Modern day polygamy in Africa: first wife feeding second wife goes viral

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Your a fakkit, if the next man cab't compete thats his problem not mine, and i say this as a poor student.
The fantasy western men have with polygamy is that they will be one of the fortunate few. Odds don't point in that direction, especially with the number of dudes who complain about not being able to get ONE western woman :francis:

The kinds of men who have multiple women in Africa are a lot like the ones who have access to a lot of Western women. The notion that polygamy would be better for men in general is silly.
 
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The fantasy western men have with polygamy is that they will be one of the fortunate few. Odds don't point in that direction, especially with the number of dudes who complain about not being able to get ONE western woman :francis:

The kinds of men who have multiple women in Africa are a lot like the ones who have access to a lot of Western women. The notion that polygamy would be better for men in general is silly.

I'm Somali first of all, and even though i'm western born i see my culture, and religion as morally superior.

Secondly my granddad had two wives ,and he's far from super rich as long as you can provide it all good, and also men who can't provide don't deserve wives it's just reality :yeshrug:
 

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I'm Somali first of all, and even though i'm western born i see my culture, and religion as morally superior.
So in other words, you're not interested in any kind of rational debate on it. You're just here to push your POV and call anyone who disagrees "uncompetitive" or a "fakkit". Never mind the fact that polygamous societies are inherently rigged....

Secondly my granddad had two wives ,and he's far from super rich as long as you can provide it all good, and also men who can't provide don't deserve wives it's just reality :yeshrug:
He was still able to provide. He had more than other men. In societies with limited economic mobility, especially for women, polygamy "makes sense". If the choices are to starve and die or be one of someone's wives, obviously women will choose to be a wife. But you look at places where women can work and be independent, shyt is no go. Why do you think that is? :jbhmm:
 
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So in other words, you're not interested in any kind of rational debate on it. You're just here to push your POV and call anyone who disagrees "uncompetitive" or a "fakkit". Never mind the fact that polygamous societies are inherently rigged....


He was still able to provide. He had more than other men. In societies with limited economic mobility, especially for women, polygamy "makes sense". If the choices are to starve and die or be one of someone's wives, obviously women will choose to be a wife. But you look at places where women can work and be independent, shyt is no go. Why do you think that is? :jbhmm:

No one is starving where he married his second wife it was in London :comeon:, and no i'm not here to debate with you about why my African culture is second tier to your western culture. You can love massa's way of life all you want, i will keep mine, the west encourage men to become artificial women, and to marry other men, but somehow that is seen as acceptable, these are the same people your riding for. Not to mention cuckolding, open relationships and multiple baby mothers :scust:.

I don't have too much desire personally for more than one wife, but :salute: to those brothers that can afford it, and treat them equally.
 
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So in other words, you're not interested in any kind of rational debate on it. You're just here to push your POV and call anyone who disagrees "uncompetitive" or a "fakkit". Never mind the fact that polygamous societies are inherently rigged....


He was still able to provide. He had more than other men. In societies with limited economic mobility, especially for women, polygamy "makes sense". If the choices are to starve and die or be one of someone's wives, obviously women will choose to be a wife. But you look at places where women can work and be independent, shyt is no go. Why do you think that is? :jbhmm:

Also is some countries there's more women than men, adding into account homosexuals ( Gay men are likely to be lifelong homosexuals than women, which the west pushes to experiment), men killed in war ( yes more men die in war than women :ohhh:) , and other ill or incapable men there's a huge shift in availability, one man for woman would be impossible, and many women would be left without partners.
 

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No one is starving where he married his second wife it was in London :comeon:, and no i'm not here to debate with you about why my African culture is second tier to your western culture. You can love massa's way of life all you want, i will keep mine, the west encourage men to become artificial women, and to marry other men, but somehow that is seen as acceptable, these are the same people your riding for. Not to mention cuckolding, open relationships and multiple baby mothers :scust:.

I don't have too much desire personally for more than one wife, but :salute: to those brothers that can afford it, and treat them equally.
Disgreeing with polygamy doesn't mean I am pro cuckolding or gay marriage or any of that nonsense. It's not either or.

Either way polygamy is bad news. You really only see it in poor countries, and often it causes more problems than it solves.

The link between polygamy and war

Wherever it is widely practised, polygamy (specifically polygyny, the taking of multiple wives) destabilises society, largely because it is a form of inequality which creates an urgent distress in the hearts, and loins, of young men. If a rich man has a Lamborghini, that does not mean that a poor man has to walk, for the supply of cars is not fixed. By contrast, every time a rich man takes an extra wife, another poor man must remain single. If the richest and most powerful 10% of men have, say, four wives each, the bottom 30% of men cannot marry. Young men will take desperate measures to avoid this state.

