It means that I can't take him seriously romantically... And I don't care how sexy you are or think u are. You just would make yourself look cheap and lame....really and what is a good woman?
so if a tyson beckford clone asked you out and didnt pay that would be the end of it?
even if you find him attractive and y'all had good chemistry ???
Only because they can't divorce or they eventually fall for each other.
If we have good chemistry than ok I can consider it but in the back of my mind I still can't take him that serious. And no it's not all about the money but to u it must be that's why u don't want to pay. Like I said to someone else. Do you think your mother and grandmother, aunts and whoever was paying for the first date? NO People think just because its 2013 they don't have to do shyt.
I didn't say wine and dine. And a good man will be smart enough to treat a woman...you can't take him seriously because he won't wine and dine you ok
pass up on a good man because he doesn't want to pony up his money until he's committed.
U can get dating advice up here from a few people. Not everyone is silly as shyt. I agree with what you are saying for the other part.1. Whoever asks for the first date (whether man or woman) should be the one paying
2. It is usually the man who asks, I know the coli is full of movie star good looking nikkas but for us regular folks, even if a girl likes you she will usually wait for you to ask
3. Nothing wrong with paying for dates, but for every two dates you pay for she should be paying for at least one
4. Let's all just admit that nobody should be taking dating advice from T/S
1. Whoever asks for the first date (whether man or woman) should be the one paying
2. It is usually the man who asks, I know the coli is full of movie star good looking nikkas but for us regular folks, even if a girl likes you she will usually wait for you to ask
3. Nothing wrong with paying for dates, but for every two dates you pay for she should be paying for at least one
4. Let's all just admit that nobody should be taking dating advice from T/S
the way you frame it, it's almost like an audition...Yall over-thinking shyt yet again. If its all about getting a guarantee on getting the p*ssy for your money you put out, then i don't know how yall nikkas can be so against paying for sex just go get a hooker and call it a day. If you don't want to pay for a hooker but you want easy puss then just fukk with them hoes. Problem solved.
In my mind tho, it's not a simp move, it's a move to potentially improve your odds. Messing with women is akin to gambling or playing the stock market....and with either you should always do your homework on it first. Talk and get to know a chick for awhile first and if yall vibing like yall should be you'll know taking her out on a first date will be beneficial to what you are trying to get accomplished. I've generally done it when the chick is worth it for me to gamble high on her. And it's also not strictly about trying to impress her in a monetary fashion but it also gives you a chance to separate yourself from other men while and by showing off your personality and charm in person. I don't think i've ever failed on taking a chick out on a first date to either get the drawals or have her desperately wanting to see me again, because i always go in confident knowing by the end of it she gonna be impressed with me and my personality.
So in summary If you got the money AND the personality then by all means take out that young tenderoni because taking a chick out under those circumstances will NEVER decrease your odds it can only either keep them the same or increase them....if your personality sucks then thats a different circumstance that will have your odds taking a nose dive.
Ask your mother or any older woman you have in your life should a man pay for the first date and she is going to say of course that's what a man is suppose to do....a gentlemen lmao
