On some real ****, how often do yall approach random women?

[Alec Baldwin]

I'm in a relationship now and trying to be faithful so I don't do that shyt no more

This is when my swag levels are turned up to a hunnin trillion and im @ my best


for real tho. I'd say always, as in daily. I'm alright at sparking up convo with random people and having them talk to me like they known me forever, shyt is

My issue has and will always be sealing the deal, I never wanna come off as that nikka that goes from talking to a broad and being like and then like 5 seconds later be like so whats good with that number? But at this point, ive realized these broads will most likely never see me again and don't play any significant part in the grand scheme of my life. If I bomb, i bomb

If you a funny nikka, which a bunch of you are, that's usually your way in. use that shyt to your advantage and Just be prepared, there's always those weirdo dweeb bytches that have that weird dry sense of humor and none of your shyt will go over and it will be ETHEROUS. you'll cry in the car

 

[MewTwo]

last time i approached a chick i failed miserably but i still learned something (or rather it's something i already knew but for some reason didn't do at that specific time). basically, you gotta establish eye contact first. try to look at her without looking like a creepy rapist. once eye contact is established, smile slightly to show her you're attracted and see how she reacts, if you can sense she's open for you to approach (she'll smile back or something like that), approach. another good thing is when she breaks eye contact first. then you should approach right away. you've sort of established dominance at that point. when you approach, it doesn't really matter that much what you say. just make a comment about the surroundings or the moment and start a convo no matter how dull. what matters is that she clearly gets your intentions.

see if she's attracted and if you approach, all you have to do is not fukk it up. cause if she's attracted to you, at this point she's only looking for an excuse to spend more time with you and get to know you more. that is, any excuse that won't make her look too much desperate/slutty. and your job is to provide that.

my mistake with the chick i was talking about was that i didn't establish eye contact before approaching. so i basically looked like the guy that came out of nowhere, talking to her. see from her perspective she probably saw it as "this guy has been looking at me for god knows how long and then came up to me out of nowhere like a stalker". doesn't help that i approached from behind, lol.

anyway, my main point is that it doesn't matter how you approach, just establish eye contact and start a regular convo while making it clear you're attracted to her through your body language.

those pick up artist techniques have some pretty good nuggets of info sometimes too. some of it is kinda lame or BS and will have you doing too much but some of it is spot on. but realize you gotta approach while being yourself, not a character. and if being yourself doesn't work cause you're a lame or a bytch ass nikka then change who you are. become a better person and THEN start approaching chicks. that way you're not acting out of character cause it's the new you and it's real.

Am I the only one who thinks it's silly that interacting with women has become sort of a science? Reading your post made me feel like I was back in Calculus learning trigonometric derivatives. If socializing with someone has come to memorizing equations and formulas then clearly she's not someone I'd want to mess with (because then the friendship/relationship will only be just as complicated to deal with and maintain).

Ideally I want to be able to walk up to someone and just chat about random things for hours without being super nervous or worrying about saying the wrong thing. Unfortunately it's not like that and it's probably why so many men turn to seek the companionship of a prostitute (even the 'highly moral', self-righteous idiots who pretend to be against prostitution secretly engages it).

 

[Token]

if you're a female trying to approach men, don't try what i posted. probably won't work cause it's different for females. my post was mostly aimed at men trying to approach women. i'm not even sure that shyt would work for lesbians trying to attract females to be honest.

@ bolded.

Eh.....I'd probably be too nervous to try it anyway.

 

[Grams]

This girl in one of my classes made it too obvious that she wanted me. She'd always be staring at me and whatever but I didn't think much about it. Then we were walking back from class and she was like a good 20 feet in front of me. She makes a glance back, sees me, then slooooooooows down to the point where we side by side. In my head I was like "this gyal aint slick " but I didn't say nothing. After realizing how much of a Frank I was a made sure the next class I was gonna bag. We're walking back from class again and she does the slowdown trick again so I knew I was in there. I hit her up with a "hey" and she starts smiling like ear to ear. I'm feeling like and start a conversation. We talk and I make her laugh and we go back to our separate dorms cuz I'm not thirsty like that. I thought I was cash like Kobe in the 4th quarter and then after that she would try to duck me. How did I go from in there to "yerrrrr outta hereee" in that short amount of time

I told myself that I should let the girls bag me cuz even when I thought I was in I wasn't in. I thought that was a formula for disaster but I have some success with it