This is one of the reasons why the Arab Spring erupted, why the jihadists of Boko Haram and Islamic State were able to conquer swathes of Nigeria, Iraq and Syria, and why the polygamous parts of Indonesia and Haiti are so turbulent. Polygamous societies are bloodier, more likely to invade their neighbours and more prone to collapse than others are. The taking of multiple wives is a feature of life in all of the 20 most unstable countries on the Fragile States Index compiled by the Fund for Peace, an NGO (see chart).

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I'm Somali first of all, and even though i'm western born i see my culture, and religion as morally superior.

Secondly my granddad had two wives ,and he's far from super rich as long as you can provide it all good, and also men who can't provide don't deserve wives it's just reality :yeshrug:
and thats why Somalia is fukked.

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Angry young men twisted by religion and out of luck with women.
 

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Also is some countries there's more women than men, adding into account homosexuals ( Gay men are likely to be lifelong homosexuals than women, which the west pushes to experiment), men killed in war ( yes more men die in war than women :ohhh:) , and other ill or incapable men there's a huge shift in availability, one man for woman would be impossible, and many women would be left without partners.
If every woman should have a partner then why shouldn't every man have a partner? Polygamy doesn't give every woman a partner, it gives them some percentage. Often a very small one. And obviously it cuts many men out of the picture completely. How is that beneficial to everybody?
 

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How does it lead to decreased child welfare. I figured the children would be more then taken care of with multiple women in the home in many of these polygamy cases.
Nope.

In most cases with more than one spouse, the kids connected to the wife who isn't getting more resources end up suffering more because they aren't getting the attention and care in relation to the other kids connected to the wife with more resources.

Things are never truly equal in polygamy so the internal competition just filters down to the kids as a function of the wives competing for more stuff.
 

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I entered the Army young, I turned 18 in there. So I was a young, broke, private.

Now the Army is a self sustained society. If it were a country it wouldn't be half bad. There's a lil racism, not rampant and a lil petty crime. Because we all had at least SOMETHING.

So there are young, private females on up to senior enlisted females. Usually young females chose young males, and older enlisted chose each other. Except of course the older enlisted who preyed on the younger enlisted which was common.

So it could be hard for young lower enlisted competing with older guys who had money.

Here I was a young nikka, broke, had the minimum. All I had was my squad. Young nikkas in shape, loud, cocky, not giving a fukk. The older guys had money, but we tore their ass up physically. We dominated them in athletics. We rolled in packs while they were dolo or small in group.

So the women chose them for their money, but for the cool and fun and excitement they came to us. Our parties were lit, we kept excitement going fighting and shyt.

I got chose up by this slim thick sergeant. Ioeno she was choosing at first. She had a nikka that was a E7 or E8 driving a benz. She approached me at the club and said call her after the club. I did and she invited me to her roim that night. I smashed her up proper that night. Gave her this young, strong, vigorous beat down :jawalrus:.

Mannnnnn, I was beating her down for the longest! Rearranging that uterus. She would even say she don't know why she was stuck on me...except for the pipe. Had her risking her career with some of the stuff I got into. Told her peers I was fukkin the shyt out her. Had other older women giving me that p*ssy. I'm knocking them down!!! My youth and vigor and swag just killing the game. Broke as fukk!

I say that to say: By societies standards those broads were crazy fukkin with us young thugs. But biology...BIOLOGY...told them where it was at.

And her nikka found out and was :what: "But I have all this over here...". And he wouldn't step to me cause on some gangsta shyt he would've got his face ate by my squad.

BIOLOGY/NATURE make them hoes do it.
None of this matters.

You can still only marry one woman.

You can sleep around, because she can also sleep around.

In polygamy, theres no incentive to fukk with you because she knows its possible to actually being in a multiple partner relationship that leads to marriage.

You seem to too dense to understand this. None of this matters if all she can do is only marry one person in the present order of things.
 

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People in America already indirectly doing this shyt. Its called open relationships, and it is commonplace for a lot of people nowadays. Hell, some broads won't mess with a dude unless he already smashing a lot of other broads.
but its not marriage. Its just people "free-loving"

Marriage is the ultimate lock-down. You commit actual resources, access to property, and other things.

When you're just fukking around theres no obligation, especially if theres no kids.
 
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