On some real ****, how often do yall approach random women?

[AAKing23]

I dont holla at hoes no more man. Im too old for that shyt. Im either meeting you at a social setting (party, meeting, school) or my friends is linking us up.


Im too egotistical to gas a random bytch up. Unless you damm near gawking at me in public, I aint chatting it up, Cant b lookin like all these other thirsty mofos out chea.

 

[RiffRaff]

Very rarely

The only play I usually get is if a girl approaches me or one of my friends tells me a girl is really feeling me.

Never really had that chase mentality, kind of the way my pops raised me though.

 

[Art Barr]

every woman i am physically attracted to, i holla at if i can get a break in the matrix.

or i make one, myself.

art barr

 

[msims]

I rarely approach chicks in public places like subway/bookstore. I meet most women through mutual friends, parties, bars (even though that's less often) or school (when I used to go but I'm coming back next semester )

To me it feels like on a bus I have nothing relevant to say to them. "Hey there, this bus is pretty good, I like the color patterns on the seats" I realize that's a fukked up mentality but that's how it is.

You think it's funny...but saying corny shyt like that works.

I haven't bussed it in a while, but back when I was, I would pull chicks by just talkin about random shyt around us.

All it takes is a small spark.

every woman i am physically attracted to, i holla at if i can get a break in the matrix.

or i make one, myself.

art barr

 

[Token]

I already know approaching women takes a lot of heart. That's why I try my best not to come off as mean when I say no thanks.



I'm too scary to just be out here hollering at random dudes. I got to really pump myself up and prepare myself mentally before coming at a dude. By the time I'm ready he'd probably be gone . I'm terrible at this sort of stuff.


@Turbulent.....That's a nice approach. I'll be using that.

 

[RandomRN86]

Best approach I've seen men use

Man: "Excuse me, I just wanted to complement you on your appearance today, have a good one" walk away


Female: (giggle/answer)

Man: either find a way to come back around, or let the chick talk.


either way its no pressure, and if you live in a small town, you won't be a creeper.

 

[AAKing23]

Nah It really ain't worth it to me

I would probably approah if it's in a social situation but other than that
I rather meet girls though mutual friends



Besides half these chicks out here got the face on when they out and about.


I just assume they wanna be left alone especially when all these thirsty nikkas are on the prowl approaching them at the drop of a hat.



A girl would really have to be making it obvious that she's into me before I approach


I ain't gonna be the dude to get rejected and boost some random girl's self esteem

 

[AgentGrey]

Eye contact and humor are universal,

Chicks are sly when they approach,either staring you down or bringing up some random thing. Sometimes i be having a million thoughts swimming in my head and dont pick up the clues and chalk it to them just being nice. Missed some good ones

^Man this shyt is too true,
When you're talking to another female about a situation like this or they WITNESS it and point it out like "she was totally hitting on you"





But when u do catch it,

 

[User Already Pawged In]

Whenever I approach random women, I usually bag on about a 60% clip, 3 outta every 5. But the two that reject me be the ones I think about afterwards. It fukks with my ego when I can't give the face to ANY chick I want.

 

[acri1]

So I've been doing it alot lately. Mainly because I realized that a woman's morning is all about getting it together for fly ass kings like myself. They want guys like me to look at them and approach them. They crave that shyt. They spend hours in that bathroom, for what? To attract quality guys. All approach anxiety is is you basically telling yourself that you aren't worthy of that woman. Demonic thoughts.

It's all women complain about, how guys nowadays aren't men. How they're looking for a man. They're not going to make the moves. Gotta man up and do it, brehs.

I always kind of felt that women tend to obsess over their looks mostly to impress other women, rather than men. After all most nyggas don't have standards and will hit anything.

That said, you're probably right, but personally I'm just not built for approaching random chicks, that fear of rejection shyt is no joke.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

The last would be some chick at a bar. She was chilling by herself, I sat down next to her, she struck up a convo, the rest was history. Before that was a week prior some broad at a bar, before that some chick St a coffee house, before that....you get the point.

What I've realized from talking to chicks is most nikkas don't know how to talk to a female. Y'all come off mad awkward and fukk up some potential p*ssy.

I'm in a relationship now and trying to be faithful so I don't do that shyt no more

 

[Grand Cru Boo]

All the time, it takes patience at first to figure out what works but the best advice I can give someone about approaching the opposite sex is clearly to.......


be yourself. this is the magic key, regardless if your insecure or nervous or anything just go with the flow.

this is what I do when I approach someone at a resturant

I usually observe first to find something to compliment on ( usually the first thing that I notice comes to mind)

I come around and gently touch them on their arm or shoulder and say how are you my name is...... and you are?

next I would give the compliment that I thought of earlier


after that I usually ask either "do you mind me joining you" and talk to her like weve known each other for years or ill ask if we coiuld do something later on and GIVE my number to them ( some I receive or exchange numbers but i usually give mines)

Simple

no exaggerated love movie b.s with the roses and poems and trying to be fabio and all thaty fukk all of that. keep it simple

 

[User Already Pawged In]

The last would be some chick at a bar. She was chilling by herself, I sat down next to her, she struck up a convo, the rest was history. Before that was a week prior some broad at a bar, before that some chick St a coffee house, before that....you get the point.

What I've realized from talking to chicks is most nikkas don't know how to talk to a female. Y'all come off mad awkward and fukk up some potential p*ssy.

I'm in a relationship now and trying to be faithful so I don't do that shyt no more :mjpls:

 

[Ohene]

I dont holla at hoes no more man. Im too old for that shyt. Im either meeting you at a social setting (party, meeting, school) or my friends is linking us up.


Im too egotistical to gas a random bytch up. Unless you damm near gawking at me in public, I aint chatting it up, Cant b lookin like all these other thirsty mofos out chea.

I agree but who has to gas them up?

I dont use no game or nothing...but every now and then I will try to have a conversation if the situation permits it. As long as you dont force it theres no issue.

If shes reading i wont bother her
Listening to music I likely wont bother her

etc etc

But if i'm on a intercity transit for instance...she sits beside or across from me or I see her coming on the bus walking past me. Nothing wrong with saying, "Why dont you have a seat here?"

If they burn ...they burn.
If they sit down you know its on

If you keep it casual you cant really go wrong. I do it for fun nowadays...lot of the time I dont even ask for the number.

 

[Turbulent]

I already know approaching women takes a lot of heart. That's why I try my best not to come off as mean when I say no thanks.



I'm too scary to just be out here hollering at random dudes. I got to really pump myself up and prepare myself mentally before coming at a dude. By the time I'm ready he'd probably be gone . I'm terrible at this sort of stuff.


@Turbulent.....That's a nice approach. I'll be using that.

if you're a female trying to approach men, don't try what i posted. probably won't work cause it's different for females. my post was mostly aimed at men trying to approach women. i'm not even sure that shyt would work for lesbians trying to attract females to be honest.