 

[The Unknown Hype]

not enough, so many losses my thing is living up to the hype seems like i imagine what they expect out of me an fukk myself up by trying to be that person. ive gotten better about it though its gotten a whole lot easier after ive stopped playing it like a experiment and more like the game it really is. i got the look now and even in highschool but back then my game was all i need to work on now is that and more confidence

 

[The Unknown Hype]

This girl in one of my classes made it too obvious that she wanted me. She'd always be staring at me and whatever but I didn't think much about it. Then we were walking back from class and she was like a good 20 feet in front of me. She makes a glance back, sees me, then slooooooooows down to the point where we side by side. In my head I was like "this gyal aint slick " but I didn't say nothing. After realizing how much of a Frank I was a made sure the next class I was gonna bag. We're walking back from class again and she does the slowdown trick again so I knew I was in there. I hit her up with a "hey" and she starts smiling like ear to ear. I'm feeling like and start a conversation. We talk and I make her laugh and we go back to our separate dorms cuz I'm not thirsty like that. I thought I was cash like Kobe in the 4th quarter and then after that she would try to duck me. How did I go from in there to "yerrrrr outta hereee" in that short amount of time

I told myself that I should let the girls bag me cuz even when I thought I was in I wasn't in. I thought that was a formula for disaster but I have some success with it

i think we found the problem. prob took it as you rejecting her soon as you walked away she prob had a look like

 

[MewTwo]

This girl in one of my classes made it too obvious that she wanted me. She'd always be staring at me and whatever but I didn't think much about it. Then we were walking back from class and she was like a good 20 feet in front of me. She makes a glance back, sees me, then slooooooooows down to the point where we side by side. In my head I was like "this gyal aint slick " but I didn't say nothing. After realizing how much of a Frank I was a made sure the next class I was gonna bag. We're walking back from class again and she does the slowdown trick again so I knew I was in there. I hit her up with a "hey" and she starts smiling like ear to ear. I'm feeling like and start a conversation. We talk and I make her laugh and we go back to our separate dorms cuz I'm not thirsty like that. I thought I was cash like Kobe in the 4th quarter and then after that she would try to duck me. How did I go from in there to "yerrrrr outta hereee" in that short amount of time

I told myself that I should let the girls bag me cuz even when I thought I was in I wasn't in. I thought that was a formula for disaster but I have some success with it

Was she good looking? Back in high school alot of good looking girls would do that to gas guys up. They make it seem like they're into you but when you finally approach them they suddenly don't care for you. It's like a form of psychological warfare. Annoying as fukk.

 

[Grams]

i think we found the problem. prob took it as you rejecting her soon as you walked away she prob had a look like

What was I supposed to say? "You wanna come back to my room? "

That thirst would've been too strong

Was she good looking? Back in high school alot of good looking girls would do that to gas guys up. They make it seem like they're into you but when you finally approach them they suddenly don't care for you. It's like a form of psychological warfare. Annoying as fukk.

Yea she was good looking and I think she hit me with what you're saying

 

[Still Benefited]

I already know approaching women takes a lot of heart. That's why I try my best not to come off as mean when I say no thanks.



I'm too scary to just be out here hollering at random dudes. I got to really pump myself up and prepare myself mentally before coming at a dude. By the time I'm ready he'd probably be gone . I'm terrible at this sort of stuff.


@Turbulent.....That's a nice approach. I'll be using that.

U shouldn't have to approach no dude unless u ugly...just learn to make yourself approachable....if he don't bite on a smile or a simple "hi" he's a coward,homo or don't like black women...cool that u don't mind doin it...bout time we got a thread about this instead of how to meet women online....the more u do it the lss serious it will come to u and u can be more playful with it.

I don't do it as much now that I got a baby mama bcuz its no point...I'm only hollering if its worth cheatin on my girl for now....but I hollered at a few this week.

I met one in the laundrymat and asked if I could help her fold her clothes....and she laughed and said no...then I said "why do I look like sumbody u can't trust wit ya draws?"...she said "yeah",then I said "girl I would never disrespect yo draws"...then I went from there and made small talk about how wack the machines wuz,and I made fun of her for washing her clothes in the same cycle with her underwear....we had a good conversation and she gave me her number but said she wuz talkin to sumbody but it wuznt serious...talked to her a couple times but she don't like talkin about sex at all really,maybe cuz we just met or she see me as buddy,I don't know yet.


