The sickness started with poor women trying to ally with the rich white women under the banner of feminism.
Basically sistas trying to be the white woman and trying to cut and paste the white male/female dynamic to black relationships.
Women are encouraging marriage if it resembles an upper middle class white male/female dynamic.
I think if you start having children and are still concerning yourself with to much of your own personal happiness you're missing the point of family which is loyalty and sacrifice.
I will disagree with that....and you did not answer the question...
do you think grannies were happy?
it should be noted that the majority of men are not monsters looking to beat and cheat on women....
there is a man culture or way though....that many follow
for example even today with the "roles"....
maybe unfairly so....I have not asked if grand daddies were happy....speaking about grandmas though
you would say it is some kind of wanting to be rich white women vs being WOKE?
woke in the sense that forever men have done anything they desired and women have been literally oppressed....
if she wants to show her veggies why not?
not cook?
not have babies?
have multiple men?
etc etc etc etc
should a woman have a right to do whatever she desires as men do?
You say brainwashing....I say they being free...
and as men...do lots of selfish, anti-family, orgasmic shyt...