On some real ****, how often do yall approach random women?

[yseJ]

from my experience

first, you cant have a prolonged fear of rejection. plus women sense it if you arent confident. cant approach women without confidence unless you can really relate.

thing is, its better to be 1/20 then 0 for 0....fa real

but that doesnt mean you go apeshyt and try to approach every woman like you'd do on a club dancefloor...pick your fukking spots. start with small talk. be friendly and not too pushy.

in public its harder but its also more casual. dont ever use stupid pickup lines. girls in the bars/clubs know you tryin to pick em up. girls in the public wont believe you just tried a stupid pickup line in broad daylight...and will ether you prolly.

convince them youre trying to be friendly. face it, most broads whod let u fukk on the same night....are either whores or have low self esteem and should be easy to pick up. so if u meet a broad like that youre almost there if not (as usually the case) try to make a friendship and get her info...

then its all up to you to enhance that relationship to new levels

 

[ll_simon]

Wow. Good thread we got going here. A lot of interesting techniques, def leaving with a couple things. I got a problem with some of you nikkas tho. When I see nikkas talkin bout this fear of rejection all I can think of is, who the fukk do you think you are. Do you really think anyone's paying enough attention to you to remember you at a later time as some guy that got rejected? Especially if everyone's drinking. If you see something your interested in, go in. I mean, idk I'm a pretty good looking guy so all these rules and techniques don't apply equally to everyone on here. But if your confident and a little funny you can do some work.

Me myself I don't really have many moves or much game at all. And to be honest I get approached by women more than I approach them. Right now I'm fukkin with a couple chicks so I'm not actively goin after chicks. When I do see something worth going out of my way for I just act natural and talk, try and find some common ground and that's usually it.

The other day I was paying this fine at the courthouse, round 8am and it was just me and this other chick in there. We had a few FEW words before the window opened and I payed my fine, looked over at her said peace. So few minutes later I'm in my car I see her walk out and I'm like hmm. I roll up next to her walking out, I pull up next to her roll the window down asked her her name, Samantha. Was about to rain so I asked if she drove, she did. So then I was just like," you seem pretty cool I think we should get together sometime", she agreed. Simple as that my nikkas.

Don't matter if its one on one or in a crowded place. To be scared of rejection is to put random people you don't even care about above you as if their opinion of you actually means something.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

If I said that and she said no I would've been cuz we had class together and lived closed to eachother so I would have to keep my head down if I was anywhere near her. If girls really want the D they might as well just say it. Some girls are too shook to seem like sluts when deep down they know what the deal is

Breh, the only too shook is you. So she say no, then what? You gomma avoid the bytch for the rest of your life? Y'all nikkas too damn scared of these hoes man.

Of course she not gonna come up to you, that's how society is set up. Its like y'all niggss want a straight role reversal. You want her to hold the door for you, pick you up on a date, wine and dine you, lay you gently on her rose pedal covered bed and make sweet gentle love to you as well ?

 

[↓R↑LYB]

When I was single... anytime a woman caught my eye...didn't matter the place...if i get shot down oh well, I've been rejected so many times that by the time i reached my my early 20's shyt didn't even phase me... A chick shot me down pretty bad in a best buy one time and I hit that bytch with the "and cut! Okay let's do the scene again!" Walked in reverser around the corner...came back around the corner and she dissed me again...actually that one was pretty painful...

Now that I am in a relationship, just whenever the mood strikes me to see if I still got it...i am much more into hitting on just average chicks now...they entire expression is just

 

[PhonZhi]

If I see cute girl ill make eye contact and smile, if she reciprocates ill say hi but shes going to have to the rest of the work though. Not trying to inflate any girls ego and look like every other guy.

so this is how men think in 2012??

 

[ClassyME]

I don't hesitate on giving my number if he's pretty cool. I just tell them off top that I'm not tryna date anyone but we can still be friends if they're down. I avoid and ignore guys who say "ay guhh, wassup baby? ay maaaa"

I always kind of felt that women tend to obsess over their looks mostly to impress other women, rather than men. After all most nyggas don't have standards and will hit anything.

That said, you're probably right, but personally I'm just not built for approaching random chicks, that fear of rejection shyt is no joke.

I dress up for myself to be honest. When I look good, I feel good. I can't feel good if I don't look good. fukk I look like impressing the next broad? You read females wrong.

