Paying for a first date is the biggest sucker move

[KinksandCoils]

lol here comes the shaming tactics, we gotta be "hard up" or broke to not pay your way. what's next, "be a real man"?

It's either you are broke or selfish. If you like the women and you ask her out on a date. Pay!

 

[KinksandCoils]

That's already been dropped

Lmao yup I said that pages ago. When I say a real man I'm referring to a gentlemen.

 

[Anothergirl]

If you are just trying to have sex with a woman (majority of the guys on here), you should not be taking her on a date and getting her expectations up, period. Dates aren't for sex. A lot of guys don't understand this which is why they have such a problem with dating and paying in the first place. Dates are there to establish relationships. If you want an exchange of money for sex, get a hooker.

now this i can agree with. if you just want sex go buy a prostitute. dating or "courtship" as it's been long refered to...is a scouting process for a realtionship-prelude to marriage. dudes using if for SOLEY for sex and then getting mad when they get nada are losers from the jump.

 

[YouLoveMe]

Lmao yup I said that pages ago. When I say a real man I'm referring to a gentlemen.

Describe a REAL woman, a LADY...

 

[YouLoveMe]

now this i can agree with. if you just want sex go buy a prostitute. dating or "courtship" as it's beenlong refered to...is a scouting process for a realtionship-prelude to marriage. dudes using if for SOLEY sex and then getting mad when they get nada are losers from the jump.

My mom has spoken. Any n!gga in this thread goes against her thoughts and opinions are gonna fuccked up

 

[KinksandCoils]

TS obviously dates low self-esteem run downs who are used to nikkas playin' them. There's a reason why he and the guys who agree with him steadily complaining about women/dating instead of surprising us with stories about the great women in their lives.

Ole imaginary player ass nikkas. No woman of quality is going for that shyt. None.

You gotta be dating a severe, desperate ugmug for her to feel like she has to pay for herself on a date and she not have a problem with that cause if she was worth anything special with a good head on her shoulder she'd have plenty of other nikkas linin' up to take her out as well.

Every woman with a good father figure and/or a good older brother has been told many times not to entertain dudes who don't pay for a date. If she ain't been told that by any significant man in her life, then she ain't worth the problems cause she either got family issues or she's ignorin' the game her pops put on her out of desperation and I ain't the nikka for scraps and leftovers. She better get some pride.

Took way to many pages for someone to pretty much say what I'm saying.

 

[Anothergirl]

My mom has spoken. Any n!gga in this thread goes against her thoughts and opinions are gonna fuccked up

my bay beee!!

 

[DaChampIsHere]

I understand that. But I'm referring to someone that you are actually trying to be in a relationship.

!!!!

A lot of these cats are going on dates to get p*ssy, and that's where the problem lies.

You don't have to take a woman out in the first place to get p*ssy.

If you are worried about paying money and not having sex in return, then you should just stop playing child games with a woman's time and just go get a prostitute.

Any man who's going out with a woman with the full intention of starting something meaningful with the proper planning and effort put in before the date, will have no problem paying for the date because it will be more of an investment into a "stock" that has shown potential, rather than a transaction for immediate gratification.

 

[Turbulent]

What in the world? What men don't realizes is that women look deeper into stuff than men do. SOMETIMES we can take things for worse than what they are.

that's for women to deal with though if you (not you specifically, the women in general) have issues of self-worth and are looking for validation from the act of a man (paying the bill in this case) or for the cosign from your friends, maybe you should solve all that before dating. we're not your shrinks.

 

[Jahmal]

What he means is that you are losing in the game. Ultimately, you want the key to her heart. However, by only giving her your body during late hours when most are at rest, you ruin that chance and come across as a free thrill.

Thats where you guys are wrong. i dont want the key to her heart. i just want her body. #HardOnHoes

 

[Ain't That Something]

I understand that. But I'm referring to someone that you are actually trying to be in a relationship.

In that case it would have already been established there is a mutual attraction between me and the woman where either party would be willing to pay. Me more often then not. But for those that are casually dating different women every week it's damn near idiotic bc they going on these dates for the hope of some p*ssy, exchanging their time and money for some not so guaranty p*ssy. I find that concept idiotic

 

[KinksandCoils]

Describe a REAL woman, a LADY...

A women that recognizes a good man
Is loving
Kind
Generous
Patient
Understanding
A caregiver
A supporter of her kids and mans dreams
Responsible
Knows her worth
I could go on but I don't feel like it.....

 

[Dwolf]

How is this shyt gone on this far

 

[Jahmal]

So men dont take pride in having a rotation of women and not paying for it? How old are you kiddo? Almost every man I know would love to get puzzy and not pay for it.

 

[YouLoveMe]

A women that recognizes a good man
Is loving
Kind
Generous
Patient
Understanding
A caregiver
A supporter of her kids and mans dreams
Responsible
Knows her worth
I could go on but I don't feel like it.....

That's the only line i agree with.