Move your Mistress in the house when your Wife gets Alzheimer's and forgets your married, brehs

[Originalman]

I don't know why folks shocked about this shyt. Yall know how these famous folks get down and please don't compare this to regular folks.

Half the times these famous folks get married for coverage (beards) or to increase their fame and fortune. Its basically a business decision so please don't compare this to your momma or daddy or you sweet lil old grandma that married they high schools sweetheart that they knew since they was 14.

So who knows how this shyt really went down. B Smith could have given him her blessing for this before she took a turn for the worse. They both could have also always had side pieces and now with Ms. Smith health has gotten worse so dude like fukk it.

As far as coming out to the public IMO the husband did this for a payday. All of B Smith stores are closed due to her health so who knows how that money looking. So dude came forward on the story and let everyone know for the exclusive and payday for selling his story.

Cause lets be real dude could have been quiet about this and no one would have known. Except a few gossiping blind item birds on lipstick alley.

 

[panopticon]

Alzheimers is a top 3 WOAT condition. shyt robs you steadily every year of your thoughts and memories....your identity and humanity. I ain't even mad.

Also if some of yall have never seen the devastating effects of this disease, 60 minutes did a piece on this white couple where the wife had it. They chronicled them over years and at first the husband was hanging tough, not letting it get him down or defeat him to have to care for his wife in that state. However as the years went on dude did indeed get defeated because the woman he had known and loved all those years was gone, only her body was left behind to be cared for...shyt is really really sad...

:jordanno:

 

[Isaiah Bradley]

they are fukking rich... that nikka could afford a home health nurse..
Like others have said.. If you wasn't ready to ride for life, then why say the fukking vows.. You might as well say "I'm gonna be here until something happens that makes you too tough to deal with"
Lets say it was a car accident.. Some limbs gone. Disfigured face.. But since she can't remember and it's hard... sure... bring another bytch home on y'all dime

nah. Lost limbs, Disfigured face > lost memory, unable to communication
Marriage is a human made concept, suffering is universal

Getting a home health nurse improves her condition or makes me less guilty/worrisome ?

 

[the cac mamba]

That dude's fukks level is out the window with this shyt

cant lie, i kinda respect it :deadjay:

 

[75 Others]

cant lie, i kinda respect it :deadjay:

 

[Petty Crocker]

My SO and I had a lengthy discussion about this last night.

Im actually ok with the decision he made to begin a relationship with someone new. Im not ok with the woman moving into their marital home.

He can have some clothes and belongings over at the girlfriend house.

If Im not mistaken they have been married for over 20 years and he helped cultivate her brand. I dont seem him as an opportunist or "living off her brand".

B. Smith looks to be well taken care of, relatively healthy and in her own home. I would much rather those living conditions vs putting her in a facility and not receiving individual attention.

My grandmother lived with dementia for several years before she passed. She started off forgetting things, then it progressed to being incoherent and then she simply stopped talking. This can go on for years depending on the person. I can't imagine being the spouse and depriving myself of companionship and intimacy for years or decades even.

He could have had a little more decency in the way conducted himself online but Im not mad at him moving on.

 

[Dont@Me]

My SO and I had a lengthy discussion about this last night.

Im actually ok with the decision he made to begin a relationship with someone new. Im not ok with the woman moving into their marital home.

He can have some clothes and belongings over at the girlfriend house.

If Im not mistaken they have been married afor over 20 years and he helped cultivate her brand. I dont seem him as an opportunist or "living off her brand".

B. Smith looks to be well taken care of, relatively healthy and in her own home. I would much rather those living conditions vs putting her in a facility and not receiving individual attention.

My grandmother lived with dementia for several years before she passed. She started off forgetting things, then it progressed to being incoherent and then she simply stopped talking. This can go on for years depending on the person. I can't imagine being the spouse and depriving myself of companionship and intimacy for years or decades even.

He could have had a little more decency in the way conducted himself online but Im not mad at him moving on.

This is the only part I had a problem with, but then again I'm sure dude just lashed out and got sick of peoples judgmental opinions on his situation

Facts are I bet a lot of people against this guys lifestyle wouldn't be on such a moral high horse and choose to be a caretaker in a loveless marriage for the rest of their lives if they were in that position themselves. It's easy to speak highly of yourselves being on the outside looking in

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

I don't blame him, I mean..a man's got needs. You can't live your life in misery and isolation because your marriage is deceased. Now he needs to divorce her and be her caretaker.

actually, that's exactly the vow you take in marriage...better or worse, sickness and health...FOH. dude is a dirtbag, fukk him

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Comparatively he is broke. He was a free lancer without consistent income.

So he was a stay at home husband... cool. There's a lot less of those than wives and I don't hear people calling stay at home wives comparatively bums.

