On some real ****, how often do yall approach random women?

[Ronnie Lott]

i usually holla at random chicks almost everyday. not necessarily to get the number but just to stay sharp/crisp on my conversation. at the gym, grocery store, mall, train, random chicks i see when im orderin lunch. i try not to compliment broads too much because so many nyggaz brown nose and jock the brods so much that their heads get too gassed. i only actually talk to chix if i get that good eye contact from them. it just depends on the situation. alot of times i'll act like i dont even see the chicks. i make em feel unimportant and when a chick feels like shes unnoticed, sometimes they make u notice themthat lil method works alot.

 

[Ain't That Something]

yuuppp! I HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE when dudes tell me to smile. OMG once a dude tells me that aint no way in hell im giving him shyt. Irks the fukk outta me. Its on the automatic turnoff list right with little dikks and body odor...

Damn baby u ca't smle fo ya boy Ain't

 

[Token]

yeah smilin helps...maybe ya sexy faces looks like a mean face instead...if that don't work just start wearing less clothes...if u over 17 of course...but I hope u sayin a couple times a week knocks it into these dudes head that women don't get hit on all day like they think it happens...women ain't lookin mean neccesarily bcuz they don't want u to talk to em....how many of you nikkas walk aaround smilin all day but u want women to walk around all day smilin for no reason.

@ bolded....Oh no .

But nah....I'm not about to get naked just for some male attention. I'd rather be alone.

You're right, tho. Even when I'm not smiling I'm still happy (I'm almost always happy). I don't mind guys coming up to me as long as it's in a respectful manner.

 

[labelplant]

This is when my swag levels are turned up to a hunnin trillion and im @ my best


for real tho. I'd say always, as in daily. I'm alright at sparking up convo with random people and having them talk to me like they known me forever, shyt is

My issue has and will always be sealing the deal, I never wanna come off as that nikka that goes from talking to a broad and being like and then like 5 seconds later be like so whats good with that number? But at this point, ive realized these broads will most likely never see me again and don't play any significant part in the grand scheme of my life. If I bomb, i bomb

If you a funny nikka, which a bunch of you are, that's usually your way in. use that shyt to your advantage and Just be prepared, there's always those weirdo dweeb bytches that have that weird dry sense of humor and none of your shyt will go over and it will be ETHEROUS. you'll cry in the car

Real talk, when I'm in a relationship i become a p*ssy magnet somehow

 

[Spatial Paradox]

Can't say I've ever approached random women. I'd say it's because of a fear of being shot down, but it's more likely to be because my head tends to be in the clouds when I'm out and about. I'd probably have no problem doing it at a bar or lounge though, but I don't really go out like that so I can't say I have.

It's funny because chicks have flirted with me in front of my girl. Since I'm terrible at reading those signals (or more likely, I'm just not paying attention to them), I never catch on until my girl points it out after the fact.

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

Can't even front, my day game is trash...mostly because they catch me off guard. I'm totally different out @ a lounge or some ish.

 

[Grams]

Lmao of course you supposed to say that. When I go out on the first date with a broad, I let her know to bring an overnight bag cause it's going down. Stop thinking these broads ain't whores. They love dikk.

If I said that and she said no I would've been cuz we had class together and lived closed to eachother so I would have to keep my head down if I was anywhere near her. If girls really want the D they might as well just say it. Some girls are too shook to seem like sluts when deep down they know what the deal is

 

[twan83]

Aint nothing better than going to a woman and smile make good eye contact and keep it simple with a hello and how you doing?

Not give a care if she says no just brush it off as her lost

Majority time when i approach someone i can get what i want but i do take my L's and i just tell em oh well your lost sweetie not mines have a nice day. Sometimes doing that they ended up changing there mind just out of CURIOUSITY

 

[Kilgore Trout]

I dont holla at hoes no more man. Im too old for that shyt. Im either meeting you at a social setting (party, meeting, school) or my friends is linking us up.


Im too egotistical to gas a random bytch up. Unless you damm near gawking at me in public, I aint chatting it up, Cant b lookin like all these other thirsty mofos out chea.

If I see cute girl ill make eye contact and smile, if she reciprocates ill say hi but shes going to have to the rest of the work though. Not trying to inflate any girls ego and look like every other guy.

 

[FastEddie215]

just like Will Smith said in the movie "Hitch" "no women wakes up saying " god, i hope I dont get swept off my feet today" I know its a movie but that right there is as real as it gets. stop being shook of these females and just approach

 

[George Gooney]

@ approaching hoes when you look like me... Nah but seriously i don't think about women that much to chat up random chicks. Im usually busy doing stuff to better myself for when i meet a woman i wanna settle down with.

 

[winb83]

If you learn how to approach strangers not just women but any person you don't know approaching a subset of strangers aka women won't be an issue. You spark a conversation and from there you can gauge her interest and if you get good signs from her you go in for the kill and of not you're just talking to a random person you can end the convo at any time and leave.

If you're nervious approaching women you're doing it wrong. Stop any attempt to get numbers and just practice talking to random people you don't know till you're comfortable enough walking up and talking to anyone. Once you are comfortable enough talking to strangers you focus on reading signsof interest and once you can do that you focus on the close.


in closing if you approach trying to pick her up from jump you put pressure on yourself and feel nervous if you approach with the attitude I'll just start a conversation and see where it goes from there no pressure

 

[savageseancombs]

I got this chick's number the other day by askin her for advice about my ex. Honestly I didn't expect it to go down that way, I just needed a female perspective and she was the close female in the vicinity.

 

[Mr. Manhattan]

its better to initiate a convo when u two are alone, im naturally good at making conversation, its choosing the right time
I bagged a swedish girl at starbucks, a black high school teacher also at starbucks, a young dominican shorty in a empty train
its easy at work, or when meeting friends of friends


its not easy picking em off the street tho real talk

edit: i need to get back to school find some easy pickings

 

[Piff Perkins]

The problem with hittin on most chicks is that they get hit on ALL DAY erry day. So even if she kinda feelin' you, if you walk up and kick some game she might shoot you down automatically out of habit. Nah b, you gotta be smooth. Start some small talk with a chick in line at the bank, at Wal Mart, etc. Just get used to doing that shyt, b. Initially the point will not be to bag chicks because let's face it - most of the times that shyt don't work. The point is to get so good at quick convos that you aren't sounding corny or thirsty, and eventually you'll meet the right chick. Gotta play the long game brehs

Case in point: ya boy used to talk to this one chick at Wal Mart all the damn time. We'd see each other all the time in the frozen food section, and I'd start up a quick convo, make a comment, etc. She'd laugh and be nice at first, but eventually she started talking more and more. Finally I got her number, we went out, came back to my place and I cooked that girl some food.

Pretty sure she was either a virgin or only had sex a couple times. She was tight as hell and I could tell she was almost embarrassed at how good that p*ssy was feeling nahmean. Slayed it, then she was mine for months until she moved to NY