You clearly said anyone who paid on the first date was pulling "sucker moves". Stop being such a sensitive ass bytch. I called you a name? Big deal, get over.
You date hoes who don't feel entitled to the same things your mom, sister, etc. would demand from other men. Things you, your father and your grandfather should have taught them to demand if you/they were good men. You date bottom feeders and it's clear you're a product of a weak male structure.. You were proud at first, be proud now.
And here's where your feminine nature comes out and you get caught up on pettiness.
No matter what the cost, if you ask someone out, you pay for them, point blank. If you can't afford it, don't take them anywhere expensive. It's ain't about placin' a numerical value. It's about the fact that you've asked someone out somewhere,
on your terms, and then you basically pull an okie doke on them to skirt out of being the man in the situation while expecting them to pay for a decision you made.
You probably split the tab down to a tee and write card numbers on the back of a receipt out at the bar with your best friend too.