I'm not invested in the system. I just want any device I use to have the same playlist. My most played songs when I listen to a song on the Note the playcount goes up and if the smart playlist determines that's my most listened to song it goes to the top of all the playlist on all my devices because iTunes manages it.How else? Well I'm not invested in the system like u..Im sure u have Apple watches, TVs, and macbooks galore. Nope. I'm on the google/Samsung side of the game. I use S Health, Samsung Pay, checked out the Pixel Book, etc. I have no need for the fitness watches...phone can do that stuff anyway.
Having intelligent software manage your music library for you is better than having to do it yourself. I don't download music to my phone for example I get it on a PC and add it to my library and it gets pushed out to all my devices automatically when they sync with iTunes.
Most of the disadvantages to iOS a tech savvy person can get around easily. For example I don't need to download files to my phone. I have a MyCloud Nas at home with remote access and a Dropbox so I can view my files on an iPhone anywhere same as on an Android.
Really the only thing I miss when I'm using my iPhone is Samsung Pay because Apple Pay works at way less places. That simply means I have to carry my wallet. Also Google Voice being integrated into the system dialer.