So damn cheap
I don't think he is a bad guy but yea he is cheap. Because he won't pay and can't even understand why he should pay. Any person that has done something for me I greatly appreciate. I just feel that if you show interest in someone and want to pursue them than the first gesture would be paying for the woman when you ask her out. But of course on the coli that's such a ridiculous concept.He's not cheap or a bad guy, I think he has dealt with some fukked up women, but unfortunately that warped his perception of ALL women
I look like asking a girl out to a restaurant for the first time I'm seeing her?? I invited a friend out to come eat with me a few weeks ago and I merely invited her to come with me. She payed for everything herself. I didn't even pay her train fare. Come to think of it I never went on a formal date before in my life. 
It's just not in me.lol, but i still feel like some women are being very slick about this "he asks so he should pay" rule.someone gets it, thank the lord.
but are you not interested in them and pursuing them as well?
Where y'all fukking up at is by even asking her out on a date. If you tryna meet her for the first time then a walk in the park or a casual spot like a starbucks or w/e should suffice.
Not the case for me. I appreciate anyone who does something for me. If I don't click with the person I can still be cool with them. I'm not going to cut u off unless you are weird or creepy. I'm actually a nice person believe it or not. I'm one of the few that appreciates a nice gesture. And I'm not an expensive person. And like I said. How are you getting a committed relationship being cheap and selfish because that will be the way u come off if u ask a woman on a date but don't pay. And Im talking about going out on a serious date not like "what are u doing lets go chill somewhere" but more "i would like to go on a date with you would you care to be in my company"
I'm not going to pursue a man. Interested yes but nope I'm not pursing one. Either way if he asks me out he should pay. Y'all stay trying to cut corners with women.
i tried that shyt a couple of times this year. I swear i felt like King Jaffe Joffer when he tied his his own shoes...Where y'all fukking up at is by even asking her out on a date. If you tryna meet her for the first time then a walk in the park or a casual spot like a starbucks or w/e should suffice.
Which one. I've been getting a lot of post.
. and they realize nothing is wrong with splitting a bill.
it's all good, that,s your right. I just don't pursue women who aren't pursuing me as well. I don't see how i'm cutting corners though just cause i won't play your game...
I can still hang with u but u will appear to be a cheap ass. And not every woman is going to tell u the truth .If I pay for half Im going to say I'm ok with it but really I'm going to complain about your cheapness to my friendsso if you dont click with them, you'll still be "cool" with him, so you get a night paid out. He gets a we are not compatible text and is out 40-70 bucks
and how?
I'm 28, black, no kids, a job, a car, i live in a million dollar house, my personality is great, women find me not bad looking
