Paying for a first date is the biggest sucker move

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

As as @His_Excellence_Reincar's threads on women are I gotta agree

I dont even think dating someone someone you know can't vet for is a good idea personally

First date with my wife was a house party down the block

 

[MikelArteta]

If we have good chemistry than ok I can consider it but in the back of my mind I still can't take him that serious. And no it's not all about the money but to u it must be that's why u don't want to pay. Like I said to someone else. Do you think your mother and grandmother, aunts and whoever was paying for the first date? NO People think just because its 2013 they don't have to do shyt.

different generations

U can get dating advice up here from a few people. Not everyone is silly as shyt. I agree with what you are saying for the other part.

I'm silly because its laughable paying for a woman on the first date whose not my gf, not my wife, we are not committed, and may never see each other or speak again after the date?

Ok

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

If we have good chemistry than ok I can consider it but in the back of my mind I still can't take him that serious. And no it's not all about the money but to u it must be that's why u don't want to pay. Like I said to someone else. Do you think your mother and grandmother, aunts and whoever was paying for the first date? NO People think just because its 2013 they don't have to do shyt.

U gonna stay single... pardon me... "independent"

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I don't understand why some of you are so against paying for the date if YOU asked HER out. I've had chicks pay for me just because I had paid the first time, it's not simping as long as she's reciprocating. And I'm not talking about spending extravagantly either, I've never spent more than 20 bucks on a first date

 

[Turbulent]

So us women can't get a man to pay for the first date now? Seriously. I appreciate anyone who does something for me but all you are getting on a first date is a hug forreal. If you can't afford to pay for a date you really shouldn't be looking to start a relationship.

men don't initially go on dates to "start a relationship". we go on dates to get a feel of who you are.

I remember a guy that was like "we went out a few times and I still didn't hit. "
It's funny because if he would've let me pay the second time we went out the outcome would've be different. Especially that I was actually digging him. Oh well

and that's what some people just don't get. you shouldn't be trying to buy her. if you feel like paying, pay for her but if it's to get p*ssy then you will make a hoe of her and she will feel the intention behind it and resent you.

it's not about if you should or shouldn't pay for the chick. it,s about why you're paying for her.

 

[KinksandCoils]

different generations



I'm silly because its laughable paying for a woman on the first date whose not my gf, not my wife, we are not committed, and may never see each other or speak again after the date?

Ok

That's the problem you men think just because its a diff generation that women think completely different. Most women still want and expect for a man to pay for the first date. And in order to get a gf or wife u need to do something for that. Try starting with paying for the first date. Lmao all I'm doing is telling you how US WOMEN think. I'm fully aware that u have a completely different opinion which is fine I can respect that but the bottom line is you are a man and I'm a woman I'm only giving you our perspective. And like u said before about me wanting to be chased....yup you are right every woman wants to feel wanted and special. And that's not saying she is going to play u.

 

[Lana Kane]

and that's what some people just don't get. you shouldn't be trying to buy her. if you feel like paying, pay for her but if it's to get p*ssy then you will make a hoe of her and she will feel the intention behind it and resent you.

it's not about if you should or shouldn't pay for the chick. it,s about why you're paying for her.

someone gets it, thank the lord.

 

[KinksandCoils]

I don't understand why some of you are so against paying for the date if YOU asked HER out. I've had chicks pay for me just because I had paid the first time, it's not simping as long as she's reciprocating.

Men are cheap and selfish these days. Everyone is out for their own personal gain. If a guy pays for me at least the first time. I have no problem forking over money later. These guys are making it seem like every time I go out he must pay for everything. I'm not even saying that

 

[MikelArteta]

That's the problem you men think just because its a diff generation that women think completely different. Most women still want and expect for a man to pay for the first date. And in order to get a gf or wife u need to do something for that. Try starting with paying for the first date. Lmao all I'm doing is telling you how US WOMEN think. I'm fully aware that u have a completely different opinion which is fine I can respect that but the bottom line is you are a man and I'm a woman I'm only giving you our perspective. And like u said before about me wanting to be chased....yup you are right every woman wants to feel wanted and special. And that's not saying she is going to play u.

 

[MikelArteta]

Men are cheap and selfish these days. Everyone is out for their own personal gain. If a guy pays for me at least the first time. I have no problem forking over money later. These guys are making it seem like every time I go out he must pay for everything. I'm not even saying that

Men are not cheap and selfish these days, men are wiser than ever.

 

[BruhMayne]

Thank God for canadian southern women

Last "dates" I paid for was me buying ingredients and them cooking

Miss out on women from below the mason dixon brehs

 

[KinksandCoils]

U gonna stay single... pardon me... "independent"

Then I suggest you tell a shyt load of women the same thing you are telling me.

 

[KinksandCoils]

So damn cheap

 

[MAKAVELI25]

So damn cheap

He's not cheap or a bad guy, I think he has dealt with some fukked up women, but unfortunately that warped his perception of ALL women

 

[KinksandCoils]

Men are not cheap and selfish these days, men are wiser than ever.

Sure they are you are proving it right now...