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You handled it well. Stay cool, get your ducks in a row, then come out on top. Don't go running up on your woman crying with a shaky voice.
Only think I'd say to do different is don't give her closure or a chance to excuse herself unless you're trying to stay with her. Just say you know she was cheating, I've got evidence and wrap thing right there. No need to show your cards. Leave her wonder wtf is going on like you were left wondering all those months. If she doesn't know what you've got, she doesn't know how incriminating what you've got is, where it is, and who's seen it. She'll be wondering if that gym rat posted videos on pornhub
She's less likely to put up a fight in court, too
Only think I'd say to do different is don't give her closure or a chance to excuse herself unless you're trying to stay with her. Just say you know she was cheating, I've got evidence and wrap thing right there. No need to show your cards. Leave her wonder wtf is going on like you were left wondering all those months. If she doesn't know what you've got, she doesn't know how incriminating what you've got is, where it is, and who's seen it. She'll be wondering if that gym rat posted videos on pornhub
She's less likely to put up a fight in court, too
Breh a nikka legit came in here asking if he told her he loved her every day and kissed her gently before going to work.
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yakamein
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No wonder she was cool with the strippers in the basement 
Breh a nikka legit came in here asking if he told her he lover her every day and kissed her gently before going to work.
I think the nikka engaged too, he's so dense, wait til he gets his wake up call.And I was thinking about popping the question to my girl.This story is 
The axe murderer
For I am death and I ride on a pale horse
reading some post likewe got people in here legit making it seem like it was dude's fault
if she didnt feel emotionally fed
SHE could have expressed that and THEY could have worked on that
but SHE stepped out the marriage and violated
. Come on ........
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nikka if you take her back i feel zero sympathy when you or your daughter walks in her getting her back blown out in YOUR house
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reading some post like
shyt legit got me lightweight angry lol well maybe if he did this.......
BmoreGorilla
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I think everyone in this thread hell on the coli period has been through some kind of heartbreak. I agree that no matter the relationship be it GF/BF or husband/ wife if it was long term it's gonna hurt like a bytch. I've said this on the coli before I was in a relationship for 10 years. In the eyes of the law he pretty much was my husband. Our relationship didn't last because we didn't have good communication skills toward the end and just like the Op's wife he felt the need to find affection somewhere else. Am I hurt? Hell yeah I'm hurt and disappointed too.
When in relationships I think some people often don't consider other people's feelings. It's like I only care that I'm hurt and I need comfort and I don't care where I get it from. Which is sad...
I believe that too, this thread had me thinking today. Like how I would feel how betrayed and hurt it scared me. Then I turn around and think about the person I love and how I wouldn't want to hurt them like that. To even think about hurting them like that hurts me. But that's always been me, super considerate even when I hate the person.
Most people aren't considerate and never put themselves in the other persons shoes until it's too late and they have to see it. Even then some don't have the empathy and can't really understand until it's done to them.
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That doesn't negate the fact that ignoring these aspects is stupid. In a marriage you need to pay attention to your partners needs.
Just like if I gained 100 lbs my husband would have no right to cheat on me and if he did so the crime would be worthy of death. Yet it would still be stupid for me to lack attention to my personal appearance.
I would not be responsible for his cheating. But it is unwise to neglect the physical aspect of our relationship.
It is unwise to bring strippers in your house. It is unwise to ignore your spouses requests for more attention. This does not excuse whoredom. Because it is very unwise to turn to whoredom to solve issues within your marriage. She will learn how it works. But if OP wants a successful relationship in the future, he needs to learn a few things as well.
I feel the same about these two things
BmoreGorilla
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She has no idea what proof I got or that I have a lawyer. She also has no idea Ive been in contact with my daughters teacher. This nikka is like the exact opposite of me too. 5'7, dark skinned, dreads, a meathead, and nothing going for him except he's a personal trainerYou handled it well. Stay cool, get your ducks in a row, then come out on top. Don't go running up on your woman crying with a shaky voice.
Only think I'd say to do different is don't give her closure or a chance to excuse herself unless you're trying to stay with her. Just say you know she was cheating, I've got evidence and wrap thing right there. No need to show your cards. Leave her wonder wtf is going on like you were left wondering all those months. If she doesn't know what you've got, she doesn't know how incriminating what you've got is, where it is, and who's seen it. She'll be wondering if that gym rat posted videos on pornhub