My biggest gripe with women is simple. Unrealistic expectations. (What most men don't do)

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No i don't think most men think they are entitled to a dime....not even close. Most men know they have to take whatever they can get. Men date down, women date up. Many Instagram women have pro athletes and entertainers getting at them. What average joe thinks he's competing with that ?

Women have lots of men hitting them up on social media and dating apps so they feel they can be extra picky, but most likely the ones who are actually serious about getting to know them and forming a relationship are the ones they don't want. The ones they are the ones out of their league only looking for a nut. Most women think they are too good for an average guy.
most average ladies want above average men. makes since but wont add up in the end. most average to tough lookin dudes want dime pieces or at least good looking chicks and will get HOT when she says no thank you. that again makes sense. who the hell grows up with ugly eye sight? Lol. just cause you aint cute doesnt mean your vision says that you look at people with ugly vision and only want ugly like yourself. everyone wants hot, everyone wants the money, everyone wants everything. again nothing is wrong with a dream. as long as you know its a dream. remain in reality.

the difference between men and women is this: Women expect a ton out of whoever they end up dating and whoever they wish they could end up with. But most women end up settling while complaining about it aka nagging.

Men(lets not discuss white men when it comes to women and acting as if their women have to remain highschool skinny for llife or else they're getting camby'd ). but the rest of men... will take a half way decent look chick that works at taco bell. even if the dude is in a suit coming home from a corporate job making good money. if ole girl is semi cute, and she's talking right. she could easily end up a main squeeze.

dudes aint asking for a ton. sure once a man gets a lady. he Hopes she's cooking and cleaning. but most dudes aint going nuts over a lady who aint a waitress all day long in the house. as long as the house aint nasty and as long as she CAN cook some stuff some time. he aint nagging her to death about it.
 

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I think men and women need to start loving each other for what's on the inside instead of the exterior :saddrake:
I might be nice to her but its goin be extremely hard to love you looking Mrs. Potatoe head. I cant love someone i dont want to fukk. Im sorry:francis:
 

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Yeah, you only need 30 mins to an hour to get it in at the gym, or even do bodyweight workouts at home. Cardio? Run or take a brisk walk. There's no such thing as not having enough time, people just choose not to sacrifice just a bit of their lazy time to do so. All the time in the world to use social media, watch TV or play video games but when it comes to a workout, there's not enough time :heh:
no excuses. And if you dont wanna be in shape then I don't wanna hear when these fukks have heart disease/diabetes an get no good looking p*ssy. But since I started going to the gym I legit get anxious if I miss a day. Like I let myself down. Plus I love seeing and feeling your muscles and endurance growing and knowing it's helping you in the long run. I don't want to be a flabby 30 something whenever that time comes.
 
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no excuses. And if you dont wanna be in shape then I don't wanna hear when these fukks have heart disease/diabetes an get no good looking p*ssy. But since I started going to the gym I legit get anxious if I miss a day. Like I let myself down. Plus I love seeing and feeling your muscles and endurance growing and knowing it's helping you in the long run. I don't want to be a flabby 30 something whenever that time comes.

Well what you worried about then breh. you like 21 or some shyt. lol. 30 minutes of brisk walking ain't doing shyt for most people breh.
 

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Of course we all have to ability to look good if we have the right diet and workout routine, but if you're expecting to look like Dez Bryant than you'll soon find out that isn't a realistic expectation.
Oh yeah, I get that.
But after a few years, and a consistent routine, an NBA/Futbol physique is entirely possible.
 

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Well what you worried about then breh. you like 21 or some shyt. lol. 30 minutes of brisk walking ain't doing shyt for most people breh.
Well yeah, its only 30 mins of brisk walking :heh: its cardio.

Im saying you can do 30 mins of strength training, 30 mins of cardio to supplement it. Strength training is a must though. The more muscle you buildthe higher your metabolism geta and the longer it maintains after a workout as far as burning fat.
 

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Honestly I just hate the entitlement more than anything. I remember this one chick who was always trying to tell em what a man should be, how I should be more chivalrous and told she deserves this that and whatever else. Had to tell shawty how chivalry is an outdated concept and how being a feminist but still expecting men to treat her like an inferior is just wrong. It's like women want to be equal when it comes to that chicken but for everything else they still want to be inferior :camby:
 

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that's not true Giselle

women just need to get toned while men have to build muscle mass

give me three months with a woman and let me force her to do hack squats and curls and she goes from an 8 to a dime

You're right and wrong. If she doesn't have any fat to get rid of, it'll only take 3 months.

If she has fat it'll take much longer. & if she's trying to build more muscle than what it takes to be toned.

Men can get rid of fat much quicker than women.

So...normal women with instagram, and not someone who gets paid millions of dollars to keep themselves in shape?

Got it.

Yes & I see that you deleted the celebrities/models part.

This is just proving my point even further though. They are regular women who decide to stay in shape (some get plastic surgery, I know), just like op and other regular men can decide to stay in shape.
 
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