My kid is bytchy and moody like her mother...what can I do as a dad?

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I like how you added that

It really is tiresome and depressing because I really have an out to just leave this situation. Im not physically in the house and I could just walk away from it all but my mind won't let me at night. I feel like I always left something behind that I have to comeback and save
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The only shining light you have is that your daughter is 11 and in 5-6 more years she can make her own decisions and see her mother as a bytch and get more closer to you and see you as the better parent
 

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My kid has become a little version of my ex and I can't seem to get my kid out of the runt

When we hang, she seems moody and has tween like attitude and doesn't find fun in anythjng except staying home.

I tell my ex and she doesn't seem to think it's a big deal and tells me I'm overreacting mainly because she never wants to really be on my side on anything volutarily but its a big deal to me especially since they argue with each other quite a bit then they make up over food.

What options are out there to save my kid's personality or is is a a wrap since my kid lives with her moody mom and my kid just gonna be a moody spoiled rotten brat.

I was considering child therapy to see if a therapist can pull out the root of the issue. I'd be mad too if I lived with my ex. She is a bytch
Looking at your threads over the years. I think you might have top 3 worst coli life.
 

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I was raise primarily with my mother and growing up I could tell my mother wasn’t that well rounded and she was kind of a bitter woman. I noticed that I had a lot of the same characteristics as my mother. But it took for me to make the conscious decision that I didn’t want to be nothing like her. I feel as though when your daughter gets older she’ll realize her mothers ways and will break away from her mother just like I did.
 

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This thread is a prime example of why this is the last place I'd come for parental advice lol. OP I suggest you find another community to post this in, because 99% of the takes in this thread are offensive at worst and unhelpful at best. Just a bunch of kids with no life experience cosplaying as adults
 

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Could just be genetics and you can’t really change it .
One of my daughters is the same , just like her mom and she doesn’t even know her mom . My daughter irks me like crazy because of it but not much I can do about it

Personalities typically don’t just change
Personality is environmental and learned not genetic tho?
 

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I honestly feel like personality can be a little genetic too. My grandmother swears by this lol. One of her children for 8 years the father didn’t take care of her child, but my granny always was maxed at the fact that my Uncle acted so much like his father although the didn’t know him for the first 8 years of his life.
 
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