MsJackyOh (Dcyoungfly wife) dies while getting cosmetic surgery

[Malcolmxxx_23]

We're not talking about Lizzo here. She had a nice frame naturally and looks to be in great shape here. All she had to do was what she was already doing.

A lot of these chicks getting BBL's aren't obese or built like Olive Oil. Kim K had a body and didn't need surgery. SZA didn't need to either. There's plenty of examples of women who look good getting work done and looking less than their natural self afterwards.

She probably just had extra fat around her stomach
6months of diet and gym would of reduced that

At the end of the day
These women avoid the gym grind

 

[Canon]

it aint even just about having redic ass..working out will not change your shape. every woman is not an hourglass or pear (the more desirable shapes), if you're an apple or triangle, nothing is changing that except for surgery. if you're barely a B cup and sensitive about that, the gym aint gonna make your boobs bigger. if your abdomen has been split apart from pregnancy, you will not get your waist back at the gym, you cannot plank those muscles back together. if you have saggy titties, a pushup bra aint gonna give you confidence when it's time to be butt naked with a man. the gym/healthy eating doesn't fix everything, saying it's mental illness to be bothered by your flaws is dismissing reality. now actual body dysmorphia, that's mental illness.

and women were able to live with it for 1000's and 1000's of years

can't beat natural aging and life

 

[Jaguar93]

We're not talking about Lizzo here. She had a nice frame naturally and looks to be in great shape here. All she had to do was what she was already doing.

A lot of these chicks getting BBL's aren't obese or built like Olive Oil. Kim K had a body and didn't need surgery. SZA didn't need to either. There's plenty of examples of women who look good getting work done and looking less than their natural self afterwards.

Noticed in my post I said. If your genetics doesn’t call for it. No amounts of butt/glutes exercises, or a bulk. Are getting these women the fat asses they desire.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

We're not talking about Lizzo here. She had a nice frame naturally and looks to be in great shape here. All she had to do was what she was already doing.

A lot of these chicks getting BBL's aren't obese or built like Olive Oil. Kim K had a body and didn't need surgery. SZA didn't need to either. There's plenty of examples of women who look good getting work done and looking less than their natural self afterwards.

To be fair to her though, that pic above is old. The pics below are recent. She gained weight which is typical because she’s had three kids and is in her thirties now.



She still looked damn good, IMO. There are rumors that she already had gotten surgery before, so this wasn’t her first go around. She probably wasn’t worried because she never had issues before.

 

[Roid Jones]

Regular women are definitely getting their bodies done. One of the first people I knew to do it was my cousin who worked at Sam’s at the time. She used her income tax. This was years ago. I have another friend who just did it and she works as a clerk at the fire department. I truly don’t understand it.

Yeah enhancement is no longer limited to rich and famous and has not been for years, I work with many women that get all sorts of fillers and lifts

 

[Mindfield333]

Woman don't want tight muscle booty's, so that gym shyt is useless to them. They want that round brown, double cheeked up on a Thursday afternoon.

It’s only hard if she doing intense cutting. Most of it’s gonna be genetics but If she maintains reasonable body fat then it’ll be straight. Ain’t a lot of ms juicys naturally occurring outchea

 

[AAKing23]

This is facts. It’s a losing battle that I will never entertain again. Trying to convince any woman to not get one is a waste of time. Whether it’s a female relative, friend, whatever, once she has already said “I’m thinking about getting a bb..” her mind is already made up and it’s over. “It’s not your body!!” Her appointment was already scheduled months ago and the surgery is next week. All the women in her life will co-sign her decision including her sisters mom grandma great grandma. “Girl if you don’t like something about your body don’t let a man stop you from being happy.”

Now after the surgery she’s in severe pain and can barely move while she recovers from the surgery talking about I shouldn’t have done this and you have to keep on a straight supportive face and keep your mouth shut. Then you must take her to those massage appointments and listen to her bytch about the terrible massage methods being too rough and the doctors not prescribing enough pain medication. If the surgery didn’t come out as expected and you show even the slightest bit of “I told you so” on your face then you are the most unsupportive person on earth because she was doing this “for you.” Never mind the fact that you expressed so many times that her body is perfect and doesn’t need any work done and now it looks cartoonish and low key less attractive and end up leaving her later for a normal looking woman. Then a few years later on a random Sunday night, that normal looking woman says, “baby, do you think I would look good with a bigger butt?” DAMMIT!

Reading this is eerie af

 

[concise]

I’m watching a video on Tiktok and apparently it’s one of the most dangerous operations you can have. There’s veins in your ass that lead directly to your lungs and your heart. SMH.

lol, all the veins in your body go back to your heart.

