CUT BOTH HER AND THE FRIEND OUT OF YOUR LIFE COMPLETELY AND PERMANENTLY. DO WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO, TO REMOVE THE GIRLFRIEND AND HER BELONGINGS FROM YOUR HOME AND WHEREVER ELSE YOU FREQUENT, AND MOVE ON. IF YOU DO JUST ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE BESIDES THIS (OTHER THAN LIVE YOUR LIFE NORMALLY, LIKE YOU DID BEFORE YOU FOUND OUT), YOU WILL TAKE AT LEAST ONE MORE L ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.....I GUARANTEE IT
THE MOST IMPORTANT THING RIGHT NOW IS TO LET GO OF ANY AND ALL EMOTIONS THAT YOU EVER HAD FOR HER. THAT INCLUDES THE LOVE THAT YOU FELT FOR HER AND THE HATE THAT YOU'RE FEELING RIGHT NOW. ALL OF THAT "HOW COULD THEY DO THIS TO ME" shyt, THAT "I WANNA KICK HIS/HER ASS" shyt.....fukk THAT shyt. WASTE OF TIME AND EMOTIONS, AND COULD POSSIBLY COST YOU YOUR FREEDOM DEPENDING ON WHAT YOU END UP DOING. THEY DID IT, IT'S DONE, AND THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IN RESPONSE IS TO CUT YOURSELF OUT OF THEIR LIVES AS MUCH AS YOU CAN AND CONTINUE LIVING
IT MIGHT HURT THEM, OR THEY MIGHT NOT GIVE A fukk; THEIR REACTION ISN'T THE IMPORTANT THING.....YOUR PEACE OF MIND IS IMPORTANT. YOU LIVING OUT THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITHOUT THE DRAMA AND BULLshyt THEY SUDDENLY BROUGHT ONTO YOU IS IMPORTANT. YOU SEPARATING YOURSELF FROM GRIMY-ASS PEOPLE WHO WILL LIE TO YOU AND SNEAK AROUND AND BETRAY YOU BEHIND YOUR BACK, IS WHAT'S IMPORTANT. YOU NEED TO GET INTO 'INDIFFERENCE' MODE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, AND STAY THERE. SAME THING IN REGARDS TO THE 'FRIEND'
REMAIN INDIFFERENT TOWARDS THEM IN TERMS OF YOUR EMOTIONS, KEEP YOUR DISTANCE AWAY FROM THEM AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, AND CONTINUE TO LIVE YOUR LIFE, MAINTAINING YOUR OTHER REAL FRIENDS AND FINDING A NEW GIRLFRIEND
OH.....AND GET YOURSELF TESTED A.S.A.P.