Well it's a "problem" because women want to select men based off of nothing but looks, but then wanna blame everybody else but the person in the mirror for why the relationship didn't work out. I'd have so much respect for women if they'd just come out and say " we're only interested in good looking men, and yes they treat us like shyt, but we are willing to accept and live with the consequences of that behavior because dude looks good". If that was said I could live with that, but no women wanna select men off of nothing but lust and then when they get cheated on or dogged then it's "men ain't shyt", and "I'm the victim", and society encourages that and that's some BS. When men choose women off of just looks and he gets played, nobody has sympathy for him. It's said " serve his ass right for chasing a pretty gold digger", and " he's a man who needs to live up to his bad choices". Well my question is why can't that apply to women as well. Why is a young boy told to grow up be a man, while a girl is allowed to stay in perpetual childhood? That's some BS. If women wanna select men off of nothing but looks great, but be an ADULT and stop playing the victim role and take responsibility for your choices.