Paying for a first date is the biggest sucker move

[JLova]

Nothing wrong with going dutch on a 1st date...but if you ask a girl out, you should pay. Nikkaz seem to want to get everything without doing anything.

 

[KinksandCoils]

so a man asks you out for say the same ol dinner and a movie, he has to pay for your dinner, drinks, tips, movie ticket and popcorn or hes not a real man

Well first if we had dinner I don't need popcorn lol but yes if he asks me out and it's the first date. He should pay. No it doesn't mean he isn't a real man but it means he is selfish and cheap. Ask older folks like your parents and grandparents. Do you think the woman paid? And don't tell me that times are different because people still go on dates and overall most women still want the same thing in men.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Nothing wrong with going dutch on a 1st date...but if you ask a girl out, you should pay. Nikkaz seem to want to get everything without doing anything.

Amen

 

[tremonthustler1]

1. I never get friendzoned
2. I haven't paid for a woman on a date in nearly 3 years

I was speaking in generalizations, more than not a guy will ask a girl out on a date, more than likely he will find the girl attractive. And more than likely he will ask for as econd date, and more than likely its up to the women to decide if she wants to go on a date with him again.

that's usually how it always is unless you have groupies following you. Men are the pursuers. If you have women going out of their way to fiend for your companionship, then you have nothing to complain about, but you're also not living the typical dating life.

 

[MikelArteta]

Well first if we had dinner I don't need popcorn lol but yes if he asks me out and it's the first date. He should pay. No it doesn't mean he isn't a real man but it means he is selfish and cheap. Ask older folks like your parents and grandparents. Do you think the woman paid? And don't tell me that times are different because people still go on dates and overall most women still want the same thing in men.

the women rarely worked in that generation.

 

[tremonthustler1]

@His_Excellence_Reincar where you cop that scarf at breh

he stole it from @JMurder's closet

 

[JLova]

lot of chicks have dates lined up from mon-thursday with different dudes who they wont smash

but on friday-on to the weekend..some dirtbag @sshole who treats her like shyt is smashing her holes in pieces

This is true, but only lames worry about this. Worrying about this type of shyt is lame. If you're a legit dude, you won't have to worry about this shyt because you're sure you will pull the girl. I been out the game for a while but it seems like women got dudes shook trying to over-think everything. What a sad existence.

 

[KinksandCoils]

the women rarely worked in that generation.

I'm not just talking about the 60's on back man. Y'all men stay thinking you have to do nothing to get that good woman. I can't even take a guy serious who would ask me out and not even pay. And this is a guy that claims he is seriously interested. Not on some lets me friends. Smh

 

[KinksandCoils]

This is true, but only lames worry about this. Worrying about this type of shyt is lame. If you're a legit dude, you won't have to worry about this shyt because you're sure you will pull the girl. I been out the game for a while but it seems like women got dudes shook trying to over-think everything. What a sad existence.

Very true

 

[tremonthustler1]

I'm not just talking about the 60's on back man. Y'all men stay thinking you have to do nothing to get that good woman. I can't even take a guy serious who would ask me out and not even pay. And this is a guy that claims he is seriously interested. Not on some lets me friends. Smh

Lowkey Reincar wishes he was Indian so he could get arranged marriages and not have to deal with the fukkery of dating

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I'm not just talking about the 60's on back man. Y'all men stay thinking you have to do nothing to get that good woman. I can't even take a guy serious who would ask me out and not even pay. And this is a guy that claims he is seriously interested. Not on some lets me friends. Smh

So if he doesnt pay on the first date
Does that mean no 2nd date???

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm not just talking about the 60's on back man. Y'all men stay thinking you have to do nothing to get that good woman. I can't even take a guy serious who would ask me out and not even pay. And this is a guy that claims he is seriously interested. Not on some lets me friends. Smh

really and what is a good woman?

so if a tyson beckford clone asked you out and didnt pay that would be the end of it?

 

[MikelArteta]

Lowkey Reincar wishes he was Indian so he could get arranged marriages and not have to deal with the fukkery of dating

arranged marriages are actually more successful than a marriage bred out of love.

 

[KinksandCoils]

So if he doesnt pay on the first date
Does that mean no 2nd date???

Yup. Call it what u want but I can tell u a lot of other women ain't for it. You just make yourself look cheap and lame. Even if you aren't you will appear that way.

 

[Dooby]

If you asked her out you pay , simple as that, you invited her... now if she asked you out on a date that she pays... if your just hanging out and it's a not a date then both of you guys can just pay for yourselves

What is a date other than just hanging out? So you cover your friends when inviting them on your little girl's night outs? How about inviting your friends to go see the latest Tyler Perry movie? Don't be a stupid girl.