On some real ****, how often do yall approach random women?

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I rarely approach chicks in public places like subway/bookstore. I meet most women through mutual friends, parties, bars (even though that's less often) or school (when I used to go but I'm coming back next semester :eat:)

To me it feels like on a bus I have nothing relevant to say to them. "Hey there, this bus is pretty good, I like the color patterns on the seats" I realize that's a fukked up mentality but that's how it is.
 
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i hate this because it is motivated by looks. i am not harsh because i usually have no idea what to say because i know it takes a little heart but also guys are horrible at getting rejected "you weren't that cute anyways" :rudy:

if you do approach a random woman be smooth. don't just dive right into asking for her number and telling her you are sexy. the same way you guys wonder if a woman who sleeps with you on the first date does this with every man, women wonder if guys who approach random women does this all the time. like she's not special and he's just desperate or clueless
 

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I dont holla at hoes no more man. Im too old for that shyt. Im either meeting you at a social setting (party, meeting, school) or my friends is linking us up.


Im too egotistical to gas a random bytch up. Unless you damm near gawking at me in public, I aint chatting it up, Cant b lookin like all these other thirsty mofos out chea.
 

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i hate this because it is motivated by looks. i am not harsh because i usually have no idea what to say because i know it takes a little heart but also guys are horrible at getting rejected "you weren't that cute anyways" :rudy:

if you do approach a random woman be smooth. don't just dive right into asking for her number and telling her you are sexy. the same way you guys wonder if a woman who sleeps with you on the first date does this with every man, women wonder if guys who approach random women does this all the time. like she's not special and he's just desperate or clueless
i see what you're saying but keeping it a 100, how would a guy know if you're "special" or not if he has never spoken to you? if a guy approaches you and is pretty smooth and confident, odds are he approaches A LOT.
 
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Eye contact is important for relationships in general. Business or personal, maintaining good eye contact is imperative.
 

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For the last year, before I got back with my girl, randoms were the only girls I would go after, if I saw a girl I knew or already hit, I would try to avoid heavy. I live in little ass Albany though, so it wasn't easy to avoid the same chicks at the same bars though.
 

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bytches Ain't shyt

complicated ass hoes
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I've been kinda lazy with it this year, but it'll be gettin cold soon and rubbing your hand against the other side of the bed in the middle of the night and feelin nothin but those 800 thread egyptian cotton sheets aint the bizness.

So I've been doing it alot lately. Mainly because I realized that a woman's morning is all about getting it together for fly ass kings like myself. They want guys like me to look at them and approach them. They crave that shyt. They spend hours in that bathroom, for what? To attract quality guys. All approach anxiety is is you basically telling yourself that you aren't worthy of that woman. Demonic thoughts.

It's all women complain about, how guys nowadays aren't men. How they're looking for a man. They're not going to make the moves. Gotta man up and do it, brehs.

Finally, stop going for and being ecstatic over the number. Numbers don't mean shyt.
 
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