Met another one at the gas station pumpin gas and told her "you lucky gas ain't .55 cent a gallon no more or Id fill ya tank up right now"...she said "I ain't never seen gas at .55 a gallon how old r u"...told her my age she told me hers...she came around to my side and clowned me for puttin just 7$ in my truck...I told her "don't let that 3 gallons full you we can still go WHEREEVER u wanna go:takethat:"...she ain't give me her number but gave me her facebook bye bytch.


Seen one in the grocery store and we wuz both shopping and I said "you better be careful switchin them hips like that,I fall in love easy"...she halfway smiled,I passed her and turned around to see the booty,and I seen she turned around to see me walking away......I let a minute pass and went back to find her and wuz like "I had to come back and find u,I kept walking before cuz I kinda been talkin to this girl for the past few weeks...but I kept hearin a voice in my head saying 3 weeks ain't shyt"....told her I wanna see how cool she is if I could and she wuz like "u not gon get sprung off me in 3 weeks r u" told her I can't make no promises and we exchanged numbers...ain't talked to her yet ima hit her up today I think.


Seen a chick in the parking lot and asked if I could get a minute with her....she ain't look at me once and just kept walking,ouch..still watched her walk away tho.


Oh yea and all u cats hatin on thirsty nikkas go to hell lol....u might think we look lame for actin thirsty,but u realize how wack a bunch of nikkas look standing next to a bad bytch all by herself and none of u not sayin nuthing....as u can see from my appproaches it don't matter how corny or ridiculous what u say is,its more about the delivery and they attraction to u...I try to avoid the ones who don't make no eye contact and pretend they don't see you at all...but sumtimes u can't resist

 

[61 Corpses]

The eyes...always in the eyes my niggs. I can tell if I have a favorable percentage upon approach based on her eyes. Those shyts always gives it away

 

[Turbulent]

it's like Grand Cru Boo says, forget the movies. forget the videos and forget the songs. you know why they always have something quick and witty to say in movies? cause some dude spent hours writing the dialogue/lyrics that the character spits at the chick. forget that shyt in real life, it sounds forced and corny. if it comes naturally in the moment, then cool but otherwise keep it simple. stop trying to be slick with it. a chick is not gonna fukk you cause you had a witty line ready. and if she does, chances are she would have fukked with you even if you just told her "hi, noticed you and i just felt like talking to you. i'm _______ blablabla..."

 

[Rominati]

I agree but who has to gas them up?

I dont use no game or nothing...but every now and then I will try to have a conversation if the situation permits it. As long as you dont force it theres no issue.

If shes reading i wont bother her
Listening to music I likely wont bother her

etc etc

But if i'm on a intercity transit for instance...she sits beside or across from me or I see her coming on the bus walking past me. Nothing wrong with saying, "Why dont you have a seat here?"

If they burn ...they burn.
If they sit down you know its on

If you keep it casual you cant really go wrong. I do it for fun nowadays...lot of the time I dont even ask for the number.

I got a couple of female friends. And they LOOOOOOVE bragging to me almost everyday how a dude "tried" to talk to em.



To keep it a buck, a chick just called me a hour ago, to brag about how some guy just tried to talk to her at the pizza shop by offering to buy her a slice on him .


Its crazy



No matter how casual it seems, a chick know what you are trying to do lol .After I got hip to how these girls really feel, I stopped talking to chicks randomly its highschoolish to me.

 

[904]

@ some of the random shyt I done said to get a females attention.. Now its just starts with a simple "Hey..." after eye contact and a smile...

 

[Token]

U shouldn't have to approach no dude unless u ugly...just learn to make yourself approachable....if he don't bite on a smile or a simple "hi" he's a coward,homo or don't like black women...cool that u don't mind doin it...bout time we got a thread about this instead of how to meet women online....the more u do it the lss serious it will come to u and u can be more playful with it.

Sometimes I could be giving a dude my best face and he just don't pay attention. He'll look everywhere but up, smh.

But I was seriously @ your stories. A sense of humor is one of the most attractive traits.

 

[BruhMayne]

I used to be a salesperson so I dont usually have issues with approaching strangers when need be even if I dont want to

If you leave it up to women they'll say its never a good time to approach them but frankly...

All you gotta do is make em laugh a few times and they'll turn into real cool ppls...never heard a female say "I hope nobody makes me laugh today"