The fact that you would call the mother of your child a b*tch tells me pretty much everything I need to know about you in regards to this situation. The hatred that you have for your child's mother, is probably finding its way back to you via your child. This is the vicious cycle of emotional abuse. The fact that your creation can show you nothing but hatred and disrespect says more about you than it does her. It is up to you to make the corrections, but time is running out. I speak from experience when I say that once the bridge of trust has been burned, there is no rebuilding it.