If you grew up in any urban area, you'd know that most females go through the thug stage.
from about the age of 13-22, it's either the pretty boy or the thug.Everybody else is just a small blip on the radar.And even when they "grow out of that phase", they're prone to relapse from time to time.To "grow" has a figurative connotation in this instance.It just means "less gullible".Doesn't necessarily mean they've moved completely pass that shyt.Even when they smarten up and see all the disadvantages of being with a thug, there's a element in our culture that turns the thug into a object of sexual gratification.There's a whole sub-culture created around that shyt.Wahida Clark sells millions of books creating thug fantasies.In a lot of ways, the thug is like the female version of a bimbo.Problem is, woman don't carry a code of ethics (men do...even though it's shoddy as fukk lol...it's still there).They don't care about principles & honor and shyt like that.When it comes to dudes, if one of your boys tried to wife up a bimbo/ho, you'd be ready to lay him on his back pockets.Knock some sense into him
With females, it's not like that.They don't care for the most part
.Only until they get anchored down with a few babies and the nikka ends up dead or in jail...then it's
A lot of the time, when females date dudes like that, they don't see them as thugs.They only see his potential/ redeeming qualities.They go into
mode thinking they can tap his potential, but , of course, that's just the blind leading the blind.
I don't know why people get all technical about it? It's just some common shyt you see everyday.