Modern day polygamy in Africa: first wife feeding second wife goes viral

[Originalman]

Polygamy isn't outdated at all. It's a rational way of handling things.

Cacs pushing genderflexuals but have problems with this?

This

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

And I've already raised issues with your articles that reference studies again and again that you can't respond to!

Look, I respect that you have a different position, but you suck at defending it. You offer an article that mentions snippets of studies, points all of which I have responded to, and you haven't been able or willing to support those studies as any form of defense..

Saying "nuh uh!" isn't an answer.

Further, since you made the claim, you have to actually support the claim. I don't have to support anything since I didn't make the opening claim in this argument; you responded to me with a defense of your position. Have you not ever taken a basic critical thinking course? You should and can do better here.

You're arguing semantics.

I'm arguing policy.

There are a litany of negative policy flaws and social implications of permitting polygamy.

Further than that, you haven't accounted for any "massive economic [or] social outcomes" in any of your argument beyond the snippet that argues that children of polygamous relations. You make a series of claims in bullets in the above post...with no support for them at all.

I quoted an article that broke all of that down. Others have done so in here too.

So, I've been nice to you because we're friendly in HL, but your argument here has been garbage. You attempted to make an argument based on imaginary shyt I didn't say, and when I pointed out those strawmen, you've hung onto the info from a single source and made a series of easily-debunkable claims ("brideprice can't exist without polygamy," for example). You're great at shifting goalposts and making up arguments that I didn't say in order to try and attack said arguments.

You can do better. I know you have a brain in there. At this point, you're making claims and pointing to an article whose points I've directly attacked and of which attacks you have not even tried to rebut. Again, do better. Otherwise, I'm wasting my time here typing to you. I thought that we were going to have a productive discussion

I'm pointing out the flaws you aren't accounting for.

You flirt with the idea of polygamy because you haven't considered why we don't have a polygamist culture.

 

[Originalman]

Wouldn't mind this arrangement. There are American women who understand the power and importance of polygamy. It amazes me how marrying the same sex is seen as normal but have multiple wives isn't. Clearly this is European viewpoint but I am boggled by their mindset.

Well this is a country where folks act funny about children. But then will ride around with a dog in the front seat, take off work when they cat dies or get work insurance for they dog.

But god forbid some poor kids get government benefits.....they then want to fight.

 

[Guvnor]

Salute to the bro but I could barley keep one woman, I can't do two.

I will die from stress.

 

[Guvnor]

Thats capitalistic in nature.

Polygamy would make it worse.

Look at the IG model market.

Now add polygamy
its more than regulating the marriages. Its the other societal ills:

- increased crime
- decreased economic productivity (no dignity in male labor)
- increased risks of terrorism
- increase in rape
- increase in reported depression
- increase in healthcare risks due to competition within families such as domestic violence and intra-partner assaults
- decreased child welfare

I could go on and on.

You refuse to account for the massive economic and social outcomes that result from these policies. Yeah. Thats just called stability.

With polygamy, an apartment and a job aren't enough. Thats where the deleterious competition starts and people get hurt.

You can't keep calling things weak when I've literally provided more hardcoded statistical and referential studies than you have.

How does it lead to decreased child welfare. I figured the children would be more then taken care of with multiple women in the home in many of these polygamy cases.

 

[Dzali OG]

Have you ever had a girlfriend?

Now imagine a society where she has no incentive to casually date you.

You're young, broke, uneducated, and have no power.

Why on earth would she want to commit to you or build with you, when she can get all her needs met with a guy who has everything ready to go RIGHT NOW....and all she has to do is live with a few other women.

I entered the Army young, I turned 18 in there. So I was a young, broke, private.

Now the Army is a self sustained society. If it were a country it wouldn't be half bad. There's a lil racism, not rampant and a lil petty crime. Because we all had at least SOMETHING.

So there are young, private females on up to senior enlisted females. Usually young females chose young males, and older enlisted chose each other. Except of course the older enlisted who preyed on the younger enlisted which was common.

So it could be hard for young lower enlisted competing with older guys who had money.

Here I was a young nikka, broke, had the minimum. All I had was my squad. Young nikkas in shape, loud, cocky, not giving a fukk. The older guys had money, but we tore their ass up physically. We dominated them in athletics. We rolled in packs while they were dolo or small in group.

So the women chose them for their money, but for the cool and fun and excitement they came to us. Our parties were lit, we kept excitement going fighting and shyt.

I got chose up by this slim thick sergeant. Ioeno she was choosing at first. She had a nikka that was a E7 or E8 driving a benz. She approached me at the club and said call her after the club. I did and she invited me to her roim that night. I smashed her up proper that night. Gave her this young, strong, vigorous beat down .

Mannnnnn, I was beating her down for the longest! Rearranging that uterus. She would even say she don't know why she was stuck on me...except for the pipe. Had her risking her career with some of the stuff I got into. Told her peers I was fukkin the shyt out her. Had other older women giving me that p*ssy. I'm knocking them down!!! My youth and vigor and swag just killing the game. Broke as fukk!

I say that to say: By societies standards those broads were crazy fukkin with us young thugs. But biology...BIOLOGY...told them where it was at.

And her nikka found out and was "But I have all this over here...". And he wouldn't step to me cause on some gangsta shyt he would've got his face ate by my squad.

BIOLOGY/NATURE make them hoes do it.

