All that stuff helps bro but a lot of it is personal experience. Getting something early on in life changes your whole perception vs not getting it until late.
Even when dude works on himself, if he has little to no expereince with women he's in for a lot of hell, even moreso now that he's together and prolly has women coming at all angles.
It's jsut like social anxiety, bettering yourself can make you better and less insecure sure. But if you don't know how to build and maintain relationships with others because you have no positive experience in doing so, good luck actually making friends. Only way to do it is to keep trying and take those blows.
This is very much spot on..
I even hate to say this, but if you a young nikka, you pretty much need some sort of female validation just for your own ego purposes..Either from broads feeling you or knocking some joints down...
Those are pretty much the times when you can Trent Dilfer your way into some p*ssy....
As you get older, your mindset changes and evolves thru good and negative experiences...
But as Al Bundy had his 4td game as a reference point, we gotta have that too.
But I know a nikka just like him..
All he references is his L's with women....
He is all fukked up in the game with no hope In sight...