My nikka, I swear you are an effeminate fukktard.
You're average man, who has balls and a penis and testosterone in his system is going to ask a woman out on a date, not the other way around.
9/10, your average man doesn't like to be led by a woman so he will be the one who asks her out on a date and therefore, should pay. I understand that you have your penis tucked 24/7 and you like women to approach you and assume leadership over you, so I can see your point from your perspective. Do I agree with women leading men though? No. You do so your idea makes sense to you.
Ok. And I get that. What I'm saying to you, is that the women you date are desperate, and you are desperate as well for taking someone out and wasting your time on someone you don't even know.
I don't know any adult that's worth shyt who rushes into dating someone who they don't even know/have had the chance to talk to significantly. If you're going out with people when you clearly don't even know them or even a little bit of their character or "connect" with them, you're desperate,. And a woman is even more pathetic if she's so eager to go out on date with someone that she doesn't know that she's willing to pay out of her pocket for a decision/date that someone else made.
Why are you all so eager to spend time with people you don't even know? Much less put yourself in a situation where they may expect you to spend money?
If I don't know anything about your character or feel a connection, we can't do anything together from jump. fukk my money, I'm not giving you an ounce of my time.