 

[Blackrogue]

Left is prettier. Get your eyes checked breh

OK breh

You notice no one's cosigning you

 

[GPBear]

Welp, brehs are calling for polygamy and blame everything on african-american women

I didn't know thecoli was based in Salt Lake

 

[Wild self]

No. It's a matter of means. You really cant have polygamy without the extremely strong culture. Its impossible for America to have it. It just wouldn't work over time. Short term maybe.

People in America already indirectly doing this shyt. Its called open relationships, and it is commonplace for a lot of people nowadays. Hell, some broads won't mess with a dude unless he already smashing a lot of other broads.

 

[African Peasant]

Polygamy wouldnt work here because majority of nikkas are only worried about having 3somes and orgies. Let’s be real, most don’t give a damn about family lineage or #BlackLove Ask a Coli nikka why he wants a polygamous relationship. First response will be “unlimited 3sums”

Also, y’all want emulate these other cultures so bad but still refuse to acknowledge that homosexuality is still very much outlawed and frowned upon. Ain’t nobody having 3sums. The wives don’t even sleep in the same bed. They don’t even live in the same house. Each wife had her own crib, doesn’t work, and the husband takes care of everyone and everything. If they do live in the same house, please believe it’s a big enough crib where each wife has her own section. I’m Liberian, I’ve witnessed polygamy first hand from men in my family.

I’m actually totally fine with polygamy. I’d be down with it as long as I’m the stay at home wife. I’ll cook, clean, and take care of all the kids

If the village elders caught you with that 3sum bullshyt you might get burned on the village square for practicing witchcraft

 

[African Peasant]

This polygamy in Africa is the Islamic influence. Article dances around that and says "cultural and religious practice of polygamy" but I've yet to met a continental African who comes from a culture/ethnic that practiced polygamy pre Islam.

I'm not naive, I know that there HUNDREDS of distinct ethnic groups, and that I've not encountered people from even a fraction of them. I just think it is/was rare. Perhaps allowed for rulers and kings but not regular people.

Can somebody who has studied this expound?

My people did it (North East of Congo) and Islam did not reach us. My maternal great father had 3 wives. It was reserved to the "chiefs".

 

[Wild self]

Liberals

They want a man that was born a woman to be able to marry a woman that was born a man, but multiple wives are troublesome.

Like dude went and locked them in a basement. They want to be there. So shut up.

White Liberals are some of the biggest hypocrites. Polygamy was/is a thing of many African cultures before imperialism, and if it became a worldwide thing, the white man would be genetically wiped out cause no woman desires them outside of monetary resources. As in, they mostly are beta males that no woman wants to put her genetic code to be mixed in with.

Of course they against something that would put them in a permanent back seat to civilization as a whole.

 

[#1 pick]

People in America already indirectly doing this shyt. Its called open relationships, and it is commonplace for a lot of people nowadays. Hell, some broads won't mess with a dude unless he already smashing a lot of other broads.

Successful polygamous relationships globally look nothing like the open relationship ideals you see in America

 

[Wild self]

Successful polygamous relationships globally look nothing like the open relationship ideals you see in America

But the fact that open relationships are becoming more and more popular, is the more startling fact. Sure, it may not be arranged like in many African tribes or cultures, but that primal instinct is there.

 

[Wild self]

I entered the Army young, I turned 18 in there. So I was a young, broke, private.

Now the Army is a self sustained society. If it were a country it wouldn't be half bad. There's a lil racism, not rampant and a lil petty crime. Because we all had at least SOMETHING.

So there are young, private females on up to senior enlisted females. Usually young females chose young males, and older enlisted chose each other. Except of course the older enlisted who preyed on the younger enlisted which was common.

So it could be hard for young lower enlisted competing with older guys who had money.

Here I was a young nikka, broke, had the minimum. All I had was my squad. Young nikkas in shape, loud, cocky, not giving a fukk. The older guys had money, but we tore their ass up physically. We dominated them in athletics. We rolled in packs while they were dolo or small in group.

So the women chose them for their money, but for the cool and fun and excitement they came to us. Our parties were lit, we kept excitement going fighting and shyt.

I got chose up by this slim thick sergeant. Ioeno she was choosing at first. She had a nikka that was a E7 or E8 driving a benz. She approached me at the club and said call her after the club. I did and she invited me to her roim that night. I smashed her up proper that night. Gave her this young, strong, vigorous beat down .

Mannnnnn, I was beating her down for the longest! Rearranging that uterus. She would even say she don't know why she was stuck on me...except for the pipe. Had her risking her career with some of the stuff I got into. Told her peers I was fukkin the shyt out her. Had other older women giving me that p*ssy. I'm knocking them down!!! My youth and vigor and swag just killing the game. Broke as fukk!

I say that to say: By societies standards those broads were crazy fukkin with us young thugs. But biology...BIOLOGY...told them where it was at.

And her nikka found out and was "But I have all this over here...". And he wouldn't step to me cause on some gangsta shyt he would've got his face ate by my squad.

BIOLOGY/NATURE make them hoes do it.

Yep, a lot of dudes that get mad broads by being ignorant, stay ignorant/ underachieving cause they believe that money is more important than p*ssy. Some of those dudes that thrash broads like nothing, don't follow societal norms and do their thing. What I hate about modern society in America the most is that formal education teaches people to IGNORE biology and suppress the urges to reproduce until you get artificial money to "support" yourself. And that doesn't happen these days until you pushing 30. So these broke ass young dudes that you described in your story (including a younger version of yourself) will embrace that and thrash broads like eating steak.