 

[Kilgore Trout]

@ approaching hoes when you look like me

 

[PhonZhi]

 

[Still Benefited]

Wow. Good thread we got going here. A lot of interesting techniques, def leaving with a couple things. I got a problem with some of you nikkas tho. When I see nikkas talkin bout this fear of rejection all I can think of is, who the fukk do you think you are. Do you really think anyone's paying enough attention to you to remember you at a later time as some guy that got rejected? Especially if everyone's drinking. If you see something your interested in, go in. I mean, idk I'm a pretty good looking guy so all these rules and techniques don't apply equally to everyone on here. But if your confident and a little funny you can do some work.

Me myself I don't really have many moves or much game at all. And to be honest I get approached by women more than I approach them. Right now I'm fukkin with a couple chicks so I'm not actively goin after chicks. When I do see something worth going out of my way for I just act natural and talk, try and find some common ground and that's usually it.

The other day I was paying this fine at the courthouse, round 8am and it was just me and this other chick in there. We had a few FEW words before the window opened and I payed my fine, looked over at her said peace. So few minutes later I'm in my car I see her walk out and I'm like hmm. I roll up next to her walking out, I pull up next to her roll the window down asked her her name, Samantha. Was about to rain so I asked if she drove, she did. So then I was just like," you seem pretty cool I think we should get together sometime", she agreed. Simple as that my nikkas.

Don't matter if its one on one or in a crowded place. To be scared of rejection is to put random people you don't even care about above you as if their opinion of you actually means something.

nikkas sho do be watchin with the to see if u about to get rejected tho lol,so I get the feeling of pressure..they tryna put on a incredible show for the woman and the audience that's not neccesary.

We also need to hit on the fact its aloooot of nikkas who ain't that good looking who admit to havin no game...deciding to go out on a limb approaching women outta they league...sumtimes these women is just stuckup but sumtimes u shoulda knew better...u only go out on a limb when u see a super bad chick and u can't resist...then wonder why u gettin rejected all the time lol....u holler ONLY at chicks outta your league more than likely u woulda got rejected no matter what u said....if u gon reach outta ur league at least be able to take it on the chin and recognize u wuz probaly supposed to lose that one.


Different dudes got diff games tho,not everybodys charasmatic or looks good enuff to where whatever they say works...u gotta just find whatever works for u when it comes to talkin to women,but u NEED a strategy,not talkin is not a option unless u just sum ol pretty azz nikka lol ,u will miss out...


Talk to women that's only by theyself if that's how u feel comfortable....if u a square talkin to hoodrats probaly won't go over well so know your demographic and where to find em....if ur deathly afraid all I can suggest is a "driveby compliment"...u not tryna start a convo ,and won't have to worry about rejection or akward silence....simply give the chick a compliment calmly whether its about her attractiveness or body parts and just keep walking.


Its pretty wack and u might leave a good one behind, but u will intrigue some of these chicks like "he said I'm sexy wonder why he didn't try to talk to me" sumtimes they'll come to u...it just puts the ball in the womans court if u absolutley have to...makes her feel comfortable to approach u bcuz u already told her u wuz attracted...u still gon miss out on a lot,but at least u got a strategy.


Main thing to remember is women have different taste bruh,and diff levels of desperate...we've all seen women wit nikkas and thought "damn she wit him"..well u might get lucky and be that "him" one day and pull sumthin outta ur league too....u don't know a womans background b4 u talk to her....sum of these bad chciks grew up around squares and won't even realize u have no game...sum got daddy issues and want sumbody that look flabby and sick like they daddy...sum don't get approached like u think and are doubting theyself and have low self esteem when u get to em....can't assume

 

[Malta]

Just be yourself, if that's not good enough then move on. Attractive women get hit on a lot by terrible/weak game, and it's easy for them to spot who is trying game and who is genuine in their approach. You'd be surprised how many attractive women don't actually have guys trying to talk to them in a respectful manner, they get a lot of dumb nikkas saying "Yo what's good ma, you sexy". But most dudes who they would actually be interested in are too afraid of rejection to actually talk to them, the most bold nikkas are the ones who know they don't have a real shot but swing for the fences anyway.

Make sure they know you're interested, but talk to them like what they are, which is a person.