favored more depending on how aesthetically Pleasing we are to others. To put the onus on black men or to make it seem unique to us is pure bull shyt.

Yep. Her and @Nicole0416

Twitter birds and ugly women always are ugly by the anger they hold in. They never have this energy against CACs.

 

[Astroslik]

Dude, reading comprehension is a thing. I clearly wasn't talking about just you.

shyt has nothing to do with my point . Women overvalue themselves. I really don’t care how you look, just making a statement.

 

[Bawon Samedi]

I don't agree with this. This mentality is selfish and part of the reason we are divided. If one of your homies do sonething horrible to a woman, are you going to sit back and not care since "you don't know her".

I agree.

 

[Knicksman20]

I think I’ve figured out the source of a lot of the femcel and anti-black male energy on social media. It all boils down to non-attractive women feeling like nobody cares about them.

There’s a lot to unpack in this tweet. But what I’ll say is that femcels ain’t no better than incels. Society favoring attractive people is standard. What’s with all the crying?

I agree with you but at the same time me personally, (especially in this day & age) if I saw a white man yelling or putting his hands on a Black woman I'd would have to address the situation whether verbally or physically if it came to that.

I had to last year on my job. I wouldn't want to live with walking away from a sis in need; especially if something bad happened & I could've helped in some way

 

[HarlemHottie]

Well damn... Mrs. @HarlemHottie. Can you care to explain WHY patriarchy is beneficial to you?

This is surprisingly hard to answer bc the benefits of patriarchy permeate all areas of life.

I rarely touch a door. Men rush to my defense. Cab drivers help with with my stuff. If i walk into a venue alone, I'm guaranteed several drinks and possibly a meal, with no expectation of recompense, because men. If it's a sketchy hood, men i don't know from Adam will protect me. Just the other day, habibi at the store was being friendly and a young breh was like, "you ain't slick, stop tryna flirt on the low. ' I could go on and on...


It's like a superpower. Idky more women don't take advantage.

Spoiler

Just for reference, before anybody comes on here to tell me im downtrodden and unaware, I'm better educated than you and could probably take your job after drinks with your boss, no cap. Ive been offered excellent jobs I'm not even qualified for, again, because patriarchy.

PS: I wish I can rep you again. Your man really won.

I would tell him, but everytime i inform him on the goings on of shea butter Twitter, he says it himself.

 

[number21]

@number21, your neg means nothing to me. I'm not in here enough to care about play-play reps online. Just thought you might like know.

Means nothing but had to announce to everyone you got that neg. fukk outta here bird.

 

[blase_chic]

Means nothing but had to announce to everyone you got that neg. fukk outta here bird.

Work on that anger, my dude. I never disrespected you or anyone in this thread for that matter so there is no reason for you to be calling me out my name.

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