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Someone who is going to cheat is going to cheat

Cobra is going to fukkn cobra.

I can raise a baby cobra from birth, treat it good, feed it properly, but cobra is going to cobra one day when I wake up to my neck being crushed


This thread is not proof that marriage is pointless. It is proof that proper conduct within a marriage is important. Boundaries must be set.

It was entirely inappropriate and uneceesary for her to have a male trainer. But you can't really say that if you are a husband who sees nothing wrong with bringing naked whores in your home. If that's your mindset, the fact that your wife having a male trainer is a bad idea wouldn't even be on your radar.

No disrespect to @BmoreGorilla because you seem cool. But that stripper post wasn't the only thing you posted on here that was questionable for a married man.

This is not an example of Get Married Brehs. It is an example of Get Priorities Brehs. You can't conduct yourself carelessly and expect it not to eventually bite you in the butt. #GPB because healthy marriages require boundaries, respect, and forsaking all whores.
 

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If it can happen to me and my wife it can happen to anybody. She was a real homebody and never went anywhere. I used to even tell her to go out sometimes just to get out my face sometimes. But we really held each other down thru a lot of shyt. I kno she still loves me and Ill always have a place for her in my heart but certain things you just cant put up with

No disrespect, but being a homebody doesn't mean anything. I don't know anything about the relationship to say it's not true that of it happened to you it can happen to anybody. Like everyone else it seemed that y'all had a good thing from the other thread. But staying at home in itself doesn't mean anything.

Again hate it had to be you :to: and I hope you and you kids move on and are good.
 

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I mentioned in a thread a little while back how me and the wife been having issues. Turns out the issues weren't with US but with HER. Over the past few months she's been picking fights more and more for no reason.

Spending waaaaaaaay too much time at the "gym" talking about she "needs her space":aicmon:

I kno what that kinda bullshyt talk means. So I started doing my homework. I kno she been working with this dusty as personal trainer. Got a hold of his IG account. Since it was marked private I had a female co worker of mine request to follow him and he accepted.
I now have screen shots over the past few months which indicate they were having an affair. :damn:

I have a cousin whose a lawyer who told me in MD all I need to prove is that there is a disposition for an affair to occur and the opportunity.

I got both and its all on IG. They thought they were slick marking shyt private. No need for a PI or witnesses. This is why I been laying low for the past few weeks. Gathering my evidence and getting a lawyer on the low. Finally confronted her last night:

Me: "So you been fukking your trainer huh:birdman:"

Her: "You kno I wouldn't do that. We're just friends:francis:"

Me: "Oh yea? That's not what these screenshots and comments say:usure:"

Her: "How'd you get all that:dwillhuh:"

Me: " The Lord works in mysterious ways:sas2:"

So she starts saying how dude filled an emotional void in her and made her feel good about herself blah blah blah.

That nikka just doing his job:mjlol:

Nothing wrong with me or the marriage. Point blank something is wrong with her. bytch wasn't unhappy enough with the marriage to leave but was unhappy enough with herself that she stepped out to fill some bullshyt void. Told me she had tried to end it several times but couldn't

Told the bytch she has until Saturday to get her shyt out and go to her mothers:ufdup:

Ill even help her pack. Already have an appointment Saturday morning to change the locks:sas1:

Took the past few weeks to get perspective on this shyt and wrap my head around the fact everybodys life is gonna be changing. I get the idea she doesn't want the marriage to end but fukk it. Cant put up with that kind of disrespect

@Queen you were right she was plotting behind my back:to:

But fukk her. Adultery is one of the only things in MD you can file for immediately. Bout to get this shyt wrapped up before the holidays. Only people that matter at this point are me and the kids

GMB you gotta new member

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Did you two not communicate well enough? What is the emotional void she spoke of.

Sorry to hear about it breh.
 

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I kno what that kinda bullshyt talk means. So I started doing my homework. I kno she been working with this dusty as personal trainer. Got a hold of his IG account. Since it was marked private I had a female co worker of mine request to follow him and he accepted.
I now have screen shots over the past few months which indicate they were having an affair. :damn:
This shyt bringing back past memories and reactivating my PTSD :mjcry:
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Sorry this had to happen breh, but you'll be a stronger man cause of it :salute:
 

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Someone who is going to cheat is going to cheat

Cobra is going to fukkn cobra.

No one cheats who doesn't put themselves in the position to do so. Ignoring the importance of boundaries is stupid, especially in this age where boundary breaker after boundary breaker has a sob story to tell.
 

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Did you two not communicate well enough? What is the emotional void she spoke of.

Sorry to hear about it breh.
She had unrealistic expectations. She always thought that in love feeling was supposed to last forever. fukk I look like cuddling all night every night and putting rose petals on the bed every weekend. We have kids and our personal happiness should come after theirs
 

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No one cheats who doesn't put themselves in the position to do so. Ignoring the importance of boundaries is stupid, especially in this age where boundary breaker after boundary breaker has a sob story to tell.

Truth.

Can't tell you how many times I had female coworkers start talking to me about their man issues.

It may seem like innocent conversation but that's how everything starts :sas2:
 

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ok pop a squat, spark ya Ls (lol) :( n hereeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee we go

on oct 1 my husband tells me that he needs to talk to me, he says he stepped outside our marriage, i ask how many times he say multiple times :( he says he wanted to come clean n be honest with me, so we talking things out thru the night and into the next day, only to find out the mf still lying, log on fb n im getting friend requests from the bytch poked n inboxed :( she starts telling me shyt so i confront him him with what she saying mf still wants to lie, he says he wants to make it work n make things right liesssssssssssssss i feel, erryday this bytch inboxing me with some new shyt to say, so finally he decides to come clean, he says he was weak n the bytch kept throwing money at him n it felt good having money spent on him( i had lost some income so we were struggling) she bought the radiator for his car n the money he would be giving me on the weekends to party with she had given him n he gave it to me :( that didnt help much but neway we call ourselves gone work things out but now this bytch is stalking me n claiming that she pregnant. he knew i got my tubes tied b4 i met him n i have always asked him do he wan t a baby , hell for awhile there until my gbaby came i wanted a baby n was trying to get him to go out n get us 1.he said after his dad died he started wanting a baby to carry on they name but im like nicaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa i asked u , we could have planned this together. but to end this sad story, nobody believes the bytch is pregnant n with the reports im getting on the bytch from hood niccas she dirty n petty n is pregnant at least 3 xs a year after relationships so dont believe nothing she has to say and this aint the 1st time she tried to take an unavailable man. i can forgive him n try to make our marriage work, but im not staying if 9 mths from now a baby shows up n dna proves its his. imma be outta there faster than nicca at the end of his shift on payday...

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Yo that's foul AF. Being honest about the bolded ain't no merit-deserving decision 'cause fact of the matter is he gambled with your health like a mahfukk. Multiple times and he was getting money too? Plus she's claiming pregnancy? That's a lot of signs that he went up in there raw at least once.

I'm sorry to hear you're going thru this Ma. This ain't right and I hope you make the best decision for yourself.
 
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