The problem is calling them "crazy" dudes.
Yes they did something crazy. But every man needs to know he potentially has this type of monster in him. Some men have never even been in love but will confidently tell you they would never put hands on a woman. Not knowing that it could be a woman out here that could cut you so deeply by her actions. That you hit her,want to kill yourself,or kill her.
These are things you learn about yourself through experience. Dont get me wrong,chances are none of you would probably do any of these things. But knowledge of self,awareness,understanding your temperment on drugs and alchohol vs sober. Would save alot of us,alot of grief.
Writing these people off as just "crazy" keepw us from doing valuable self reflection,understanding our astrology etc.