Eye Cue DA COLI GAWD
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It ain't simping if you got it
Paying for a first date is the biggest sucker move
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Eye Cue DA COLI GAWD
<--- Cleveland Browns winning that many, boi!
I'm not reading through 18 pages, but when it comes to paying for a date, its not about the woman, its about the man and the standard he hold himself up to.
Simple -- I don't date woman who I don't feel I want to spend money for dinner, movie, etc. Call it reading chicks. Call it knowing yourself and what you like. Whatever, as a man, do for yourself what you need to do in order for you to do good for others. Stop trying to scheme for sh*t because you won't appreciate when you get what you thought you wanted in the first place.
Simple -- I don't date woman who I don't feel I want to spend money for dinner, movie, etc. Call it reading chicks. Call it knowing yourself and what you like. Whatever, as a man, do for yourself what you need to do in order for you to do good for others. Stop trying to scheme for sh*t because you won't appreciate when you get what you thought you wanted in the first place.
I agree that we have to be hard on hoes but I would feel like a bum if I didnt pay for our date. Seems like the gentleman thing to do. If I thought she was a skeezer, I wouldnt be seen in public with her.
DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
TS obviously dates low self-esteem run downs who are used to nikkas playin' them. There's a reason why he and the guys who agree with him steadily complaining about women/dating instead of surprising us with stories about the great women in their lives.
Ole imaginary player ass nikkas.
No woman of quality is going for that shyt. None.
You gotta be dating a severe, desperate ugmug for her to feel like she has to pay for herself on a date and she not have a problem with that cause if she was worth anything special with a good head on her shoulder she'd have plenty of other nikkas linin' up to take her out as well.
Every woman with a good father figure and/or a good older brother has been told many times not to entertain dudes who don't pay for a date. If she ain't been told that by any significant man in her life, then she ain't worth the problems cause she either got family issues or she's ignorin' the game her pops put on her out of desperation and I ain't the nikka for scraps and leftovers.
She better get some pride.
Ole imaginary player ass nikkas.
No woman of quality is going for that shyt. None. You gotta be dating a severe, desperate ugmug for her to feel like she has to pay for herself on a date and she not have a problem with that cause if she was worth anything special with a good head on her shoulder she'd have plenty of other nikkas linin' up to take her out as well.
Every woman with a good father figure and/or a good older brother has been told many times not to entertain dudes who don't pay for a date. If she ain't been told that by any significant man in her life, then she ain't worth the problems cause she either got family issues or she's ignorin' the game her pops put on her out of desperation and I ain't the nikka for scraps and leftovers.
She better get some pride.
dontreadthis
philly.
how is asking why men have to pay for YOUR shyt on a first date selfish?
again, it's not about if the dude should or shouldn't pay. it's about why he chooses to pay or chooses not to pay. a dude who chooses not to pay to "get over" on a chick is a loser. a dude who chooses to pay because not paying would make him seem like a clown or a bum is a loser as well. Painting women with a broad brush and saying they're low-quality women if they pay for their share is the definition of objectifying them though because in other words, her worth is determined by if she chooses to spend her time with a man willing to spend money on her.TS obviously dates low self-esteem run downs who are used to nikkas playin' them. There's a reason why he and the guys who agree with him steadily complaining about women/dating instead of surprising us with stories about the great women in their lives.
Ole imaginary player ass nikkas.
You gotta be dating a severe, desperate ugmug for her to feel like she has to pay for herself on a date and she not have a problem with that cause if she was worth anything special with a good head on her shoulder she'd have plenty of other nikkas linin' up to take her out as well.
Every woman with a good father figure and/or a good older brother has been told many times not to entertain dudes who don't pay for a date. If she ain't been told that by any significant man in her life, then she ain't worth the problems cause she either got family issues or she's ignorin' the game her pops put on her out of desperation and I ain't the nikka for scraps and leftovers.
like i said, it's all about the intent (on both sides). I feel like if you're true to yourself and follow your intuition, you'll know if it's ok to pay or not.
Why should I take you out ? You could be a crazy
Trick $50 on hoes brehs
theres dudes out there who are meeting these same chicks at night clubs and smashing on the same night
or
do u wanna be that nikka who forks up 50 dollar and not get a 2nd date
your choice
These simps will never learn. I'm the nikka that females call to pound their walls after they go out to Ruth Chris Steakhouse with these lames. Keep spending that $50 brehs
take em out to coffe
vibe well
put her in the roster
invite her over
if she declines...then bushes she goes
rinse repeat
thats why every dude gotta have a roster of females
When are you coming to ATL? you are going to feast here!
Gentleman dont get p*ssy.
DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
Because, as a man, you should be the one asking her out. If you want her act like a lady, you need to act like a man.
It's a shame you un-masculine, effeminate nikkas don't realize this. If you ask someone out, you need to pay for them, point blank. Like, is it that hard to understand?
And yes, sorry to let you know, but your quality as a person is dependent upon the quality of people you attract. So yes, if a woman is constantly attracting bum ass dudes who don't think she's even worth a lil $10-20, then she obviously ain't shyt. If she feels comfortable with that, that says something about her, IMO. Let me know the next time you date a woman who has a history of dating a trail of dusty nikkas. You gonna be proud to stand next to that? The only way you will be is if you're dusty yourself.
Honestly, if a woman isn't worth $20 (cause you shouldn't be ballin' out on the first date anyway) to me, then she definitely isn't worth my time either. My time >>> money.
TS obviously dates low self-esteem run downs who are used to nikkas playin' them. There's a reason why he and the guys who agree with him steadily complaining about women/dating instead of surprising us with stories about the great women in their lives.
Ole imaginary player ass nikkas.
You gotta be dating a severe, desperate ugmug for her to feel like she has to pay for herself on a date and she not have a problem with that cause if she was worth anything special with a good head on her shoulder she'd have plenty of other nikkas linin' up to take her out as well.
Every woman with a good father figure and/or a good older brother has been told many times not to entertain dudes who don't pay for a date. If she ain't been told that by any significant man in her life, then she ain't worth the problems cause she either got family issues or she's ignorin' the game her pops put on her out of desperation and I ain't the nikka for scraps and leftovers.
Bingo.
the thing everyone is forgetting about it
I JUST SAID THE FIRST DATE, i have no problem covering when I'm exclusive or in a committed relationship.
I JUST SAID THE FIRST DATE, i have no problem covering when I'm exclusive or in a committed relationship.