My ex hit me up about coming to town next month and..

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I haven't spoken to her and about 7 or 8 months...she hit me up talkin about she really needs me to respond. I been kinda ignoring her emails :ld: But I thought it was an emergency so I responded, then she started talking about she's gonna be in town next month and have a lot of free time while out here :takedat:. I didn't even bother asking what dates :win: Then she suggested we meet up for dinner at least one day. I pretty much just :whoa::whoa: don't think it'll be a good idea, I'm in a relationship right now. Dunno if she is or not. Then she hit me with the "ok, cool I just wanted to see how you're doing" response.

So I know this chik like the back of my hand, when she comes out here, I know she will contact me. I'm hoping she comes while i'm out the country so I don't have to contemplate seeing her. But i'm not gonna lie, after that little convo I looked back at like two of our little sex clips. I wouldn't mind taking that down again :yeshrug: and sending her back to Canada like :noah:

Anybody ever been in this position, and what did y'all end up doing?

it wasn't an ex but a chick i used to mess around with who then ended up trying to play me so that i cut her off. hadn't seen her in about a year when she suddenly reached out again. i ignored her emails and fb messeges, so she started calling me. after some time i got anoyed, picked up and agreed to a date like :shaq:. when it was time to meet up i just didn't show up :lolbron:. the bytch hasn't tried to contact me since :manny:.
 

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it wasn't an ex but a chick i used to mess around with who then ended up trying to play me so that i cut her off. hadn't seen her in about a year when she suddenly reached out again. i ignored her emails and fb messeges, so she started calling me. after some time i got anoyed, picked up and agreed to a date like :shaq:. when it was time to meet up i just didn't show up :lolbron:. the bytch hasn't tried to contact me since :manny:.

:aicmon: That's some grimey shyt, breh. You're a man, cheap tricks are for the birds :scusthov:
 

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See, here's the quagmire though....she never did me dirty or anything, we separated out of convenience because it woulda been too hard doing long distance after living with each other. She had things networking wise back home, as opposed to not being able to find stable work in nyc. And I didn't wanna leave my home just to move in with her Russian parents. It took us a minute to realize we should cut off the communication after the break up. We both started moving on, then she started sending page long emails about loving the time we had together and me helping her grow and always loving me...and she got me to pursue an interest for money now rather than just a hobby. I'm pretty good as distancing myself from people, and so is she. But somehow she always manages to pop up. I don't ignore her because I hate her, its more of to not re-ignite feelings and go in a circle. Especially since i'm dealing with someone. I'm sure she's been or might be dealing with someone too. I def don't wanna mess up what I got going now.
 

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See, here's the quagmire though....she never did me dirty or anything, we separated out of convenience because it woulda been too hard doing long distance after living with each other. She had things networking wise back home, as opposed to not being able to find stable work in nyc. And I didn't wanna leave my home just to move in with her Russian parents. It took us a minute to realize we should cut off the communication after the break up. We both started moving on, then she started sending page long emails about loving the time we had together and me helping her grow and always loving me...and she got me to pursue an interest for money now rather than just a hobby. I'm pretty good as distancing myself from people, and so is she. But somehow she always manages to pop up. I don't ignore her because I hate her, its more of to not re-ignite feelings and go in a circle. Especially since i'm dealing with someone. I'm sure she's been or might be dealing with someone too. I def don't wanna mess up what I got going now.

Still, just because yall didn't break up for bad reasons doesn't mean you should jeopardize your current relationship. Some people are only meant to be in your life for a little while
 

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See, here's the quagmire though....she never did me dirty or anything, we separated out of convenience because it woulda been too hard doing long distance after living with each other. She had things networking wise back home, as opposed to not being able to find stable work in nyc. And I didn't wanna leave my home just to move in with her Russian parents. It took us a minute to realize we should cut off the communication after the break up. We both started moving on, then she started sending page long emails about loving the time we had together and me helping her grow and always loving me...and she got me to pursue an interest for money now rather than just a hobby. I'm pretty good as distancing myself from people, and so is she. But somehow she always manages to pop up. I don't ignore her because I hate her, its more of to not re-ignite feelings and go in a circle. Especially since i'm dealing with someone. I'm sure she's been or might be dealing with someone too. I def don't wanna mess up what I got going now.

well she obviously still has feelings for you. which means you should honestly check what you are feeling for her. either you cut her off completely or you try doing the long distance thing and end your current situation.
 

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well she obviously still has feelings for you. which means you should honestly check what you are feeling for her. either you cut her off completely or you try doing the long distance thing and end your current situation.

You know what, I think I'm gonna just cut her off completely before she gets here. We're just not gonna happen again.
 

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lol she's gonna lay this line on you 'you dont need a condom bae. I'm on birth control.."
 

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Duuuuuvaaaaal!!
Do you think you ever got over her? Any lingering feelings?
How do you feel about the current relationship? Is it as intense as the one you and she had before? Which one would make you happier?
 

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I swear, these nikkas will see the box, see the stick holding the box up, and see the rope tied around the stick......and they'll STILL go under the box and hope for the best :heh:
 

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I swear, these nikkas will see the box, see the stick holding the box up, and see the rope tied around the stick......and they'll STILL go under the box and hope for the best :heh:
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That p*ssy to good breh

:noah:



On a serious note, unless you just wanna use that girl's p*ssy as a cockwarmer i suggest you leave it alone
 

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lol she's gonna lay this line on you 'you dont need a condom bae. I'm on birth control.."

yo this bytch told me that last week and I'll pulled back out after a few strokes like :whoa:
then she blew me instead and had the nerve to get upset that I didn't wanna keep fukking without a condom :wtf:
 
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