Paying for a first date is the biggest sucker move

[KinksandCoils]

In that case it would have already been established there is a mutual attraction between me and the woman where either party would be willing to pay. Me more often then not. But for those that are casually dating different women every week it's damn near idiotic bc they going on these dates for the hope of some p*ssy, exchanging their time and money for some not so guaranty p*ssy. I find that concept idiotic

Well I never entered this thread talking about the serial dater types. Either way a man should still pay for the first date. Y'all acting like paying for a date with someone your interested in is going to kill you. Some of y'all are also acting like what I'm saying is some new shyt you have never heard of.

 

[Eye Cue DA COLI GAWD]

I'm not the fallback guy. I;m the dude thats has a roster of chicks and I can choose which ones I want to see. if I want to see a particular chick one night I'll hit her up and set it up. Even if she has a date she'll come see me after. These nikkaz out here tricking money and not getting any puzzy. Sucker ass nikkaz.



I dont smash fat broads or single moms. I live in Atlanta. Do you know how many single women there are here????? It's a Playa's paradise here.

Ok, so you're coming from a 'playa' perspective?

Cool story.

Now here me out....

I know it's every "playa's" badge of honor to promote how he gets over with the ladies, but why you assuming you the only dude fukkin in this equation?

You = fukkin the date of a lame n*gga

Date = fukkin you

Lame n*gga = head buried in pillow while you fukk his date that he splurged $50 bucks on

Of course that's the way it has to work. I mean, how else can could you come on here and boast how you doing something the next n*gga can't? I mean, we all know you've never been the one overextending yourself to pay for a date only for that date to give you no play and go fukk another n*gga later in the night.

Nooooooo, that could never be the case for you because that only happens lame n*ggas.

Feel me?

 

[Jahmal]

because when you pay for a date, that means she's quality!

It means nothing. Most men pay because they think thats what they have to. All my playa partners arent paying for shyt. They met women in bars/lounges/grocery stores, spit some game and have women coming to their crib to smash. If you are an attractive guy or have some game you dont have to take these women out.

 

[Mickey Kane]

Lol @ knowing about women's hypergamous nature & not accepting that you're going to have break bread to be considered serious partner material.

 

[KinksandCoils]

!!!!

A lot of these cats are going on dates to get p*ssy, and that's where the problem lies.

You don't have to take a woman out in the first place to get p*ssy.

If you are worried about paying money and not having sex in return, then you should just stop playing child games with a woman's time and just go get a prostitute.

Any man who's going out with a woman with the full intention of starting something meaningful with the proper planning and effort put in before the date, will have no problem paying for the date because it will be more of an investment into a "stock" that has shown potential, rather than a transaction for immediate gratification.

Well I guess that's why they keep giving me these types of responses --------

 

[Mickey Kane]

A player isn't even going on dates, can we cut the sh*t already?

If you have the looks, the assets i.e. (job, home, car, etc) & Game, you don't need to be breaking major bread for women you just trying to smash.

 

[Jahmal]

Ok, so you're coming from a 'playa' perspective?

Cool story.

Now here me out....

I know it's every "playa's" badge of honor to promote how he gets over with the ladies, but why you assuming you the only dude fukkin in this equation?

You = fukkin the date of a lame n*gga

Date = fukkin you

Lame n*gga = head buried in pillow while you fukk his date that he splurged $50 bucks on

Of course that's the way it has to work. I mean, how else can could you come on here and boast how you doing something the next n*gga can't? I mean, we all know you've never been the one overextending yourself to pay for a date only for that date to give you no play and go fukk another n*gga later in the night.

Nooooooo, that could never be the case for you because that only happens lame n*ggas.

Feel me?

I'm only promoting it for the purpose of this thread. A man doesnt have to pay for the first date if he has Game. Back in the day when I didnt have game I shelled out dollars on dates and I'm sure they hooked up with other dudes that night. I wasted mad money on dates. Just trying to help my brehs out here.

 

[KinksandCoils]

that's for women to deal with though if you (not you specifically, the women in general) have issues of self-worth and are looking for validation from the act of a man (paying the bill in this case) or for the cosign from your friends, maybe you should solve all that before dating. we're not your shrinks.

Nobody said it was on that serious of a level. It's more like a person looking at you crazy and your like what the fukk are you looking at but your just thinking it. Actions mean a lot.

 

[KinksandCoils]

That's the only line i agree with.

Ok...

 

[YouLoveMe]

Ok...

Yeah.

 

[KinksandCoils]

The bottom line is most of you men up here are either players or wannabe players and its your main goal to get the most out of a girl while doing the least. Then y'all smile and talk about your conquest....."oh I smashed the bytch the first date.i ain't have to pay a dime or nothing" smh at y'all thinking a women with some sense is going to prefer the man that couldn't even pay for the first date over the man that did. It's the first indicator that he is selfish. Even if its not true you appear that way.

 

[Jahmal]

!!!!
A lot of these cats are going on dates to get p*ssy, and that's where the problem lies.

Almost all men that goes on dates want p*ssy. If woman invited a man to come back to her place to sleep over after the date you bet 99% of men would say Yes...Ole "I cant sleep over your place because I want to get to know you better" ass nikka

 

[raw613]

I understand that. But I'm referring to someone that you are actually trying to be in a relationship.

Well I never entered this thread talking about the serial dater types. Either way a man should still pay for the first date. Y'all acting like paying for a date with someone your interested in is going to kill you. Some of y'all are also acting like what I'm saying is some new shyt you have never heard of.

i think the key is to build a rapport first, there are activities like the beach, park, seein sights downtown, that don't really cost then once I know its not a one way street I don't mind offering because at that point I know we will do things for each other mutually and im good with that.

 

[Jahmal]

The bottom line is most of you men up here are either players or wannabe players and its your main goal to get the most out of a girl while doing the least. Then y'all smile and talk about your conquest....."oh I smashed the bytch the first date.i ain't have to pay a dime or nothing" smh at y'all thinking a women with some sense is going to prefer the man that couldn't even pay for the first date over the man that did. It's the first indicator that he is selfish. Even if its not true you appear that way.

Her: "Jahmal, He took me out on 5 expensive dates and I haven't even kissed him yet"?
Me:

 

[KinksandCoils]

i think the key is to build a rapport first, there are activities like the beach, park, seein sights downtown, that don't really cost then once I know its not a one way street I don't mind offering because at that point I know we will do things for each other mutually and im good with that.

You're absolutely right.