@Lifer11 Quite a few of these points are off. I don't know how to respond to it all without creating a huge wall of text so I'll just quote a few things that stand out. I hope it doesn't get too long.
Jon Snow was killed and resurrected and has shown literally no change.
He has changed, though it was more subtle than what most predicted. People thought he would incur a supernatural change because resurrection is a magical process, when instead went through an existential crises that deeply depressed him after being murdered by his brothers. This new Jon is less than he was. He's haggard and tired. He wants to flee south and get warm. He doesn't want to fight. He had to be convinced to fight, and even then, it's a half-hearted nod, nothing like the passion and anger he had when he wanted to go fight after Ned was killed. He's clearly more afraid of death after finding out there is nothing on the other side, no Ygritte, or Ned, or Robb, or anything else. That has affected him.
The Northern houses have no idea he was killed yet they are receiving who they should believe is the Lord Commander of the Night's Watch and not even questioning how or why he's been able to leave his post there to fight a war a man of the NW should have no part in, all with the North's most hated enemies the Wildlings.
I agree that we should have been given some dialogue from some of the Northern Houses about him deserting and breaking his vows.
House Glover is sworn to the Boltons, he said even talking to Jon and Sansa could get him skinned, but he didn't think to take them hostage and deliver them to Ramsay which would've ended the battle before it began and made the Glovers the second most powerful house in the North, and technically it would've been the honorable thing to do given that to these Northern houses Jon is a deserter of the NW and a traitor to his people also since the Boltons helped the Glovers retake their castle.
There is nothing contradictory about his reaction. This is a man that wept when Ned was executed. He isn't going to hand his children over personally to be flayed, but he also isn't going to commit suicide and destroy the rest of his house by joining a war with Widlings and no other Northern support. That's his sense of honor. Hear them out of respect for their father, but send them away out of disgust for their actions, and preservation to his own house, which was devastated by the previous war.
Melisandre brought Jon back from the dead...and hasn't appeared since.
The Starks have been on a Northern recruiting trip. The reason Mel hasn't been around is the same reason Tormund hasn't. Stannis reached out to all of the Northern Houses. He was supported by Ned, he was fighting the Boltons, and he was going to fight the Lannisters...yet the North almost unanimously rejected him. It wasn't 100% because of religion, but the fact that he converted to some exotic Essos religion that burns people, boldly showcasing that by showing a burning Stag on his sigil, and had some Red Witch by his side didn't help. While Jon is out trying to gather support, he already has a hard time selling the idea of wildlings, he doesn't need a Red Witch by his side complicating things even more. Mel will be back on screen when she is relevant for the story.
No one around Jon is making a big deal about the fact he's been resurrected, even though none of them have seen it before, they dont watch the show.
You already hinted at this but again, I agree. I wish we could have gotten some more dialogue from people regarding his death, mainly Sansa.
The Wildlings apparently think Jon is some type of god, a label he got by dying due to breaking 1000s of years of tradition and letting those very Wildlings cross the Wall. He also killed Qoran Halfhand, their most hated enemy. Put Mance out of his misery. Killed a major White Walker, yet he had to beg these same Wildlings to come fight for him. In the book even before he's been killed they are ready to ride out to Winterfell with him just off the strength of the Pink Letter.
You do realize not all of the Widlings saw his dead body or were at Castle Black for the resurrection? The majority of the Widlings were settling in the Gift, so it makes 100% sense that the rest would have to be convinced to fight for a Castle they don't give a shyt about. The Wildings are not a monolith. There are various clans, various traditions, various superstitions amongst them about gods. And while they united to flee south, this is still unprecedented territory for them. They have never been this far south. They have never been this organized. They have never been asked to fight another man's war. For every choice they make, they know that it is now for the survival of their entire kind, so they won't just be blindly following orders. Any step they take needs to be carefully measured, argued for, and accepted as the right thing to do for their people. And they were convinced by Jon and Tormound that fighting the Boltons was the best choice of action for their people. I'm not sure why that would be an issue in storytelling for you.
Jaime's whole redemption arc has been destroyed since he started the season as Cersei's lapdog and threatened to catapult a kid over the walls of Riverrun.
You mention the books to support your point in the last paragraph but here seem to gloss over the fact that Jaimie threatened to catapult a kid over the walls
in the books too. I hated Jaimie's arc in seasons 4 and 5, but I believe his redemption arc is back on track. I don't want to spoil any potential book plot points so I'll just say we can revisit where he is on his journey after the finale. I don't believe him and Cersei will be on good terms, or that he'll be her "lapdog" as you put it.
Theon found his courage from half a glass of beer and a tough love pep talk.
Theon has been finding his courage for more than 2 seasons now. He told Sansa the truth about Bran and Rickon (knowing that could get him killed), he killed Myranda, and jumped off the walls of Winterfell, and led Sansa through a cold forest with hounds chasing, and killed a Bolton man, and gave a speech in front of his people at the Kingsmoot. One of the best things the show has done was show Theon's PTSD and his gradual journey of putting the pieces of himself back together. It didn't happen over an episode or one speech. He failed several times, like when he refused to go with Yara after she told him that he was Theon Greyjoy, or when Sansa told him he was Theon Greyjoy, yet he still couldn't shake Reek and instead went and told Ramsay about Sansa's plan. I give Alfie Allen more credit than the showrunners but it's been a very satisfying journey watching Theon become Theon again.
I either agree with your other points or don't feel compelled to respond.
Still waiting for a 10/10 or A+ episode this season. At this point, the season is hovering in the 7/10 or 8/10 range, mainly because of the Arya debacle, and not enough time North with Jon.