Paying for a first date is the biggest sucker move

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So yes, if a woman is constantly attracting bum ass dudes who don't think she's even worth a lil $10-20...
so if i take a chick out to the movies and and buy her a drink and popcorn, does that mean she is worth 25$. and if i take her for coffee, is she worth 5$?
 

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again, it's not about if the dude should or shouldn't pay. it's about why he chooses to pay or chooses not to pay. a dude who chooses not to pay to "get over" on a chick is a loser. a dude who chooses to pay because not paying would make him seem like a clown or a bum is a loser as well. Painting women with a broad brush and saying they're low-quality women if they pay for their share is the definition of objectifying them though because in other words, her worth is determined by if she chooses to spend her time with a man willing to spend money on her.

like i said, it's all about the intent (on both sides). I feel like if you're true to yourself and follow your intuition, you'll know if it's ok to pay or not.

its typical of chumps like dachampishere to hurl insults at folks who don';t agree with them.

I called no one any names in this thread, all I said is I refuse to pay for a woman on a FIRST date
 

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its typical of chumps like dachampishere to hurl insults at folks who don';t agree with them.

I called no one any names in this thread, all I said is I refuse to pay for a woman on a FIRST date
bottom line is we all have different codes. everyone will do what they can and get in where they fit in. eventually we'll all attract who we are supposed to so it's all good :manny:
 

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These simps will never learn. I'm the nikka that females call to pound their walls after they go out to Ruth Chris Steakhouse with these lames. Keep spending that $50 brehs :russ:
Shyt happens all the time

Just like how we have jumpoffs and main chicks


Females got movie friend
Date and take me out to dinner without sex friend
Shopping friend
Gym buddy
And fukk friend

:manny:
 

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its typical of chumps like dachampishere to hurl insults at folks who don';t agree with them.

I called no one any names in this thread, all I said is I refuse to pay for a woman on a FIRST date
You clearly said anyone who paid on the first date was pulling "sucker moves". Stop being such a sensitive ass bytch. I called you a name? Big deal, get over. :russ:

You date hoes who don't feel entitled to the same things your mom, sister, etc. would demand from other men. Things you, your father and your grandfather should have taught them to demand if you/they were good men. You date bottom feeders and it's clear you're a product of a weak male structure.. You were proud at first, be proud now.

so if i take a chick out to the movies and and buy her a drink and popcorn, does that mean she is worth 25$. and if i take her for coffee, is she worth 5$?

And here's where your feminine nature comes out and you get caught up on pettiness.

No matter what the cost, if you ask someone out, you pay for them, point blank. If you can't afford it, don't take them anywhere expensive. It's ain't about placin' a numerical value. It's about the fact that you've asked someone out somewhere, on your terms, and then you basically pull an okie doke on them to skirt out of being the man in the situation while expecting them to pay for a decision you made.

You probably split the tab down to a tee and write card numbers on the back of a receipt out at the bar with your best friend too. :russ:
 
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These simps will never learn. I'm the nikka that females call to pound their walls after they go out to Ruth Chris Steakhouse with these lames. Keep spending that $50 brehs :russ:
You pound they walls on call yet you think you winning.

Who's really tricking who here, trick?
 

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And here's where your feminine nature comes out and you get caught up on pettiness.

No matter what the cost, if you ask someone out, you pay for them, point blank. If you can't afford it, don't take them anywhere expensive. It's ain't about placin' a numerical value. It's about the fact that you've asked someone out somewhere, on your terms[b/], and then you basically pull an okie doke on them to skirt out of being the man in the situation while expecting them to pay for a decision you made.

You probably split the tab down to a tee and write card numbers on the back of a receipt out at the bar with your best friend too. :russ:
again, it's not about if the dude should or shouldn't pay. it's about why he chooses to pay or chooses not to pay. a dude who chooses not to pay to "get over" on a chick is a loser.
 

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You clearly said anyone who paid on the first date was pulling "sucker moves". Stop being such a sensitive ass bytch. I called you a name? Big deal, get over. :russ:

You date hoes who don't feel entitled to the same things your mom, sister, etc. would demand from other men. Things you, your father and your grandfather should have taught them to demand if you/they were good men. You date bottom feeders and it's clear you're a product of a weak male structure.. You were proud at first, be proud now.



And here's where your feminine nature comes out and you get caught up on pettiness.

No matter what the cost, if you ask someone out, you pay for them, point blank. If you can't afford it, don't take them anywhere expensive. It's ain't about placin' a numerical value. It's about the fact that you've asked someone out somewhere, on your terms, and then you basically pull an okie doke on them to skirt out of being the man in the situation while expecting them to pay for a decision you made.

You probably split the tab down to a tee and write card numbers on the back of a receipt out at the bar with your best friend too. :russ:

You piece of sh!t.
 

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You clearly said anyone who paid on the first date was pulling "sucker moves". Stop being such a sensitive ass bytch. I called you a name? Big deal, get over. :russ:

You date hoes who don't feel entitled to the same things your mom, sister, etc. would demand from other men. Things you, your father and your grandfather should have taught them to demand if you/they were good men. You date bottom feeders and it's clear you're a product of a weak male structure.. You were proud at first, be proud now.



And here's where your feminine nature comes out and you get caught up on pettiness.

No matter what the cost, if you ask someone out, you pay for them, point blank. If you can't afford it, don't take them anywhere expensive. It's ain't about placin' a numerical value. It's about the fact that you've asked someone out somewhere, on your terms, and then you basically pull an okie doke on them to skirt out of being the man in the situation while expecting them to pay for a decision you made.

You probably split the tab down to a tee and write card numbers on the back of a receipt out at the bar with your best friend too. :russ:



i dont date bottom feeders try again.

Actually if you read through this thread, I never had to even ask for a separate bill, the women of today is gladly happy to offer.
 

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the desperate women of today is gladly happy to offer.
Of course.

Notice how no man on here would advise his sister of daughter to pay for a man, or for herself. That's how you all know the women y'all talk to ain't shyt. :laff:

So why the fukk did you quote me in the first place then? :dahell: I told you why a dude should pay, several times over. If you don't disagree with that, then stop fukking quoting me cause you just look like a lame, catty dude.

I swear nikkas on here just like arguing with me. :russ:
 

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You pound they walls on call yet you think you winning.

Who's really tricking who here, trick?

on call? I set it up early in the day. Hit them up , they tell me they going on a date with some lame nikka and I tell them to come thru after they leave the restaurant. No money spent on my part. How am I tricking?
 

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Of course.

Notice how no man on here would advise his sister of daughter to pay for a man, or for herself. That's how you all know the women y'all talk to ain't shyt. :laff:


So why the fukk did you quote me in the first place then? :dahell: I told you why a dude should pay, several times over. If you don't disagree with that, then stop fukking quoting me cause you just look like a lame, catty dude.

I swear nikkas on here just like arguing with me. :russ:


I never said to pay for a man, I never said not to pay for any date ever. However on the first date when no party may feel a connection I don't pay and I never have for the past 3 years, and the women I've been out with have no problem with digging into their wallet.



you have your opinions and thats great, make your own thread with your useless banter
 
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