 

[Roid Jones]

This is facts. It’s a losing battle that I will never entertain again. Trying to convince any woman to not get one is a waste of time. Whether it’s a female relative, friend, whatever, once she has already said “I’m thinking about getting a bb..” her mind is already made up and it’s over. “It’s not your body!!” Her appointment was already scheduled months ago and the surgery is next week. All the women in her life will co-sign her decision including her sisters mom grandma great grandma. “Girl if you don’t like something about your body don’t let a man stop you from being happy.”

Now after the surgery she’s in severe pain and can barely move while she recovers from the surgery talking about I shouldn’t have done this and you have to keep on a straight supportive face and keep your mouth shut. Then you must take her to those massage appointments and listen to her bytch about the terrible massage methods being too rough and the doctors not prescribing enough pain medication. If the surgery didn’t come out as expected and you show even the slightest bit of “I told you so” on your face then you are the most unsupportive person on earth because she was doing this “for you.” Never mind the fact that you expressed so many times that her body is perfect and doesn’t need any work done and now it looks cartoonish and low key less attractive and end up leaving her later for a normal looking woman. Then a few years later on a random Sunday night, that normal looking woman says, “baby, do you think I would look good with a bigger butt?” DAMMIT!

Exactly, all you can do is voice your objection and leave it at that

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

We're not talking about Lizzo here. She had a nice frame naturally and looks to be in great shape here. All she had to do was what she was already doing.

A lot of these chicks getting BBL's aren't obese or built like Olive Oil. Kim K had a body and didn't need surgery. SZA didn't need to either. There's plenty of examples of women who look good getting work done and looking less than their natural self afterwards.

i mean your point is proving this aint about "just go to the gym" like yall keep saying. she looks nice in that pic, but that looks old as later pics you can tell she had her boobs and hips/butt done, her boobs aren't big in the pic you posted. now for most women, they'd be happy looking like her in her OG form, but she works in the industry where women look like her + have bigger asses, wider hips, and tig ol biddies...it's clear whatever she was chasing was not going to be grown or maintained with a lifestyle of healthy eating and 5x/week workouts

 

[Mindfield333]

Did she share why she did it? I’m curious on why regular women get the surgeries and how it improved their lives. I did know a woman who was a part of my dad’s gf book club who got the surgery in her 40’s to get a man. She was still single, years after she got it.

I’m not opposed to minimal cosmetic surgery if a woman really feels insecure and no matter what she does she can’t get over that hump. But some women already have nice bodies, or decent size booties so it seems like its just a vanity thing.

Yeah it could also be my age. I’m in my thirties. And I don’t know any woman who’s really vocal about getting work done. It just seems crazy to me. I actually thought bbls were going out of style-I remember reading an article that a lot of women are trying to get butt implants removed and reductions now.

But I’m going to ask the Charlotte fellas what their experience has been with the women out here, because they may have different experiences:

@Bryan Danielson @Morose Polymath @Pressure @Mindfield333 have y’all been meeting or know a lot of women out here in Charlotte who have gotten bbl and cosmetic work done?

I really don’t know anyone personally here that had work done. Other than some shyt to lose weight like gastric/sleeve. Seen some fake butts here and there. There was a woman at my old job that folks thought had a fake ass. The obvious fake butts I’ve seen been white women mostly(keynword:obvious)

 

[AAKing23]

As a wife, do you listen to your husband who tells you that he loves you the way that you are?? Why go against his validation?

Who are you trying to look good for if you're not looking good for the one who is taking care of you and loving you?

Selfish and this goes for men who go under the knife as well, instead of eating right and getting in the gym

This shyt was not like this in the 90s

Social Media has destroyed our black women and men. Our minds are so weak. Some minds are so weak, I should say.

Wanting to be the baddest is not that serious.

Its done its number on men, but it got a hold on these women like crack in the 80s Literally porn for women

 

[skyrunner1]

Let's not do that. Many women like to play the no accountability game. Especially online.

Lets not do what exactly?

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

and women were able to live with it for 1000's and 1000's of years

can't beat natural aging and life

society advances...like not sure why you think how people lived in 5000 BC would affect norms and expectations in 1500 or how what they did in 1500 would apply to 2023...

 

[Roid Jones]

and women were able to live with it for 1000's and 1000's of years

can't beat natural aging and life

And we don't live in those times, so how do you suggest we get women to accept their bodies when the world is telling them there is a fix for everything?