Paying for a first date is the biggest sucker move

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What is a date other than just hanging out? So you cover your friends when inviting them on your little girl's night outs? How about inviting your friends to go see the latest Tyler Perry movie? Don't be a stupid girl.

You can't tell the difference between the two? :mindblown:

Going out on a date is not the same as going out with your friends. They're two completely different things and yall "cut corners" nikkaz fail a lot because of that. Nikkaz want a quality broad but want to do the bare minimum to get them. You aint that cute, nikka. You gotta put some effort into it.
 

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You can't tell the difference between the two? :mindblown:

Going out on a date is not the same as going out with your friends. They're two completely different things and yall "cut corners" nikkaz fail a lot because of that. Nikkaz want a quality broad but want to do the bare minimum to get them. You aint that cute, nikka. You gotta put some effort into it.
Amen someone gets it !!
 

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I don't consider it a game. That's the problem u do.

dude meets girl. they have a nice convo. they exchange contact info. they talk some more on the phone. at some point dude tells girl word for word "would you like to go see a movie?". girl says cool. they go to the movies. Explain to me logically why the dude should pay for her in that specific situation.
 

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thats why u date older broads..these young smurfs expect u to shower them while older chicks invite u over and cook for u.
I bet those older women use to be married to a man that paid on the first date:russ: they know young guys are cheap and don't understand how to properly pursue them....at the end of the day they don't even want to be pursued they just don't want to be lonely and they want dikk... So yeah they are going to cook for you lmao while u sit back
 

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dude meets girl. they have a nice convo. they exchange contact info. they talk some more on the phone. at some point dude tells girl word for word "would you like to go see a movie?". girl says cool. they go to the movies. Explain to me logically why the dude should pay for her in that specific situation.
He is a man he asked her out be a gentlemen and pay but in that situation u don't look completely cheap u just look like u aren't being serious about the situation . Like I said before I'm referring mostly to a serious date but overall men should pay for the first date even if its somewhat casual I bet after awhile you will expect some sex now won't you?! .
 

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I bet those older women use to be married to a man that paid on the first date:russ: they know young guys are cheap and don't understand how to properly pursue them....at the end of the day they don't even want to be pursued they just don't want to be lonely and they want dikk... So yeah they are going to cook for you lmao while u sit back
see you say it yourself, you want to be pursued while you sit back and enjoy yourself :queen:. yet we're the ones who see it like a game...
 

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He is a man he asked her out be a gentlemen and pay but in that situation u don't look completely cheap u just look like u aren't being serious about the situation . Like I said before I'm referring mostly to a serious date but overall men should pay for the first date even if its somewhat casual I bet after awhile you will expect some sex now won't you?! .


hi im a woman i want you to chase after to me, ask me out, pay for my dinner and my movie, ask me for a second date, then ill decide if i want to and maybe after awhile ill give you some puzzy

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see you say it yourself, you want to be pursued while you sit back and enjoy yourself :queen:. yet we're the ones who see it like a game...
It's a game to be pursued? I never said I would sit back and act so uninterested or act like u were a little servant doing everything for me.
 

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hi im a woman i want you to chase after to me, ask me out, pay for my dinner and my movie, ask me for a second date, then ill decide if i want to and maybe after awhile ill give you some puzzy

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U r shaking your head but in all honesty you know how this goes...men have been doing this for hundreds of yrs. it's only this new generation of cheap ass men who find it so damn odd to do a nice thing for a woman. It's not my fault u were played by women in your past. If a man is sweet to me I will be sweet back. Not everyone is going to play you and make you feel stupid. Geesh . How do expect to get someone by not doing anything nice for them? To me this is one of the first nice gesture you can do for a woman you want. I can smh at all you men who want a quality woman but won't work for it. It's the same thing for a woman I want a quality man. I'm not a chef but I will make attempts to cook for him even though I hate cooking. Damn it's simple Hun.
 

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He is a man he asked her out be a gentlemen and pay but in that situation u don't look completely cheap u just look like u aren't being serious about the situation . Like I said before I'm referring mostly to a serious date but overall men should pay for the first date even if its somewhat casual I bet after awhile you will expect some sex now won't you?! .
"be a gentlemen and pay" :rudy:in that specific situation, dude just asked if she wanted to do something. he didn't formally invite her. If you tell one of your friends "want to go see a movie?" i bet you're not expecting to have to pay their ticket. If the reason you think that is different is because it's a man-woman thing, then the whole basis of your argument is that the man should pay because he's a man and the whole "he asked so he should pay" argument is BS.

but overall men should pay for the first date even if its somewhat casual
why?

I bet after awhile you will expect some sex now won't you?! .
i don't expect anything. if we both want to fukk, we'll both fukk. if one of us doesn't want to fukk, then we won't. why would i expect sex after a while?
 
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Cats spending like 40,50,70 bucks and all they are getting is a hug and a i had a great time, but sorry we are not compatible text.

but but I asked to take her out so I'm paying for her time :snoop:

Yes I'm talking about you the same cat who won't spend 50 dollars on their grandmas birthday gift :ufdup:

...And the funny thing is it be that CHURCH hug wit some space in between the both of you ...:lolbron:
 

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U r shaking your head but in all honesty you know how this goes...men have been doing this for hundreds of yrs. it's only this new generation of cheap ass men who find it so damn odd to do a nice thing for a woman. It's not my fault u were played by women in your past. If a man is sweet to me I will be sweet back. Not everyone is going to play you and make you feel stupid. Geesh . How do expect to get someone by not doing anything nice for them? To me this is one of the first nice gesture you can do for a woman you want. I can smh at all you men who want a quality woman but won't work for it. It's the same thing for a woman I want a quality man. I'm not a chef but I will make attempts to cook for him even though I hate cooking. Damn it's simple Hun.

women had no rights for hundred of years , do you want to go back to those days?

this new generation that women have rights, jobs and a voice let us go back to the good ol days shall we in your eyes :snoop:


Here you go bringing up my past, you have no idea about my past. Again If you know how to comprehend what I'm writing I have zero issues getting anyone. Actually the first nice gesture you can do for a woman is allowing her to spend time wiht a quality man, it seems for you everything has to be monetary.
 

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dude meets girl. they have a nice convo. they exchange contact info. they talk some more on the phone. at some point dude tells girl word for word "would you like to go see a movie?". girl says cool. they go to the movies. Explain to me logically why the dude should pay for her in that specific situation.

Because HE asked HER out. Breh, you're a smart poster, but I don't see what's so mind boggling. If SHE asks HIM then SHE pays, its just common courtesy
 
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