My ex hit me up about coming to town next month and..

Akata Man Bromo

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I wouldn't do it breh :whoa: I would really have to care for someone if I'm in a relationship with them (hence why I've only had one GF). I would have too much respect for myself and my lover to put myself in that situation :manny: Plus what kind of message does that send when your ex can just pop up out of nowhere at anytime and get exactly what she wants even if you're seeing someone? :lupe:
 

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That shyt never works, yall broke up for a reason.

I tried getting back with an ex & when we did it lasted about 5 months and I haven't spoken to her since.

Besides if your current girl was going to meet up with an ex & the possibility of them smashing could happen, you'd be making a thread about how you got cheated on and hear all kinds of "get in a relationship brehs"

Don't say we didn't warn you :ufdup:
 

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I don't think you should get back together with her, but if you still like her as a person and ya'll can come to a mutual agreement, you should.

Who wouldn't want a fukk buddy w/ no strings attached?
 
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what will make it easier for you to ignore the sex memories is to remember all those times that you used to argue and fight with her or think about the reason you broke up in the first place - you don't want to go down that road again.

spend good quality time with your current partner and be closer with her (if that is what you desire) and hopefully that will quench your furtive desires.

regardless, this is a test for you and something that you'll have to deal with for the rest of your life.

you may marry one day and it'll take self-control and a lot of character (that you must build through these type of tests) to pass up on women throwing sex at you.

:cheers:

Peace

EDIT: btw, don't be fooled by her wanting to just hang out as friends - she wants the dikk and doesn't care if you're in a relationship or not.
 

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Anybody ever been in this position, and what did y'all end up doing?

A while ago one of my exes kept hitting me up like "I love you & I miss you, etc." even though she had a new boyfriend.

I ignored her so she went hysterical, and claimed that I raped her. :aicmon:
 

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Exes are exes for a reason, once I close that door...I won't open it again.

Everybody's gotta learn, did it once, never gonna do it again. Once you split you need to dissociate from them completely. And I mean: DELETE THE NUMBER and UNFRIEND yourselfs from social networking sites. Thats why I always make sure never to make friends with any of my girl's friends, I'm always polite but thats where it stops. Nothing good comes out of keeping contact with your exe's :manny:
 
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