Field Marshall Bradley
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I think I'm too traditional breh, I've never even thought that my wife and I would have separate accounts.
I'm basically asking to get played in the future aint I?
Do you make more than your wife?
I think I'm too traditional breh, I've never even thought that my wife and I would have separate accounts.
I'm basically asking to get played in the future aint I?
Yeah male personal trainer is sus
this chick I was dating basically the same shyt. Everything was going well, but it bothered her because it was going too well, and she wasn't sure about us since we really never had an argument.These hos is looking for mr perfect. And even if a MFer is 'perfect' or close to it they'll still be suspicious like "gurl I do not trust him, he too perfect., we don't never argue. He ain't got no kids, is he on the dl?
Shyts a joke man.
I mentioned in a thread a little while back how me and the wife been having issues. Turns out the issues weren't with US but with HER. Over the past few months she's been picking fights more and more for no reason.
Spending waaaaaaaay too much time at the "gym" talking about she "needs her space"
I kno what that kinda bullshyt talk means. So I started doing my homework. I kno she been working with this dusty as personal trainer. Got a hold of his IG account. Since it was marked private I had a female co worker of mine request to follow him and he accepted.
I now have screen shots over the past few months which indicate they were having an affair.
I have a cousin whose a lawyer who told me in MD all I need to prove is that there is a disposition for an affair to occur and the opportunity.
I got both and its all on IG. They thought they were slick marking shyt private. No need for a PI or witnesses. This is why I been laying low for the past few weeks. Gathering my evidence and getting a lawyer on the low. Finally confronted her last night:
Me: "So you been fukking your trainer huh"
Her: "You kno I wouldn't do that. We're just friends"
Me: "Oh yea? That's not what these screenshots and comments say"
Her: "How'd you get all that"
Me: " The Lord works in mysterious ways"
So she starts saying how dude filled an emotional void in her and made her feel good about herself blah blah blah.
That nikka just doing his job
Nothing wrong with me or the marriage. Point blank something is wrong with her. bytch wasn't unhappy enough with the marriage to leave but was unhappy enough with herself that she stepped out to fill some bullshyt void. Told me she had tried to end it several times but couldn't
Told the bytch she has until Saturday to get her shyt out and go to her mothers
Ill even help her pack. Already have an appointment Saturday morning to change the locks
Took the past few weeks to get perspective on this shyt and wrap my head around the fact everybodys life is gonna be changing. I get the idea she doesn't want the marriage to end but fukk it. Cant put up with that kind of disrespect
@Queen you were right she was plotting behind my back
But fukk her. Adultery is one of the only things in MD you can file for immediately. Bout to get this shyt wrapped up before the holidays. Only people that matter at this point are me and the kids
GMB you gotta new member
time will tell
Yo that's foul AF. Being honest about the bolded ain't no merit-deserving decision 'cause fact of the matter is he gambled with your health like a mahfukk. Multiple times and he was getting money too? Plus she's claiming pregnancy? That's a lot of signs that he went up in there raw at least once.
I'm sorry to hear you're going thru this Ma. This ain't right and I hope you make the best decision for yourself.
No one cheats who doesn't put themselves in the position to do so. Ignoring the importance of boundaries is stupid, especially in this age where boundary breaker after boundary breaker has a sob story to tell.
It's about respect, I wouldn't think to do that but I also know my husband wouldn't allow it. I respect that.Exactly. There are plenty of female personal trainers.
I wish a chick were to tell me she's thinking about getting a male personal trainer.
I'd tell her I've been thinking about seeing a masseuse regularly to massage my groin and see how she reacts.
Sounds like he wants his cake and to eat it too. This is usually the case with nikkastime will tell
Truth............ I learned that the hard way brehPlease if someone is going to cheat there going to cheat. If it wasn't the personal trainer, it would be the mailman, a coworker, a friend.
Shows you how caught up she is and not even thinking about reality. She was sloppy as hell with it
No one cheats who doesn't put themselves in the position to do so. Ignoring the importance of boundaries is stupid, especially in this age where boundary breaker after boundary breaker has a sob story to tell.
Do you make more than your wife?
This thread is not proof that marriage is pointless. It is proof that proper conduct within a marriage is important.................
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this chick I was dating basically the same shyt. Everything was going well, but it bothered her because it was going too well, and she wasn't sure about us since we really never had an argument.
I'm like wait, so you want some shyt to pop off?
hell i thought i had my mr perfect, for years we never argued, i thought it was weird but i was ok with that and thought shyt was hunky dory when it was all bs, the harsh reality is i had my husband on too high of a pedestal i guessThese hos is looking for mr perfect. And even if a MFer is 'perfect' or close to it they'll still be suspicious like "gurl I do not trust him, he too perfect., we don't never argue. He ain't got no kids, is he on the dl?
Shyts a joke man.
She had unrealistic expectations. She always thought that in love feeling was supposed to last forever. fukk I look like cuddling all night every night and putting rose petals on the bed every weekend. We have kids and our personal happiness should come after theirs