Damn. My grandpa had Alzheimer’s and my granny stayed by his side until the end. I didn’t understand back then, but now I do. There’s no way on earth I would bring another man into my husbands home while he’s alive (or dead honestly). The level of disrespect is mind blowing. If you’re lonely and need companionship get some friends. If you’re horny watch some porn. I’ve been married for almost 15 years so not as much as 25, but even now, my husband has given and sacrificed too much for me and our children to ever disrespect him to that level. Damn. If my father ever tried this with my mother I would move her to live with me immediately and never speak to him again.