I don’t have a dog in this fight but my husband has two friends that “travel” - one to Brazil and the other to Thailand of the Philippines I can’t remember.
Either way, both are what I would consider successful black men - make six figures or close and have good jobs with plenty of PTO.
The Brazil friend was married for like 10 years and started going down there after his divorce. He has a teenaged daughter. The other one has never been married and has two kids.
Based on what I have been told - black American women are so far behind other women in terms of physical looks, personality, attitude, etc. they don’t even bother dating in the U.S. and they don’t like white women and think they aren’t much better than black American women.
When I ask why it‘s so bad here they all all say the same - women have high expectations but give little to nothing in return, don’t suck dikk or are very lazy with it, care more about their jobs than their man, etc.
Idk, maybe some of that is true maybe some of it is cap but black American women cannot keep losing out to other women and think some other group of men is going to swoop in and save.
But most are too angry to even think about putting a black man first.