My Ex Got Engaged, Keeps Blowing up my Phone :UPDATE: Blocked her and told her to not txt

[Perfectson]

Blocking a chic is asuckas move, be a mab

 

[Bolzmark]

Don't block her. Those texts could be valuable evidence if fukkery arises in the future. If you respond at all, keep your responses bland, like you're indifferent to what she has to say.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

So my Ex got engaged on New Years Day

She called me to let me know that she was engaged to a "Rich Nigerian Doctor" (her words).
I said congrats and kept it moving.

Its been 7 days and she's texted me on 7 different occasions since then.

Asking me shyt like:
-"Would it be weird if I invited you to the wedding?"
-"Did you ever think I would get married so fast?"
-"You guys have similar builds. He's tall like you"
-"There is nothing like true love! I cant wait for you to experience what I'm feeling now"


I just responded with stuff like "I'm happy for you" and "Wow that's amazing"

She's not the petty type but... But in the back of my head...

It doesn't help that she lives in walking distance from me and I see her running or shopping regularly.


I told my girl and she told me that she doesn't trust her.



I'm doing my best to politely ignore it but... Is this even an issue? What does this mean? Brehettes help me out.


EDIT: Free daps for advice

EDIT2: Great advice brehs and brehettes. U told her to stop txting me, deleted our convo and blocked her.

This thread just exposed the fact that anything short of blocking her was foolish on my part.

Good job on blocking her.


Was going to give same advice because she is obviously not confident in her engagement.

 

[DaRealness]

So my Ex got engaged on New Years Day

She called me to let me know that she was engaged to a "Rich Nigerian Doctor" (her words).
I said congrats and kept it moving.

Its been 7 days and she's texted me on 7 different occasions since then.

Asking me shyt like:
-"Would it be weird if I invited you to the wedding?"
-"Did you ever think I would get married so fast?"
-"You guys have similar builds. He's tall like you"
-"There is nothing like true love! I cant wait for you to experience what I'm feeling now"


I just responded with stuff like "I'm happy for you" and "Wow that's amazing"

She's not the petty type but... But in the back of my head...

It doesn't help that she lives in walking distance from me and I see her running or shopping regularly.


I told my girl and she told me that she doesn't trust her.



I'm doing my best to politely ignore it but... Is this even an issue? What does this mean? Brehettes help me out.


EDIT: Free daps for advice

EDIT2: Great advice brehs and brehettes. U told her to stop txting me, deleted our convo and blocked her.

This thread just exposed the fact that anything short of blocking her was foolish on my part.

First thing I thought about was that character Tanisha in GTA V:



If me and a chick are history, then unless we have children together, she has no business to be contacting me for anything - especially if I'm already in a relationship. What she does after we split is none of my concern or business.

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

girls that tall are you usually clumsy looking, she probably not as pretty as you say and she probably wants to throw it back in your face because shes had a limited # of lovers

 

[Piff Perkins]

She wants to fukk

If your pipe game strong ( ) the majority of these women you mess with you will always have into it back pocket. She's just goofy with how she is going about it like most broads are

I had a chick I used to fukk and nut in raw that was in between kids with her fiancé. bytch hit me up to come over whenever that nikka is at work.

Only reason I knew she was about to get or is already married is because she has me added under an old Facebook account she used to use with her maiden name but one day I saw a suggested friends with her with a different last name. I don't mess with her like that anymore

Either way, that engagement shyt doesn't mean anything so don't read anything into it and keep it moving if you not trying to fukk or blow her back out. Not really that complicated

This the truth. If you're legit good at fukking you gonna quickly find yourself in moral situations with chicks you used to fukk with. Just remember chicks aren't as good at lying as men. If she got a man and he isn't hitting it right she'll run to you. But she could also be real sloppy with it and leave you exposed: i.e. not deleting texts or trying to get you to come to her house while her man is at work but suspicious.

If you gonna fukk with a girl in s relationship you have to dominate it. Never go to her house, and try not to invite her to your place unless you know her man is out of town or at work. You don't want him finding your spot lmao. I used to take a married chick to a hotel and spend the night fukking her. She was married to an older cac. Asian broad, married him for money.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

You shoulda smashed and let the breh raise your kid for you

 

[Strawberry]

So my Ex got engaged on New Years Day

She called me to let me know that she was engaged to a "Rich Nigerian Doctor" (her words).
I said congrats and kept it moving.

Its been 7 days and she's texted me on 7 different occasions since then.

Asking me shyt like:
-"Would it be weird if I invited you to the wedding?"
-"Did you ever think I would get married so fast?"
-"You guys have similar builds. He's tall like you"
-"There is nothing like true love! I cant wait for you to experience what I'm feeling now"


I just responded with stuff like "I'm happy for you" and "Wow that's amazing"

She's not the petty type but... But in the back of my head...

It doesn't help that she lives in walking distance from me and I see her running or shopping regularly.


I told my girl and she told me that she doesn't trust her.



I'm doing my best to politely ignore it but... Is this even an issue? What does this mean? Brehettes help me out.


EDIT: Free daps for advice

EDIT2: Great advice brehs and brehettes. U told her to stop txting me, deleted our convo and blocked her.

This thread just exposed the fact that anything short of blocking her was foolish on my part.

That bytch is still in love with you and she's desperately trying to make you jealous.

She's begging you to be that person who jumps up at the wedding and yells "STOP THE WEDDING, I LOVE HER!!"



It's probably eating her alive that you blocked her & cut her off



People are so weird sometimes

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

That is so sweet. I wish you the best. If that is the case and you intend to marry her, then you need to learn how to deal with other women who may pop up. You can't be all chatty and polite with exes or other women who don't know their proper place . I'm not saying be a jerk, but you need to be prepared for what will happen when you announce that you have proposed. Protect your relationship as wolves, whores, and heathens will test you.

You should do a thread on this

 

[Sane]

She just setting you up for one of these kinda moments.

That was a cold scene breh. I felt for him

 

[Diondon]

Keep in touch with exes, brehs and brehettes
Now you gotta listen to her talk about the new dikk in her life

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

That was a cold scene breh. I felt for him

When she says "It just wasn't me that you were right about."

Then how he turned his head away at the end because he couldn't face the L.

 

[:-)]

Sounds like she wants you to be jealous and try to fight to get her back, despite the fact that you have a girl. I don't think she's fully over you. She probably wanted you to be the one she got engaged to.

 

[Sane]

When she says "It just wasn't me that you were right about."

Then how he turned his head away at the end because he couldn't face the L.

"What I was never sure of with you"

 

[the artist known az]

So what you gonna do when you see her since y'all live so close to each other?