Paying for a first date is the biggest sucker move

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So why the fukk did you quote me in the first place then? :dahell: I told you why a dude should pay, several times over. If you don't disagree with that, then stop fukking quoting me cause you just look like a lame, catty dude.

I swear nikkas on here just like arguing with me. :russ:
if you don't pay to get over on a chick you,re a lame. the part i disagree with you is that the dude must pay. if a dude does pay to not seem like a bum or because "the man should pay" then he's as lame as the dude who doesn't pay. so yeah, overall i do disagree with your logic. but do you. and i'll do me.
 
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on call? I set it up early in the day. Hit them up , they tell me they going on a date with some lame nikka and I tell them to come thru after they leave the restaurant. No money spent on my part. How am I tricking?

What he means is that you are losing in the game. Ultimately, you want the key to her heart. However, by only giving her your body during late hours when most are at rest, you ruin that chance and come across as a free thrill.
 

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on call? I set it up early in the day. Hit them up , they tell me they going on a date with some lame nikka and I tell them to come thru after they leave the restaurant. No money spent on my part. How am I tricking?
:stopitslime:

Nobody cam set a smash up like Jahmal can.

You just start fukkin or what? Pussie really control you to the point you allow yourself to be Mr. Fallback guy?

You fukkin fat broads or chicks with three kids, three BDs, right?
 

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What he means is that you are losing in the game. Ultimately, you want the key to her heart. However, by only giving her your body during late hours when most are at rest, you ruin that chance and come across as a free thrill.
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Oh my god, you dudes are obviously 19 or younger. I mean, you else takes pride in being a booty call
 
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Oh my god, you dudes are obviously 19 or younger. I mean, you else takes pride in being a booty call

Exactly, these guys are fairly young and immature. No one(man or woman) takes pride in that. Coli should have a forum for the mature audience, ages 30+

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the part i disagree with you is that the dude must pay. .
My nikka, I swear you are an effeminate fukktard. :damn:

You're average man, who has balls and a penis and testosterone in his system is going to ask a woman out on a date, not the other way around.

9/10, your average man doesn't like to be led by a woman so he will be the one who asks her out on a date and therefore, should pay. I understand that you have your penis tucked 24/7 and you like women to approach you and assume leadership over you, so I can see your point from your perspective. Do I agree with women leading men though? No. You do so your idea makes sense to you.

However on the first date when no party may feel a connection I don't pay and I never have for the past 3 years, and the women I've been out with have no problem with digging into their wallet.
Ok. And I get that. What I'm saying to you, is that the women you date are desperate, and you are desperate as well for taking someone out and wasting your time on someone you don't even know.

I don't know any adult that's worth shyt who rushes into dating someone who they don't even know/have had the chance to talk to significantly. If you're going out with people when you clearly don't even know them or even a little bit of their character or "connect" with them, you're desperate,. And a woman is even more pathetic if she's so eager to go out on date with someone that she doesn't know that she's willing to pay out of her pocket for a decision/date that someone else made.

Why are you all so eager to spend time with people you don't even know? Much less put yourself in a situation where they may expect you to spend money?

If I don't know anything about your character or feel a connection, we can't do anything together from jump. fukk my money, I'm not giving you an ounce of my time.
 
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Ya nikkas need to stop paying that old contrarian ass nikka the champ is here attention. Just last year that nikka was talking bout how he don't pay for dates. Now he defending tricking :mjpls:
 

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My nikka, I swear you are an effeminate fukktard. :damn:

You're average man, who has balls and a penis and testosterone in his system is going to ask a woman out on a date, not the other way around.

9/10, your average man doesn't like to be led by a woman so he will be the one who asks her out on a date and therefore, should pay. I understand that you have your penis tucked 24/7 and you like women to approach you and assume leadership over you, so I can see your point from your perspective. Do I agree with women leading men though? No. You do so your idea makes sense to you.


Ok. And I get that. What I'm saying to you, is that the women you date are desperate, and you are desperate as well for taking someone out and wasting your time on someone you don't even know.

I don't know any adult that's worth shyt who rushes into dating someone who they don't even know/have had the chance to talk to significantly. If you're going out with people when you clearly don't even know them or even a little bit of their character or "connect" with them, you're desperate,. And a woman is even more pathetic if she's so eager to go out on date with someone that she doesn't know that she's willing to pay out of her pocket for a decision/date that someone else made.

Why are you all so eager to spend time with people you don't even know? Much less put yourself in a situation where they may expect you to spend money?

If I don't know anything about your character or feel a connection, we can't do anything together from jump. fukk my money, I'm not giving you an ounce of my time.

You piece of sh!t.
 

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My nikka, I swear you are an effeminate fukktard. :damn:

You're average man, who has balls and a penis and testosterone in his system is going to ask a woman out on a date, not the other way around.

9/10, your average man doesn't like to be led by a woman so he will be the one who asks her out on a date and therefore, should pay. I understand that you have your penis tucked 24/7 and you like women to approach you and assume leadership over you, so I can see your point from your perspective. Do I agree with women leading men though? No. You do so your idea makes sense to you.
i'm effeminate yet you're the one getting passionate over this :mjpls:
 

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Why should I take you out ? You could be a crazy


Trick $50 on hoes brehs
Your right I could be crazy. That's why I like to get to know a person before the official first date....at least enough time to determine if I like them
 
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