He did what he did, he could have put her in a home

 

[Colicat]

So he was a stay at home husband... cool. There's a lot less of those than wives and I don't hear people calling stay at home wives comparatively bums.

He did what he did, he could have put her in a home

I don’t recall anyone calling him a bum. They were just stating facts. B. Smith carried them financially for years (to this very day if he is her power of attorney and has control of her businesses). Then instead of being a faithful spouse in sickness and in health like he promised, he let some rent - a - hoe shack up in the home she built.

Knowing good and damn well if it weren’t for B. Smith’s millions that hoe wouldn’t even look in his direction.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I don’t recall anyone calling him a bum. They were just stating facts. B. Smith carried them financially for years (to this very day if he is her power of attorney and has control of her businesses). Then instead of being a faithful spouse in sickness and in health like he promised, he let some rent - a - hoe shack up in the home she built.

Knowing good and damn well if it weren’t for B. Smith’s millions that hoe wouldn’t even look in his direction.

Ah we playing these games now? The bold was clearly implied by you stressing his status as a non earner..


his girlfriend doesn't live there either.. And no you don't know how she would look at him you are just projecting. A nikka can't get attention from a dusty white broad now without millions? sure, that inferiority complex is peaking out brehette..

When a man carries a woman like many have it is never made of note in this same capacity it's merely an expectation. You stressing her financial input into the marriage as a basis for loyalty is lost on me. If that's what that shyt meant then marriage wouldn't be in the toilet with modern men... plus it would be a home THEY built not SHE... I see this marriage and income thing is only 50/50 split when it comes to men huh... but when a woman boss up now it's HER MONEY NOT THEIRS? I love the hypocrisy...

#GMB

He could have put her up in a home and had an affair. He is still caring for her personally and living his life openly regardless of how others feel.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Ah we playing these games now? The bold was clearly implied by you stressing his status as a non earner..


his girlfriend doesn't live there either.. And no you don't know how she would look at him you are just projecting. A nikka can't get attention from a dusty white broad now without millions? sure, that inferiority complex is peaking out brehette..

When a man carries a woman like many have it is never made of note in this same capacity it's merely an expectation. You stressing her financial input into the marriage as a basis for loyalty is lost on me. If that's what that shyt meant then marriage wouldn't be in the toilet with modern men... plus it would be a home THEY built not SHE... I see this marriage and income thing is only 50/50 split when it comes to men huh... but when a woman boss up now it's HER MONEY NOT THEIRS? I love the hypocrisy...

#GMB

He could have put her up in a home and had an affair. He is still caring for her personally and living his life openly regardless of how others feel.

If u had dementia and your wife brought another man into the home ya'll built, fukking him in the next room. And she was a stay at home mom so you probably brought in all the income, would you support that?

Tell me honestly you would be A-ok with the wife u financially and emotionally supported for ur entire life to bring a CAC man in the house you paid for, to fukk him in the next room, and use the money you guise made on somebody else while unknowingly flaunting that in ur face as you deal with mental illness...
That's what you would want to go down?

I mean if u cool with it for urself then I can't fault u for not seeing how fukked up it is.

 

[kevm3]

Dude is a scumbag

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

If u had dementia and your wife brought another man into the home ya'll built, fukking him in the next room. And she was a stay at home mom so you probably brought in all the income, would you support that?

Tell me honestly you would be A-ok with the wife u financially and emotionally supported for ur entire life to bring a CAC man in the house you paid for, to fukk him in the next room, and use the money you guise made on somebody else while unknowingly flaunting that in ur face as you deal with mental illness...
That's what you would want to go down?

I mean if u cool with it for urself then I can't fault u for not seeing how fukked up it is.

Me personally i'd summon all my mental fortitude to turn the lights on and kill them both

As for him he's comfortable being honest about who he is, he wants to keep living while he's got time left. As long as he doesn't abandon her in a home or fail at caring for her...

I admire people who do their dirt in the light. All fake outrage aside. Most of the people on here would throw their significant other into a care facility in the same situation. But on here they on some ride or die shyt

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

B. Smith's illness was taking a toll on her husband. Then he found another love.
Dan Gasby and his wife, Barbara Smith, ran a successful media empire centered around her talents until she was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's in 2013. To deal with the increasing stresses associated with caring for his wife, Gasby eventually found companionship in another woman.

1. Daughter got some NIIIICE tittays!
2. I don't know how breh managed that...the love of his life falling apart in front of him....wow
3. Dude dirty for bringin in the next chick the way he did.
4. Sad overall...horrible, even. That's gotta be worse than death...losing your mind.



EDIT: You could only pull this shyt off with a white chick...