Paying for a first date is the biggest sucker move

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If a guy ask me to go out he should pay if he is interested . Now if we are just friends than I wouldn't expect it. I'm somewhat traditional a man should pay. Not all the time. But damn at least the first date. If I don't like him it is mostly because he is weird or scary. I wouldn't cut u off just because we weren't compatible. If a man isn't willing to pay for a first date he shouldn't be looking for a date. A real woman wants a real man. One who is not selfish and who is willing to do for her. This is what we look for and not paying on a first date is a bad sign. It's just how things work it's the same way how men automatically think that woman should cook more for her family. Some things are just the way they are.

every man is real , what you want is a man to pony up his hard earnings while you sit and stuff your face, or enjoy the movie, or bowling, or whatever. What you want is to be chased :camby:
 

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I didn't say a text buddy. U did

its a privilege to associate with greatness:obama:, im not going to talk to a chick for weeks and months, when i want to go out

what you doing friday?
nothing why?

im going to insert see you at 8?
 

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exactly what im talking about scenarios like this, and you know what? she prob had like 2 other dates that week. I always remember this broad at my work who uses okcupid was telling our break group how she had 3 dates that week, common for single women don't gotta cook, always get a night out, simps thinking they won :jawalrus:, as she puts on a fake mask for the night, I'm sure your date went great to right? maybe a hug maybe a peck on the cheek and then that's it.
:to: yes all that
 

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every man is real , what you want is a man to pony up his hard earnings while you sit and stuff your face, or enjoy the movie, or bowling, or whatever. What you want is to be chased :camby:
Nope some males are boys, ass hole men or other things. I prefer a man that is kind and generous. If he ask me to go out and doesn't pay for the first date I can't take him serious and a lot women won't either. I'm just telling you how a lot of women think.
 

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Lmao how old do you have to be for an expensive date :russ:

it's usually bytches out of college or the ones that make decent money. Talkin bout lets go for drinks then dinner then dessert then drinks :childplease:

Meanwhile these 18-20 year olds are much riper with less miles and lower expectations and easily impressed :smugdraper:
 

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its a privilege to associate with greatness:obama:, im not going to talk to a chick for weeks and months, when i want to go out

what you doing friday?
nothing why?

im going to insert see you at 8?
Ok so why r u complaining about strangers when you are creating that situation of not knowing them well?
 

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Nope some males are boys, ass hole men or other things. I prefer a man that is kind and generous. If he ask me to go out and doesn't pay for the first date I can't take him serious and a lot women won't either. I'm just telling you how a lot of women think.

so a man asks you out for say the same ol dinner and a movie, he has to pay for your dinner, drinks, tips, movie ticket and popcorn or hes not a real man :heh:
 

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it's usually bytches out of college or the ones that make decent money. Talkin bout lets go for drinks then dinner then dessert then drinks :childplease:

Meanwhile these 18-20 year olds are much riper with less miles and lower expectations and easily impressed :smugdraper:
Lmao also depends on how she was raised though
 
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