This doesn't make sense, though. It's literally the opposite.
When I value a woman and can see a future with her, that woman gets more of what she wants. I'll buy her dinner, plan nice dates, and I'll wait longer for sex than I would if I think that's how she generally operates WITH EVERYONE.
I value you as a woman = you get more of the things that women tend to want/what you want.
It's literally the opposite in the situation you mentioned for women.
I value you as a man = you get less of the things that you want as a man.
Some women don't seem to understand that, for good men, we look at you with the fundamental question of "Can I feel good about a choice to make this woman's needs a priority in my life? Can I feel good about taking on the stress and responsibility that involves? Can I feel good about making that commitment not just with her, but with the government handing out the marriage license and potentially coming for my $ down the line."
Knowing that a woman actually holds back from you the more you seem capable of taking on that responsibility...huge, huge turn off. When I was younger, I would dog women out for this.
This doesn't make sense, though. It's literally the opposite.
When I value a woman and can see a future with her, that woman gets more of what she wants. I'll buy her dinner, plan nice dates, and I'll wait longer for sex than I would if I think that's how she generally operates WITH EVERYONE.
I value you as a woman = you get more of the things that women tend to want/what you want.
It's literally the opposite in the situation you mentioned for women.
I value you as a man = you get less of the things that you want as a man.
Some women don't seem to understand that, for good men, we look at you with the fundamental question of "Can I feel good about a choice to make this woman's needs a priority in my life? Can I feel good about taking on the stress and responsibility that involves? Can I feel good about making that commitment not just with her, but with the government handing out the marriage license and potentially coming for my $ down the line."
Knowing that a woman actually holds back from you the more you seem capable of taking on that responsibility...huge, huge turn off. When I was younger, I would dog women out for this.
I don’t know what any of these terms mean. “Chad” or any of that shyt. I don’t see anything wrong with what was posted, though.
You give it up easy to a random, but gonna make me work? Good luck with that. If anything, I probably wouldnt be messing with you anyways. I’m not messing with any woman who finds problem with this, or any woman who would give it up easy
I don’t know what any of these terms mean. “Chad” or any of that shyt. I don’t see anything wrong with what was posted, though.
You give it up easy to a random, but gonna make me work? Good luck with that. If anything, I probably wouldnt be messing with you anyways. I’m not messing with any woman who finds problem with this, or any woman who would give it up easy
Both sides are true. What the original post stated was true, what you stated was true.Is it not true?
What about it is hard to understand unless you're looking at it through a man's lens where men don't risk much having sex. Men treat different women differently, everyone understands that, but when women do it's an issue.It blows my mind that some women actually believe this ridiculous shyt
Like you wanna think they’re just trolling but they’re dead serious
fukking a random dude right away while telling a “more serious” dude to wait is the ultimate disrespect in a man’s eyes
What about it is hard to understand unless you're looking at it through a man's lens where men don't risk much having sex. Men treat different women differently, everyone understands that, but when women do it's an issue.
I'd rather someone be entitled to my money you can easily make back, than entitled to a human body.
Why would people screaming "why are there no men" over undesirable men women barley want to mess withCorrect. So when the guys find out the opposite gets them more box, they’ll do the opposite
“WhY aRe ThErE nO mEn!?”
You’re either trolling or…………
We’re talking about a situation where a man is aware of what you’ve done
If he KNOWS that you fukked somebody else on the first night, but you expect him to wait 3 months, he is going to feel disrespected
This isn’t a men’s lens. It’s just a common sense lens
Society. Men. Duh100%, but who is setting the rules....and who do they benefit?
Why would people screaming "why are there no men" over undesirable men women barley want to mess with
This is really the answer right here, and it holds for both sexes. The simple solution to this problem is to not allow yourself to be placed on the sideline by the person. If you see the person is not putting in a reciprocal amount of effort, then move on. No reason to complain, sit around and try to convince them, or up your simping in the hope that they will finally choose you. Just move on and find someone who will be to you what you will be to them.He’s correct women break rules for the men they want and make rules for the men they don’t.
Society. Men. Duh
Listen, I’m not fighting the patriarchy. It’s just a tough system to navigate if a woman wasn’t raised understanding this shyt.
Plenty of women crash and burn trying to date like men, which is why we shouldn’t.
Plenty of men would knock a woman up and not care about the child that is sired, which is why we have to guard our wombs.
There are reasons why women should be careful and there’s nothing wrong acknowledging that. But there’s nothing wrong with pointing out that there are some women who get burned and tossed aside by men, which is why women want to have safety nets (in the form of education and career). But we need to know when to prioritize dating marriage to get the best outcomes.