Paying for a first date is the biggest sucker move

[MikelArteta]

I'm a gold digger because I feel that a man should pay for the first date?! Come off that shyt. You saying that is like saying every women is a gold digger. We are talking about women in This post so I'm a women telling you how we think about the situation .

i said you are seeming very gold diggerish because its all about $$$ $$$, the guy is not your husband, not your bf, he has zero obligations to spend money on you. I never said every women is a gold digger, I've stated before and I will again, I have not paid a penny on a first date hte past 3 years and I have been on numerous numerous first dates/encounters. Most women are not stuck in these old archaic "traditions", most women have careers of their own and don't feel any less by picking up their bill or splitting the cost.

Example last date I went on I wanted to take pictures of the waterfront, parking was 15 bucks I paid the 15. After she was hungry so went to a chinese restaurant to eat, I didn't evek ask her to pay for my meal but she did saying I paid for parking.

 

[Lana Kane]

You're the exception then, not the rule.

I'm just different I suppose
Maybe because I didn't start actually dating till I was 20 or so

 

[LOUD]

All my first dates are always to a Church

 

[KinksandCoils]

i said you are seeming very gold diggerish because its all about $$$ $$$, the guy is not your husband, not your bf, he has zero obligations to spend money on you. I never said every women is a gold digger, I've stated before and I will again, I have not paid a penny on a first date hte past 3 years and I have been on numerous numerous first dates/encounters. Most women are not stuck in these old archaic "traditions", most women have careers of their own and don't feel any less by picking up their bill or splitting the cost.

Example last date I went on I wanted to take pictures of the waterfront, parking was 15 bucks I paid the 15. After she was hungry so went to a chinese restaurant to eat, I didn't evek ask her to pay for my meal but she did saying I paid for parking.

Plenty of women have great jobs and still feel that a man should pay. U don't get anything I'm saying. Smh at u for making it seem like a man should only pay for those type of women in his life. Lmao women have been working for many yrs. my grandma had a career so stop acting like women being independent just started like 10 years ago. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO PAY FOR THE WOMEN OH WELL. I'm not going to keep going back in fourth with u after this.

 

[Turbulent]

All my first dates are always to a Church

you paying for her tithes?

 

[AquaCityBoy]

I always figured a chick aborting your kid and keeping the ring was a bigger sucker move.

 

[director_of_bands]

dating is a cost no matter how you look at it...gotta pay to play

 

[FBGPlank]

I have no problem paying for the first date, but if she just expects me to pay without even trying to help pay the tab . I also have no problem with going dutch

 

[Turbulent]

dating is a cost no matter how you look at it...gotta pay to play

as the dude in my avi said (RIP) "the only winning move is not to play."

 

[Dooby]

Man take ya'll noses of your keyboard...

 

[MikelArteta]

Plenty of women have great jobs and still feel that a man should pay. U don't get anything I'm saying. Smh at u for making it seem like a man should only pay for those type of women in his life. Lmao women have been working for many yrs. my grandma had a career so stop acting like women being independent just started like 10 years ago. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO PAY FOR THE WOMEN OH WELL. I'm not going to keep going back in fourth with u after this.

let me just ask you this one thing

so you go out on a date, right away off the bat your not feeling this guy, you still going to order that 22.99 steak arent you, you'll still act chummy, laugh, and act like your having a good time, you'll still go to the movie after, and then he'll ask Teedot I had a great time lets do it again and you drop that text "i had fun but were not compatible" , now this dude wasted that 22.99 on that steak that 10 dollar movie ticket etc. and you knew like many women do quite eraly if there is no attraction , but your ok with that, your ok with a dude wasting money on you when you already know you'll never give him another date again.

thats your scenario


my scenario example

go out on a date, i pay for my quarter chicken, you pay for your steak, i pay for my movie ticket you pay for yours and popcorn, I say I had a great time , we should do this again - you say thanks I had a great time but i dont think we are compatible

I saved myself 30-40 bucks.

 

[Dooby]

You can't tell the difference between the two?

Going out on a date is not the same as going out with your friends. They're two completely different things and yall "cut corners" nikkaz fail a lot because of that. Nikkaz want a quality broad but want to do the bare minimum to get them. You aint that cute, nikka. You gotta put some effort into it.

First and foremost ease that noise, Timmy, I'm fine as hell

Speak for yourself if you're an unfortunate looking fellow.

Don't get upset because your options are limited you lemon.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

How often do Women ask Men out on Dates?

Rarely, but if you don't think a woman is worth buying dinner for, why ask her out in the first place? Fam, a dude can get a decent dinner for 2 for like 20 bucks, I'm not saying take the chick to a fancy restaurant or anything

 

[Lana Kane]

Rarely, but if you don't think a woman is worth buying dinner for, why ask her out in the first place? Fam, a dude can get a decent dinner for 2 for like 20 bucks, I'm not saying take the chick to a fancy restaurant or anything

Yo, let's go to the drive thru for double big macs and call it a night lmao. My ex and I used to go on fast food dates all the time because we weren't into fancy dinner dates.

I was so fat back then.


My thoughts on this: if you invite her out, you pay. if I invite you out, I pay. That's how easy it should be.

 

[Jahmal]

dating is a cost no matter how you look at it...gotta pay to play

Most dudes dont go on dates to start a relationship . They just want to get laid and they think they have to spend money on women to do so. I havent been on a date in years. I meet up with chicks at festivals, parks, lounges and spend $0 on them and still smash them. SMH at these suckas spending money on chicks and getting a hug like this after the date