A man and woman assuming a masculine and feminine role under 1 roof. Could be mom and uncle or grandpa etc..
Better if it is husband and wife though.
Pro Black but Equal Oppurtunity Dater
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A man and woman assuming a masculine and feminine role under 1 roof. Could be mom and uncle or grandpa etc..
Better if it is husband and wife though.
I don't understand what you're getting at but it depends on the situation.
What I mean by white supremacy breaking up the black family unit has more to do with the prison industrial complex and the rise of the "black welfare queens."
Everyone says.........nuc family....
you're pro black if you support nuc families because people say--- it's the center of the black community........and its breakdown is one of the reason for our downfall.
But if someone has kids etc that they aren't living with........... are they outside of the nuc family and therefore not pro black?
Is someone like Zaza ali not pro black because she's a typical Babymammma ?
Ok sorry, I don't like being dismissive and stupid even if it's on a messageboard. @Yup
Here let me number my points for you so maybe you can respond intelligently?
1. Pro black is supporting, championing and favoring black people
2. You can support, champion, and favor black people in many ways that do not include family.
3. The idea pro black necessitates a family is an unproven theory and even if we were to follow it we would not know the ultimate outcome for many years and if pro blackness depends on successful outcomes rather than intentions no one today is pro black.
4. Pro black is not something you brag about. It is evident and perceived and most of the black people you support, champion, or favor will not even know your familial status.
Here let me number my points for you so maybe you can respond intelligently?
1. Pro black is supporting, championing and favoring black people
2. You can support, champion, and favor black people in many ways that do not include family.
3. The idea pro black necessitates a family is an unproven theory and even if we were to follow it we would not know the ultimate outcome for many years and if pro blackness depends on successful outcomes rather than intentions no one today is pro black.
4. Pro black is not something you brag about. It is evident and perceived and most of the black people you support, champion, or favor will not even know your familial status.
I've already stated what I meant by the breakdown of the black family unit = prison industrial complex and welfare. Stopping black men from providing for their families and allowing black women to feel they don't need a man to support them or help raise their children because they have section 8 and welfare.
Well can we have an agreement then? If you marry outside your race and have mixed children, don't comment on the state of black family and black women issues then we're all good.
So you'd really be pro-black male or pro-black female (depending on your gender). Glad we could come to a consensus
Still not black
, a mixed woman/man doesn't go through the same issues as a black woman/man imo. Black hispanic is a different story.
BmoreGorilla
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Still not black
That aint true. I gotta couple mixed homies that have had to go thru the same bullshyt me and my other homies have had to go thru. Racist white folks always looked at them as just another ******. Our narrative is the same
BmoreGorilla
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I guess Im automatically disqualified from being pro black cuz I had my son out of wedlock at 18 huh?
Still not black
yo, you're just like my girl. We have this debate all the time ............
and i don't agree at ALL. for example.. She's like "how r u pro black when u only smashed hoes... and out of the 3 real relationships you've had.. I'm the only black girl"
I'm like
All my women have been black
my bm is cuban for example. Afro Cuban... she looks like
How is this not black?
my other BM is str8 up from Jamica.. but is irish n jamican... so looks like (literally tho)
my current girl look typical west african.
But imo isn't more black. black is black imo.
right... right?
While I think a mixed person + a black person = a black household
tons of studies show they don't go through the same things as a full black person.
Did you make a home with that woman?